I lost my edge. My snark. Inspiration isn’t coming easily or at all. My writing isn’t funny! Boogers!
After the deck project was done and the crazy contractors left (and I cleaned up 87K cigarette butts), there was nothing to write about. It was a summer of little interaction with crazies. Even my family didn’t gift me with a shocking story at the reunion. Everyone was healthy and happy. That doesn’t make good press. Come on folks! Cough up a scathing scandal!
The cats have been bland. Gracie threw up blood this morning but I’m wondering if it was a sympathy barf. Last time she did that it cost me $800 to find out she was constipated. What a cat! (Note to cat lovers: I’m keeping an eye on her but whatever it is has been elusive even with blood work and x-rays.)
Today feels different. Maybe change in the air. I’m walking with my old (literally and figuratively) walking partner next week. That’s always good for a post. The following week I’m seeing a long-term friend. The fact that we have seen each other once year for the past 25 years is amazing. Prior to that we worked together for two years.
After a lull, mahjongg may resume in the next week or two. Our instructor is a hoot but that’s another post. You haven’t met her yet. Maybe it’s time.
Yesterday we saw old friends that made us laugh. A lot. Hard to get those belly laughs when it’s just the two of us. I served the most inappropriate lunch, but the male guest was grateful as it’s something he doesn’t get. (Note to self: Do not serve high sodium processed meat hoagies to a diabetic.) He had tree trunks for ankles by the time he got home but he assured me that he loved every minute of it.
There are sayings that you only learn through adversity. It applies to writing too. I could use a disaster or catastrophe to make the words flow. Preferably not to me or the cats. Something I can witness from a safe distance although the snark is better the closer it is.
I’m sorry that life is so calm it’s negatively affected your humor writing. That’s kind of a conundrum. I was kind of hoping the “gorilla man” would be back. Maybe more trips to Starbucks will give you some story fodder. 🙂
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After a long spell, I saw gorilla man on Sunday. He was his usually chatty self. He picked up a drink for his 91-year-old mom too. He went up a notch in my book.
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He must really be a character, Kate. But it’s sweet to hear about his concern for his mom. What a funny guy!
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*does*
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Well hopefully your walk this week with your former walking pal will yield some good one-liners especially if she dos not follow this blog!
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I don’t think I’ve ever told her about the blog. She’s not the kind of person who would read it. She does email and some of her financial business on-line but she’s not into any sort of social media.
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I walk with a woman at the park very occasionally and she is like that. She is 68 and uses her phone as a phone, not texting, doesn’t have a computer, has e-mail but doesn’t use it, and for me, someone who practically lives on her laptop is seems inconceivable.
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We had new garage door openers installed yesterday. Even those can work by cell. It’s a different world. To think my mom did not have a microwave! It would be overwhelming for her.
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I’ll likely cave and get a smartphone eventually and I should have done that when my flip phone died in March this year. I have not spent time trying to figure it out which doesn’t help.
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Figuring out new stuff is annoying.
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Sure is! Today somehow I turned on gridlines in Word 365. How I turned it on I don’t know, but I was in the middle of a rush and all of sudden my letter looked like the Amsler Grid my mom used to look at every morning for her eyes. 🙂
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🙂 And if you wanted gridlines, you’d spend a half hour looking for how to do that!
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That’s for sure – I sure don’t know how I hit that toggle button at the top of ribbon. It must have been a combination of errant keystrokes.
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Runaway fingers! 😉
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I know exactly what you mean! I love it when life is peaceful and pleasant, but that’s not great blog fodder, is it 😉
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It doesn’t work for me. I need to be snarky for it all to work!
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I hope for it’ll be something humorous and adventurous rather than adversity, but I do get the greater challenge. I’ve been dry for a couple of weeks. You just keep posting, Kate. You’re a trooper! – Marty
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I’m just plain nuts! 🙂
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I always get a laugh out of your posts. I actually count on them after a tough time. I’m sure the cats won’t disappoint and will do something funny and /or stupid soon!
