
That’s my my mom on the right with my two brothers, her sister and my cousin and my grandmother. Maybe taken in the late 1930s. It was before I was born.
Happy Mother’s Day to the moms! — I’m not a people mom but I have furry critters who depend on me. Unfortunately, they don’t give gifts (hairballs don’t count!). I treat myself occasionally. I deserve it. We all do!
It was a peaceful week. – The good news is that it’s peaceful. The bad news is that it doesn’t give me blog posts. I didn’t trip over any stupid people either and that’s amazing.
Trying something new – Starbucks ran a $3 afternoon drink special. I’m a morning coffee person but occasionally I’ll try something new, especially if it’s on special. I had a Toasted Coconut Espresso with ube foam. It was delicious! Most fancy drinks are too sweet for me, but the strong espresso balanced that. The ube foam, (which is made from yams) gave it just a slight touch of sweet. That was Friday. They stopped promoting this drink so I’m not sure if it’s still available. I am the kiss of death. If I like something, it’s gone! (Still yearning for their wonderful s’mores Frappuccino from a decade ago! Marshmallow whipped cream yum!)
Getting freaking old – These days when I get up, I wonder which part will hurt. We are an equal opportunity pain machine here rotating from one part to another. I did yard work early in the week. The next day my left arm was stiff and sore. I couldn’t put pressure on my elbow. That took two days to clear up, then I slept weirdly and now my neck is frozen in one position. I’m like a mummy that must turn their entire upper body from side to side to see. I’m sure when this heals it will be something else. I’m still on the right side of the ground so all is good and I shouldn’t be complaining at all.
Spring’s havoc update! – We had a hard late frost in April which killed off the new growth on my locust trees. There are some green shoots coming out but they look very sad. They look like dead trees with plastic green leaves glued on here and there haphazardly. I had a tree guy out and there is nothing to be done but wait until they recover. He felt confident they would recover but growth will be stunted this year. In the meantime, all the weedy trees in the wooded area made it just fine!
So how was your week?

You managed a week without encountering stupid?! Oooh, tell me your secret! Happy belated Mother’s Day to a pawsome kitty mom.
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Mostly I was at home doing yard work. Never met a stupid squirrel.
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Ha! Good point.
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I can so relate to “which part hurts now???” Past managing with Advil, not that my liver allows that anyway. Love your posts.
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I take it sparingly.
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Happy Mom’s Day, Kate! Mom to all the lucky cats that became Sassy Cats forever. I hope you had a wonderful day.
When I get up I hurt all over… old bones. As I get up it all gets better. Getting up and down off the floor is another thing… and getting in the tub.
I hope your locust trees come back. We had three freezes here and the palms took a beating. It will take time for the palm fronds to drop and grow new. They say nothing can kill green things here in Florida… “just cut them back!” 🙄
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Wow, three freezes! Yikes! Yes, getting up is the worst time. Things (at least some things) settle down after that.
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I’m using an ice pack on my back right now, and I’m dealing with a stiff neck on the left side, and I have no idea what caused it. Aging is not for the faint of heart. Glad your trees are going to make it even if it may not be a pretty transition.
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The worst is not knowing what causes stuff!
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Animals that need doctors, dental, feeding, nursing, cleaning up after, leave their toys lying around all the time, and need lots of attention ARE kids! Worse, they are perpetual toddlers who never learn to puke in the toilet. So, you are a mother and I hope you had a wonderful Mother’s Day!
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And the worry! Oh the worry when they can’t tell you what’s wrong but you know something is.
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OMG yes!!!!
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I sadly have that skills too… since I’m an ole bat, I better should avoid “spring” and “fall” that seasons are no longer made for me LOL
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So true!
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The weather is pretty crazy … yesterday it got to 72, so the heat spike caused a thunderstorm with high winds and we were supposed to get hail but didn’t – whew! Tonight through tomorrow morning we have a freeze advisory. Years ago when we changed from using plastic bags in the 32-gallon garbage can for yard waste to paper bags, before I knew there was a gizmo you could buy to keep the bag open, I twisted my neck at an awkward angle and messed my neck up. Two co-workers who had neck injuries used a chiropractor and recommended it … by the third appointment within five days, the pain was gone, but I could not get past how he grabbed my head and twisted my neck and the noise it made. Never again!
