One sure sign of aging is the length of recovery time needed between events. Last week was a beach vacation and this week the granddaughters are flying in. Both events are greatly anticipated and also exhausting.
The beach vacation isn’t a typical vacation where you go someplace and people do things for you. We take our towels, linens and food. It’s very upscale camping. The house is wonderful with an expansive deck which is a perfect place for happy hour but it comes with a lot of planning and after the trip cleanup.
For the granddaughters we are planning fun activities (Note to self: Take vitamins). We’ll eat out and on the go. That’s wonderful for me.
The best part is shopping with the girls. They get to pick out an outfit and a toy each.
They are eight (going on whatever). As fraternal twins they are distinctly different in tastes and interests. It’s always fun to see where their interests are at each stage.
Last year we spent a bit of time selecting school outfits. Their choices were extremely different. One selected knit jeans with a top that was coordinated but not wildly colorful. The other went for an “island look” long dress which we matched with a bolero sweater. One outfit was sedate and the other almost party-like matching their personalities perfectly.
As the youngest child in my immediate and extended family, I have never spent a lot of time with kids. I instinctively know what to do when I encounter a kitten or puppy but children are a mystery to me. They don’t like to be scratched behind the ear and they certainly don’t use a litter box.
Somehow I muddle through the encounters and learn. My niece (close to my age) has four wonderful kids who are all adults now. I have great memories of each one. They were and are so very different in styles and personalities.
When looking at a litter of kittens, not only are the colors different but the personalities too. You just have to watch to see it. Children from the same family are like that too except they don’t have different color fur.
It’s amazing that people from the same gene pool end up so different but that’s what makes people interesting.
I’m off to take my vitamins and prepare for the next round of activities! Are margaritas a vitamin? There must be some fruit in there somewhere.