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I’d like to know what happened to the mouse that was in the house a month ago. They no longer stare at the treadmill (under which said mouse was living) yet I haven’t seen mouse parts (my cats never eat the whole thing) and nothing stinks. Cats! You gotta love them!
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I know how you feel about writing. When I have snark in my soul, my blog posts are popular. But when I write something nice, pleasant, people aren’t as interested– yet I can’t always be snarky, can I?
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I ask myself that question all the time. The snarky ones are almost the most popular. Yet, snark is a gift that doesn’t show up everyday. At least not in my writing! 😉
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Hoagies? I need to know more about these.
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They are evil jumbo sandwiches with a big bready roll and all the unhealthiest cold cut meats out there that are also the tastiest like salami and capicola. Lots of cheese, dressing and also lettuce, tomatoes and onions (and maybe other veggies to try to make them healthy). Yum! Some people call them submarine sandwiches.
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I don’t eat sandwiches unless they’re made of my special low carb bread. But if I did, I would totally eat hoagies!
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They are good but you have to like high fat meats and cheeses (and of course the occasional tomato slice to make it healthy!).
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Sounds wonderful! I might skip the tomato, though!
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Yeah, you don’t want to get too healthy.
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It’s too bad when we only have our disasters to write about. I never seem to run out of them. I’d say don’t complain too loudly or your muse might hear you and give you what you ask for. LOL Go somewhere. A trip is always good for a story or two.
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You would think that every day living is full of enough disasters.
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Hope you get your snark back soon. Life is dull without excitement in YOUR life.
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Yesterday’s excitement was the beloved husband spraying the house foundation to keep out the mice (which is probably too late). It smells so bad but it works. I think there is one mouse inside. At least there was one a month ago. I didn’t see it but I can tell from the activity of the cats. Never saw body parts so I don’t know what happened to it.
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No body parts! Eventually you’d smell anything dead.
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That’s what I thought. Maybe it let itself out or is in the workshop section where the cats can’t access.
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Fred and Louise look a super fun couple. There must have been an extra story in there somewhere!
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They are a fun couple. They are realtors so they have lots of stories.
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Your posts always make me smile! Hope Gracie is OK.
Yay on getting together with old friends and having belly laughs, they are the absolute best! 🙂
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Thanks! I love the big laughs that make your belly hurt!
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Yes, your belly hurting and tears streaming down your face. 🙂
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Oh yes, I forgot about the tears! That’s good too!
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Indeed! 😂
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Even when you think you have nothing interesting to say you are still entertaining.
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Thanks for that. Sometimes it doesn’t seem like it to me.
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I still enjoy your posts:) Hope Gracie is ok. Enjoy these peaceful moments because they never last long.
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That’s a good way to look at it.
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No, you are still funny even when you complain you are not! Give yourself a break. Enjoy the lull. Ok, you always make your life seem more interesting – you move to a nice home and then redecorate, remodel and have a deck built. Guess you need something new to shake up your life, but beware what you ask for.
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No, nothing new please! I’ve been “newed” out!
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I had such a day yesterday. Inspiration wouldn’t come, in fact I don’t think it even woke up. Better today……… I think, though I still haven’t written much.
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We all have days like that. Sometimes it seems like weeks or months!
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🙂
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Well, sometimes boring is okay because it usually doesn’t cause you stress or a financial output. Enjoy the quiet. Your Starbucks visits are usually good for a note or two. 🙂
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Since the SB renovation, there’s been a different vibe. Not sure if I like it. It may be more related to the annual fall turnover as workers go back to school.
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Hmmm… We moved into our house Sept 2020 and I am just now getting my funny back and losing a large bag of anxiety. I am starting to feel comfortable here.* You still have your funny and you write very good posts and I think I always find something to smile or laugh about. I do think I see some great opportunities listed here today… mahjongg instructor! I hope Gracie is not throwing up anymore blood.
*I still miss Missou-ree though.
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It’s too bad there is no high speed train to travel back and forth!
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Yes… that would be perfect!