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I have a chiropractor I got to when needed but it’s never convenient. Either he’s not open when I need him or I’m not available when he is.
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There must be a lot of people with neck and back injuries these days. I wonder if it is because people sit at computer more than ever before. I had frozen shoulder a few years ago because of the way I sit at the table at the laptop. Putting the laptop on a short riser and using a wireless keyboard has helped a lot. I did not opt for PT as my mom had frozen shoulder from using a cane and went through PT and we got the heated packs and did cold therapy on her neck/shoulders and it didn’t help.
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Frozen shoulder can take a while. Usually my stiff neck works itself out within a few days.
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Yes it does take a while. It is problematic again because I’m reading more than I have in many years (next-door neighbor has been home since Christmas from surgery – I’m hoping she is retired so it is mercifully quiet) and I’m bending my head when watercolor painting. So a different type of “crick” in the neck. I’m working on it to figure out a “fix”.
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Good luck with that.
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Yes, I need to nip this one in the bud like last time.
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Hope your neck is better soon. Happy Mother’s Day to a wonderful cat mom! XO
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Aww thanks! You are a great cat mom too!
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Maybe next year they’ll have the toasted coconut espresso with ube foam again for a week or two. Was the foam purple. (Ube is a purple yam.)
One of my Mothers’ Day gifts was a bag of various kinds of pure ground cacao to brew as coffee. I hope it will be good–a little variety for my usual coffee.
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Yes, it’s purple. I looked this morning and they still have it with a note that it’s nearing the end. I’m sure that’s because I like it.
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That’s a lovely family photo. I’m not a people mom either, but I’m a mom to my cat. Happy Mother’s Day!
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Thanks. I don’t have a lot of photos of my grandmother or my mother as a young woman.
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Mom can relate to that “what part will hurt today” comment. Happy Mother’s Day.
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Yes, we never thought it would happen to us!
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My week sucked, but nothing compared with what my wife of 67 years suffered through! She underwent her third skin cancer operation (melanoma) on her temple. They claim they got all the cancer, but they had to graft a section of skin on her shoulder to replace the large amount of skin removed during the procedure. She is a good soldier, however, and today she is recovering nicely with pain and bleeding notably subsided. What a trooper! I envey her tenacity and courage . . . . . .
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There is not a lot of fat in the temple area. I don’t know if that makes it better or worse. Yes, she is a trooper.
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Those feral trees are tough! There’s an ube cheesecake out here that is AMAZING–bright purple and rich without being too sweet. Not surprised that it’s made it into commercialized drinks.
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I never heard of it until a month ago when SB started to advertise it.
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Love the photo of your Mom. There’s nothing quite as wonderful as a black and white vintage photograph.
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I agree. I have too few old ones. Either they didn’t take many pictures back then (which I suspect is true) or the photos got lost.
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I swear, I loved every word. That is sincere! STILL grinning from ear to ear. And as ol’ Bill once said… I feel your pain.
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Thanks!
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Happy Mother’s Day to the best cat mom ever!
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Happy Mother’s Day to you too! You’ve had fur kids in your past.
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That is a wonderful family photo…..! Ube foam is a new one on me – sounds like a new type of mattress (tee hee). I have no human kids but Teddy the cat gives me a card every year on Mother’s Day (I suspect my husband helps him shop). I too am at the age where something hurts almost all the time – bruises appear without an injury preceding it – and a solid nights’ sleep is elusive. As some would say though I’m “still on the right side of the dirt” !
Hugs to you, Pam
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We just shrug it off and hope it’s not fatal! I want to visit my young self and tell her to enjoy her amazing body!
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That picture is such a treasure. I miss having physical photos.
The weedy trees are the survivors of the forest. There is a 50/50 shot of a 300 pedigree tree making it, but girl, a weed tree, that’s yours for life.
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Those two trees cost a fortune and were supposed to be very hardy! We’ll see. I love the dappled sunlight of a locust tree.
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I took a couple falls in January and February (1 each month) on pavement while walking the dogs, and I still have a very sore lower back and neck. Made me very aware of why falling isn’t a good idea for those of us of a certain age. Not sure they will go away…my new normal I suppose. Maybe yoga would help.
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At least our injuries aren’t fatal! Somethings never fully go away. I had hip pain when I was in my 40s. I couldn’t sleep on my right side because of it. I had a course of prednisone for something else and the hip pain went away and never came back. Weird!
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