Happy birthday Dad! — Today is my dad’s birthday. He would be well over a 100 if he were alive. He played the accordion. I always wished I had a photo of him playing.
It ain’t red – I finally bought a new car. This is not the ideal time and there weren’t a lot of selections. I liked my old car (until the day the brakes didn’t work) so I looked first at that model. I could get a new one with everything I wanted or a 3 year old one with 35K miles. The old one was $3K more than the new one so it was a no brainer. Neither were red. I will be driving a sedate old people’s color car. Boo! The good news is it wheels and working brakes and I’ll hopefully have it by the end of the month.
Speaking of wheels – I have been driving the beloved husband’s minivan when I need a car which is not all that often. It’s a lot like driving the Hindenburg and we all know how that ended.
That’s weird – I used to buy my birdseed at a farm feed store. The price was the best around. Since we moved the feed store is a journey so I was looking for someplace more local to get sunflower seeds. Walmart had a price equal to the feed store which is at least $5/bag less than most other places. I get it in 40 lb. bags. I decided to have it shipped rather than picking up in the local store which is about five minutes away. I live on the east coast and it was in stock locally. They shipped it from Sacramento, California — way, way on the other coast. I almost felt bad for not picking it up. Almost.
I’ll never believe an eye witness – We drove past the scene of my accident. In my head I have a vivid picture of what the area looked like. I was way off. I could have sworn that there was at least 3 to 4 foot of vegetation that I drove through before I hit the pole. Nope. It was set just inside the curb. When I had the accident the weeds were high. Now it’s mowed and looks like a lawn (with weeds). This has changed my opinion of eye witnesses.
So how was your week?
Well the next car will be red and hopefully by that time, they’ll have computer chip issues and all the other bugaboos as a result of the pandemic will be in the rear-view window. I took accordion lessons for three years before we moved to the States, so from age seven to ten. We used to give recitals at nursing homes and for our parents as well. When we moved here, there were no music stores or otherwise offering accordion lessons so I had to stop, but the accordion is still in its case, in the basement. I played a mean “Lady of Spain” back in the day. My father insisted on me learning the accordion – he was German, so maybe he thought I’d join an oom-pah-pah band and become famous one day. 🙂
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Well the new car is not red and it may be my last car. I don’t change them out often. Too bad you don’t have a video of you playing!
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I keep my cars awhile too Kate. I had the Regal for 21 years and this car is 11 years old and only 8,724 miles on it. I glance at the odometer every time as I still try to walk more than I drive. I don’t have a video of me playing – no videos back then and I’ve not picked it up to play in years, but here is a picture in a post I did a while ago – my pictures were really small then, so you have to click it … I had just gotten that accordion. You begin with a “starter accordion” which is much smaller and only 12 chord buttons and a shorter keyboard. This was an adult-sized accordion, heavy and awkward to handle and I was only eight years old:
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That post was before I followed you. I tried to comment but it wouldn’t let me. WP usually closes comments after a period of time. Good picture though although the accordion was almost as big as you!
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WP is wonky sometimes isn’t it? Yes, that accordion was/is big – maybe 25 pounds and it has heavy leather shoulder straps to make it easier to play. The most-difficult part at that age was manipulating the bellows because it took some strength to pull them all the way open, then closed again, as it was such a heavy instrument. The bellows control how loud the music is.
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Such a big instrument for such a small person.
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Surprised it didn’t pull me over like I was top heavy. I don’t imagine Dolly Parton would be a good accordion player. 🙂
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🙂 🙂 🙂
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It’s so true about eye witnesses! Very scary really.
Happy birthday to your dad and to your memories of your dad.
So what color is the car?
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Some fancy name but essentially it’s charcoal. I didn’t understand about eye witnesses until it happened to me and that is scary.
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Oh pretty. I got gray because that’s what they had. I wish we had colors like they had in the 50s.
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Today’s choices seem to be white, back and shades of gray.
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Very nice picture of your Dad 🙂 Congratulations on finding a new car! There’s a real shortage now, at least up here. There too?
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Yes. For the model I wanted I had my choice of 3 new and one old. All of the new are in transit and not at the site. The old one was more expensive than the new ones. By the time I left the dealership (I was there for about an hour) all of the new ones had a deposit on them.
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Wow! Glad you got one and didn’t have to pay more for a used one!
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I once thought we could be a one car family (just hubby and me) until I no longer had a car and had to rely on his. He is always ok with me taking his car but I didn’t like having to ask. I’m glad you will have your own transportation again. I will have my own again soon too.
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Original plan was to have one until the end of the year. We may have done that but I hate driving the mini-van. I’m boogered up enough about driving without not feeling safe in a car so I went looking. It’s grim out there so I was lucky that I found one that had everything I wanted except for the color.
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Congratulations on your new car! I make a crummy eye-witness as well (although in my mind I am the ideal witness, seriously).
That’s a wonderful photo of your Dad.
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The eye witness thing was an eye opener for me. I couldn’t believe how wrong I was. Good thing there was no death penalty involved! 🙂
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I’m so glad you were able to get a new car, and it is interesting how expensive used cars have become. Crazy! And it’s also good to hear that you’re getting out there and driving some. It must be very anxiety-producing at times, but hopefully with the new car you’ll feel very secure.
