It’s been a grim January in many ways but it always is. Although it’s my birthday month, many of the most tragic things in my life happened in January including losing both parents (in different years). When you are a moderate optimist like I am, you do things to switch it up. Many decades ago, I started to celebrate Groundhog Day. Not for any weather or rodent related reason. (You know that groundhog really can’t predict weather! That whole thing is a scheme to somehow make money.)
January is over and I’m grateful if no one I knew died. My relatives die in freezing cold weather where your butt turns into an ice cube at the cemetery. (Note to self: No outdoor celebrations after my death. Just a margarita party in July!) Our coldest (but not snowiest) weather is in January so that’s done. You start to see chocolate bunnies and valentine hearts in the stores. How cool is that!
It signals a shift inside me just like the shift to holiday time in the fall but better and without pumpkin spice. Not that I don’t like the whole Halloween-Thanksgiving-Christmas thing but I like spring better. For me it signifies renewal of life. And S’mores.
Since my auto accident last summer (and I’m sure my aging has something to do with it) I don’t like driving at night. My eyes aren’t as sharp and reflexes as fast. The days are getting lighter longer so more activities. Outdoor walks may return! Super yay!
Coupled with the pandemic, I was almost reclusive in December and January. Even the cats were suggesting I get a life. Today I will dance the snoopy dance of life and enjoy every moment.
Phil, you silly rodent, may you have a great day as you get ripped out of your warm comfy nest to predict the unpredictable!
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I’m loving that last line…..it makes me wonder what the groundhog actually thinks about the whole thing!
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Sheer silliness!
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Between the weather and the pandemic, it’s safer to stay indoors, but the weather is messing with my miles. I’ve tried to get some bike riding done, but it lacks the ambiance of the Park and the begging critters. The long-range forecast across the U.S. wasn’t very nice for the upcoming months and I was kinda sorta sorry I read it.
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You will catch up with your miles. You always do. This is the worst time.
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I remind myself it will get better … 11 more months to meet my goal. February may be the shortest month, but it’s the longest month weather-wise. Our groundhog had her prediction today and she is more accurate than Punxatawney Phil … she said six more weeks of Winter as well.
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We in the much warmer west look at news reports of the snow in the east and shake our heads, knowing we aren’t hardy enough to even survive that much cold! I can only imagine how the first signs of thaw and spring must cheer the heart! I don’t think a groundhog can truly predict weather, but I must admit I still cross my fingers for an early spring!
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And we look at your forecasts and wonder if our plants could survive your drought. I’d send rain if I could.
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I saw (onine) a t-shirt that said “If you can read this, that is enough socializing for the day” There are hermits, and then there are HERMITS … 🙂
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I pick up a Starbucks mocha every day. I preorder so I go in and pick it up. Enough socializing for the day! Sometimes I even say “good morning!” So exhausting…
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I feel like a hermit anymore. It’s not that I don’t want to venture forth, it’s there’s nowhere to go safely. As for a groundhog not predicting weather, are you sure? Yesterday the little bugger said 6 more weeks of winter, and today Winter Storm Landon is here. Just saying.
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co-incidence I’m sure! We are getting rain today and I believe more rain or something weird (but not snow) tomorrow. Frozen fog? Something I never heard of before. We’ll see.
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I kinda like January. It is close enough to Christmas and the holidays that I can enjoy that festive mood without the drama and ridiculousness of what goes on in December. I just stopped listening to Christmas music and I am still watching the virtual Yule Log. I got married in January 48 years ago so that makes it fun to celebrate with good food and wine. I am with you on driving at night.
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You also live in a place that isn’t as cold as a witch’s boob in January! 🙂 That would help. I’d love to continue the Christmas thing but I’m usually very done with it by early January. I am now into spring despite crummy weather coming our way. Today it is raining. Better than snow.
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LOL… very true about the weather here. BUT I felt that way about January in Missouri when it was cold as a “witch’s boob!”… LOL!
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What an optimist you are!
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OhMyGosh nobody has ever suggested I was an optimist! Thank you, Kate!
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Ok, maybe just about January!
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Since they started keeping records, our friend Phil has only been correct 40% of the time. Then again, that’s about how well the learned weather professionals do, so there’s that…
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Including the almanac, I haven’t found anything that predicts the weather better than my bones.
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I agree! February is the turning point and a short ride to March.
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I’m almost giddy with anticipation!
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I prefer spring as well. None of my animal friends come to the window to visit in winter. I guess they don’t like walking in the snow and I don’t blame them. I need to find a date for V day though!
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Aww Suki, have you tried Tinder? They must have a feline version! If not I’m sure one of my cats will oblige if it includes a sumptuous dinner following by some ‘nip.
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Oh, I can show a gal a good time! I know a great sushi place! I will look into the online thing. I’m sure the animal kingdom has something out there!
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Happy Groundhog Day!! Enjoy the coming of spring 🙂
It’s a ways off for me here, but it’s on the way!
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My brows will furrow with every snow prediction between now and April but today we have mild temps and rain. I’m good with that.
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How exactly do you celebrate groundhog’s day? A groundhog piñata full of Starbuck’s gift cards? Dress up as your favorite groundhog? Write poems to groundhogs? Sing them songs? Inquiring minds want to know!
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I “celebrated” with a pizza and beer although I would have had that anyway. I like the idea of a pinata full of Starbuck’s cards. My kinda celebration!
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Now you just have to figure out how to get Starbucks to sponsor the event!