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Here’s hoping Gracie gets back to feeling much better and, in the words of Hercule Poirot, the little grey cells start turning again soon. Why is it that the catastrophic makes for what’s thought of as good reading? 🤔
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I’m not sure but it does! Not a bad catastrophe, just a small one.
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You always manage to sneak in a snark, even in this one. I’ve got plenty of stories to be funny snarky about over here. If I was your walking partner, I’d give you a lot of material. And I talk as much as your partner, too. 🤪
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As much as I complained about her talking, I miss her. I hate walking at the mall without her. It’s boring.
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fwiw, I thought you wrote beautifully (and that you were/are funny) all along. Glad you are feeling more you-ish, though.
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Good to know. I wasn’t enjoying my own posts as much and I felt like I was writing about the small material.
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And I could use anything outside of health issues. Don’t want to write about it! I was surprised there weren’t funny reunion stories but that could be a dicey post…
Zoe threw up blood several times one morning. On a Saturday. So after an expensive emergency visit, the vet said there are many reasons why a cat might throw up blood. We did not do $800 in testing. We did her usual steroid and some antibiotics for the heck of it and there has been no blood since.
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They gave me steroids too but I can’t pill her. She is 8 lbs. of sheer terror when it comes to medicating. The only thing I can give her is laxatone because I smear it on her fur. I can’t trick her with food either because she’s not a consistent eater and I’m afraid one of the other cats would end up eating her medicated food. I suspect that she was working too hard to get some hair up because the blood was bright red and not a lot. Then again it’s a mystery of life. There are some stories I can’t write about unless I had an anonymous blog.
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Zoe gets a steroid shot every one to six months. Closer to one these days. She also gets a long-acting antibiotic shot at times. Fortunately for me, since some things require pill antibiotics, she loves Greenies pill pockets. Heck, Charlie was so jealous she was getting a treat that I had to give him empty pill pockets. Good luck with your little demon. A former cat of mine was like that and I couldn’t even get laxatone in or on her.
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I asked about a steroid shot and the vet was worried that it would be too much for her.
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Hugs and cuddles for you both. But it does seem to me – not a vet – that if you can’t get pills down her and she needs a steroid, it might be worth trying the shot. I clearly am not saying insist on it. Kitties are frustrating as we try to guess what’s wrong and what might help.
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I assumed it was because she was so small that he didn’t want to try it or he didn’t think it was serious enough. The first vet was the one who gave me the steroids (when I foolishly thought that I could actually get them down her throat!). He didn’t seem excited about steroids because I wondered afterward if they could be compounded into a past that I smear on her fur like the laxatone. Maybe the dosage wouldn’t be precise enough.
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A little problem at a safe distance is a writer’s dream.
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Yes it is!
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Maybe you need to go people watching at the mall. Someone is bound to do something stupid. 😀
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The mall doesn’t hold the same allure it once did. I never thought I would lose my love of shopping. I still like having new things but I don’t enjoy the process.
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Meanwhile, I had an ‘adventure’ of a serious fall which resulted in, among other things, a black eye and an entire jawline and chin covered in purple bruises (starting to yellow now a week later) and that’s my excuse for not blogging. I forgive your muse for an impromptu sabbatical and hope it will be a short one!
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My muse occasionally goes to the Bahamas where she has drinks at the tiki bar! Wish I were with her!
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we can invite you… no idea what happens next here, but it is something from disaster catalog like always ;O)
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I know! I love your DIY adventures but almost anything ends up weird!
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“May you live in interesting times”. There is a reason this is considered a curse! Enjoy the lull. Like bad times, these times never last either. (Bummer).
Deb
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It’s a love-hate relationship isn’t it. Wishing for something to happen yet not wanting to bear the consequences.
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“The closer it is, the better the snark” should be the Official Blogger Motto.
I look forward to the mahjongg instructor!
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She is a hoot. Her instructions often include the phrase “now don’t lie to me!” which comes after she explains something and asks if we “got” it. Beautiful curly dark hair with heavy eyeliner. A hoot!
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