And your dad sure was a handsome guy, Kate. You always speak so lovingly of your parents, and I’ve enjoyed knowing a little about them.
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If I won the lottery, I’d have a driver. I’ve never really enjoyed driving like some people do. For me it’s a way to get somewhere I want to be. My parents are long gone but I still miss them.
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Happy birthday to your father, Kate! I remember that photo.
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I have very few photos of my dad and almost all are blurry or aged.
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Happy Birthday in Heaven to your Dad! Congrats on the new car. I have heard that people in red cars are more likely to get speeding tickets- at least that is one plus to not getting red. 🙂
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Except for 4 years in the middle, I’ve driven red cars for 20 years without a speeding ticket. Either I’m a good driver or lucky.
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So much is happening with you these days. At least there are rewards; the new car and the room reno is almost done.
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Too much. I’d love some boring please.
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Your dad’s a good-looking guy.
Last time I bought a new can, I thought something like robin egg blue would be nice, but most of the cars were white, black, beige, or grey. I ended up with white. My daughter was able to find sort of a neon-green car. She’ll never lose it in a parking lot.
Same daughter (the lawyer) talks about how unreliable witness testimony is.
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My advice to anyone on a jury is to take an eyewitness account with a grain of salt. There was no color choice to speak of. Two cars were in transit — one was white and one charcoal. I took the charcoal.
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Congratulations on the new car! I avoid driving John’s minivan. I think I’ve driven it twice in three years..
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A woman after my own heart.
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Gone but not forgotten – that’s a good thing. Happy wheels!
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Anxious to take possession!
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We were both contacted by attorneys after we witnessed a motorcycle accident two years ago. Both of us gave conflicting information, which apparently made no one happy. So, yeah, I agree about witness accounts. Tricky indeed! I was once given a minivan for a rental car, and I had to exchange it after driving all of one hour. I suppose I could have gotten used to it eventually, but why bother if you don’t have to?
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Yes! I would never want to rent one! That’s funny that the two of you gave conflicting info but since I’ve experienced it, I know it happens.
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What a handsome man your Dad was!
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He was.
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The new car I bought 3 months ago was cheaper than the used one (a year old model with 4300 miles on it). I asked the GM why and he said “leverage.’ Don’t know what that means but got the new model with 7 miles and more upgraded features. So weird but color me happy about it.
Having worked for the DA for a number of years, I know first hand that eye witness reports can be slightly exaggerated. Whenever in an accident or witnessing one, it’s best to write down your initial thoughts right away. They tend to be far more accurate than recollections after the fact. Our brains tend to create a whole other reality.
P.S. Happy BD to your Dad in heaven.
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And take pictures! I didn’t and wish I would have but I was shaken up.
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Yup, this is where adrenaline is not your friend-it’s just trying to get you through a traumatic event.
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It’s great for pain though. I didn’t hurt until 12 hours later.
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😊
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I thought the same as Pam ~ your dad had a great twinkle in his eye! Good luck getting the new car and getting used to the new car.
I’ve driven BFF’s Toyota Sienna mini van about 5x . . . in 15 years! It’s like riding in an elephant.
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Exactly! I don’t mind riding in it but driving it is different.
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My mom went to law school when I was 8 and some days I went with her (snow days, school holidays). The best day was when a guy in a gorilla suit ran into class, picked up some notebooks, ran around the room, put them down, and ran out. The professor then had the students describe “the gorilla’s” actions and appearance. Everyone had a different memory of what he did and even his height.
This is why prosecutors like camera footage!
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There was a guy who stopped to help me. I don’t even have a vivid enough memory of him to identify him in a lineup.
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The photo of your dad is a nice one. Nothing formal and uptight about him. As for driving anything that’s not a sedan, I hear you. They’re all like the Hindenburg to me. Too big!
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My small SUV is comfy. I had a Camry and loved that too.
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Interesting. I need to rethink SUVs.
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For me the biggest difference was that you sit higher. Also there is no lip at the trunk cargo area that you have lift over. Years ago that was important to me as I hauled mulch and other heavy bags. I don’t do that anymore.
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Good points. Thanks.
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I’m glad the car stuff is taken care of for now. And (from your response to another note) that this reno is nearing its conclusion. Lots of things off the to-do list. Always satisfying.
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Yes, every time there is a cross off, something new comes on. Sasha is overdue for shots. Morgan is going in for hers in two weeks. Morgan is easy but Sasha is never happy on these trips.
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I bet Sasha sings the song of her people all the way to and from the vet’s office.
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Yes. She is meek in the office but I get a scolding on the way and back. She’s a contralto.
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Your Dad looks like a fun guy with a twinkle in his eye – I bet he was a great accordian player. Put a checkmark next to “GET CAR” on your to do list – congratulations! How’s the reno project coming along?
Hugs, Pam
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He was a great guy. Reno almost done (this one at least). Looking good but need the finish trim and french doors installed. Just a couple days yet. Car check!
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