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🙂
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What?! There’s no consistent correlation between a groundhog seeing its shadow and the subsequent arrival time of spring-like weather?!! Next thing you will be telling me that there is no Santa Claus or Easter Bunny!
I am totally with you in cheering on Spring!!
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There’s no Great Pumpkin either. Life is cruel!
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I am 52 and have trouble driving in the dark. Happy Groundhog Day!
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I started young like that and it was cataracts. Even after they came out, it was much better but the aging effect on eyes cannot be reversed. I just plain old cannot see as clearly or react as quickly as I once could. Maybe that’s why Uber is so popular. I hunker in mostly during the winter.
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What I don’t like about this time of year is never knowing what the weather will be like. It can start out warm and in a few hours, it’s cold. The next day, cold then warm. Start out sunny then downpour rains. Never know what to wear if going out.
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Our weather doesn’t quite turn on a dime but we have had some very unusual 30 degree swings in a 12 hour period.
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You’re talking to a woman who counts the days until spring. 46 in case you’re wondering. 🙂 I also find it ludicrous that anyone would look to a ground hog for anything. I can’t believe in 2022 we’re promoting predictions based on something I trap in my garden. 🙂
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I know. I’m laughing here. I had a lot of groundhogs in my last yard and they only they can predict is when your flowers/vegetables will be ripe for eating.
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Now, that I’d buy into. 🙂
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January isn’t my favorite either. I’ve been so happy that the sun has been setting a little bit later every day and we are slowly moving toward March 13 when we go back to Daylight Savings Time (YAY!). I have no idea if Phil saw his shadow or not, but I’m ready for spring!
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Me too! I love Daylight Savings Time. There are movements to stop it but I just love the extra light at night.
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Yay for Groundhog Day! We’ve passed the midpoint of winter. I don’t like driving at night either…and for me it is definitely due to changes in eyesight due to aging. Darkness and wet roads are the worst. I’ve tried yellow lenses to cut down on glare and they do help, but I still don’t like it.
Deb
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I should try them. Will it help make the deer more visible? 🙂
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I have my doubts. In my experience, by the time you see them it’s usually already too late. 😢
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That’s what I fear.
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I love that cute picture of kitty peeking over the balcony! January never used to bother me as I considered it a refresh month but after losing mom this year, that may change.
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It’s funny how things change when something important happens.
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It’s astounding how silly the whole Groundhog prognostication thing is. Wake up basically a large member of the squirrel family (seriously, can anyone trust a squirrel for anything real?) and with a straight face say spring will (more often than not) be in 6 weeks (I just need to look outside at the foot of snow that fell yesterday). Umm, I could have told you that by looking at the calendar. Me thinks this whole Candlemas tradition must have happened because it was a slow news cycle. Stay warm and enjoy those few extra moments of daylight every day. I think now is as good a time as any to bring home a bouquet of tulips instead of believing in a rodent.
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This is the time of year that I start to buy tulips, daffodils or other springy flowers. Makes my heart sing! Sorry about the snow. We are having some sort of rain-sleet-snow mix Friday through part of the weekend. Yuck!
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Did you mention CHOCOLATE? 😀
I’m surprised “they” don’t try to sell Groundhog Peeps and Chocolate Groundhogs while encouraging the masses to send Happy Groundhog’s Day cards.
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I am too. I’d buy chocolate groundhogs! 🙂
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My horrible month is always March. It was my mother’s favorite month, and she died on the first day of spring. It’s when my pets die, or I get laid off, or the Pandemic really takes off.
This is probably why I like fall so much better!
I’m glad you made it to February and chocolate hearts intact.
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I have a litany of things that happened in January. No other month is quite like that but I can understand your March well. I only lost one pet in January and technically it was NYE but it cast a dark spot on my January.
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Yes. I am always grateful when the bad anniversary month is over. Bad stuff happens in other months, but it doesn’t feel as inevitable.
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January flew by in a blur. I’m counting the days until our hummies return!
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We all have “that thing” that makes it spring!
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We’ll still have a lot more icy winter weather coming our way but my mood is lighter already having survived January. I will be happy to return to taking walks with my husband and ending up at the little cafe in town afterward and eating outdoors at favorite restaurants……bring on the Spring!
Hugs, Pam
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The mood does get lighter after January. February is a short month and spring starts in March. Maybe it’s all in our heads but it works.
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Hi Kate – I can relate to your night driving scenario. In addition, I am getting so tired of erratic drivers that my vehicle lease is up next March and I am likely going to just turn the vehicle in and walk away (to an awaiting cab!). Driving used to be fun, but not anymore and, for the few times that I really need a vehicle, I can get a cab and save my vehicle insurance, gas and maintenance money!! I shall miss the freedom to go wherever, whenever … but it will be Limos and extra treats for Colin!!!! 🙂
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I get that. Even dinners out are fraught with the “drive home.” Not that we can really do that during the pandemic. One thing I miss about our old house is the location. It was much more convenient.
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The winter months are hard for me too. We put up some multi-colored twinkle lights on the front porch for Christmas and I’m not taking them down yet . When our walking the dogs at night it is so nice to see the lights that are still up. I’ll take them down, maybe, after Valentine’s Day when spring looks closer and the days get less gray and grim!
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When I worked it was always so depressing to drive home from work after people turned off their holiday lights. It was just dark! We always kept our window candles in until the time change.
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I like that idea! It cheers me to see lights in the dark this time of year. In summer I don’t mind the dark at all, but this time of year we need all the light we can find.
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