My morning run for a mocha latte is pleasurable especially now with everything green and fresh. The only thing that can booger it up is people! And they do!
This morning I was nearly killed or maimed by a privileged family. An adult male (papa privilege) was driving a late model black shiny Mercedes with two kids in the car. When pulling into the coffee shop, instead of parking within the lines he decided to pull sideways and take up three spots. He did this in front of me as I was walking to the door. I had to walk around him.
While doing that, a teenage daughter opened the door without looking and almost took me out. I yelled. No apology. No reaction. She was on her cell phone. I have to assume she was solving world peace because she was very intense. It was either that or which sneakers to buy. Decisions are tough for teenage girls.
Now she’s in back of me. I hold the door open for her because it’s the polite thing to do even though I was annoyed. No acknowledgement. No eye contact. Nada. We pick up our drinks at the same time. She gets to the door first and lets it flop close on me.
When I get out, I have to wait while papa privilege backs his car in front of me and takes off.
I go there every day. There are many people with fancy dancy cars but I’ve never seen this level of rudeness before. Most people are polite if not chatty. Most people don’t try to run me over. I hope they left a good tip.
I thought about my mom. First she wouldn’t drive me anywhere for a $$ drink for breakfast. She would have seared me with her eyes if I exhibited that level of rudeness. Maybe even smack me on the side of the head and asked what I was thinking! Maybe the first thought is that she wouldn’t drive me to school (in her black fancy Chevrolet) as there was a school bus for that.
Times they are achangin’!
So sorry to hear about your encounter wit the jerk family!
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It was really weird. Never saw them before or since. Maybe one of the kids (daughter?) needed a lunch for school. I love Starbucks but it wouldn’t be my first choice to pick up a lunch.
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True! Or maybe they were just passing through.
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Hi, Kate – I am now reemerging in the blogging world and realize that I have missed a great deal. Times really are achanging and that family was shockingly rude. I hope that they were far-away visitors to your Starbucks and never return there.
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Welcome back. Can’t wait to hear about your trip! I’m sure they are local. The dad was taking the kids to school. At least that was what it looked like.
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Hopefully their visit to that Starbucks was a one-off! ❤
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So far it is.
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I have always despised privileged (and privileged acting) people and adults are bad enough, let alone a teenager. I was always told to hold the door for people behind me and stand and hold the door open to allow a person on a cane or wheelchair get through. If I did that and the person didn’t say “thank you” or somehow acknowledge that when my mom was with me, she would say “you’re welcome”. Times are achangin’ and not for the better.
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The baristas at the coffee shop are all young and caring. This was an anomaly. Although morning folks without their coffee are not the friendliest, they are courteous and don’t act like this! I will often say you’re welcome when someone ignores a courtesy.
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“You’re welcome” sails over their head most times.
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I’m seething just reading about it. You can tell the apple didn’t fall far from the tree. So sorry you had to endure that. – Marty
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It was a blip. It confirms that inconsiderate people run in families.
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Good grief……that’s a new one on me – taking up three spots – no excuse PERIOD. Privileged or idiot? No contest on that one!!! The answer is BOTH.
Hugs, Pam
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That’s what I thought. It’s busy there in the morning so it was a nuisance!
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Boorish people abound. I’m glad you lived to write about the ones invading your space.
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It takes more than a preoccupied teen to take me down! 🙂
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You are a courageous fighter! Keep on keeping on!
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Oh, my gosh! That’s disgusting! I have no comparable story to tell. Have I forgotten? Or am I oblivious or just lucky?
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Let’s go with lucky. It’s the first time I’ve encountered that and I’ve been going there for a very long time.
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The timing of your post is interesting as just yesterday my daughter gave me her Starbucks story, which was rather similar. She didn’t have the car parked sideways–that’s just incredible, but she did experience rude and oblivious teenagers. The reason I was brought into the story is I overheard her quizzing my teenaged granddaughters as she told them how she hoped and expected them to be in public when she isn’t with them. Your experience proves the theory that young people learn their behaviors from their parents. 🙀
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That is definitely true. I’ve seen that often enough in many different ways — work ethic, compassion and even kindness.
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That does sound annoying. Someone not saying thank you when I hold the door is one of my biggest pet peeves.
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Not being recognized as a person is one of mine.
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Kate, he is most probably a narcissist. Be thankful you aren’t married to him.
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I wonder if he was oblivious to it all.
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He was seeking admiration. He most probably had no thought of the feeling of others.
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You may be right. Hopefully I’ll never see him again.
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Think Karma…… he’ll get a flat, and their coffees will be cold.
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The flat will be a real PIA because I’m sure he has run flats or nitrogen filled tires.
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Not sure what either of those would do but it doesn’t sound good.
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I have a feeling that family will eventually get a smack in the back of the head. And wonder why and wail and fling blame everywhere.
Hopefully they won’t cross/block your path again.
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I’ll be on the lookout for them.
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Hope you don’t meet up with them again. So rude!
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Me too. Maybe it was the timing but I’ve never seen them before.
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The daughter has obviously learned from her father how behave! That would make me grumpy too but I hope it did not spoil your coffee. I am grateful to have my simple decaf coffee at home where it is sage and Husband is friendly. At least most people at the Starbucks are decent.
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Typically my SB is a very friendly place in the morning which made this stand out even more. It would take a lot more than this to spoil my coffee!
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CRAZY!! And here you thought you were just going out for a good cup of coffee, not walking into a danger zone! Sad about that level of rudeness from the teen, but doesn’t look like the apple fell far from the tree, due to Mr. 3 space parking.
Hope you encounter kind, polite people next time you go!
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I usually do. This was definitely an anomaly. Sometimes young kids let the door slam on you but they are young kids.
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I see this more and more e ery day. Its not just with one group its most everyone. People forot what mammers and decency are. Im not sayong all are like that. But its the me me me disease, parents worry about correcting their kids cause said kid will throw a fit then need a mental health day cause omgosh, dad told me I need to stop being rude to people. I grew up like you, where if I did something stupid you might get a smack upside the head and you never ever disrespected your parents or anyone else… Times have definetly changed.
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I’m not completely sure the dad recognized the rudeness. That is scary. There is no exaggeration. She almost whacked me with the car door. I had to jump out of the way.
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Probably where she gets the behaviot from..
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That sucks, Kate. I hope your day went way up from there!
Deb
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It did. Other than an eye roll moment, I was off to brighter things!
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Those ‘Rock Star’ parkers are part of an elite cohort of people otherwise known as the clueless which by their very condition, make it impossible to communicate about common decency. It’s frustrating to those of us who have to cross their paths. Sorry they wrecked your beloved morning ritual and hope it was a one-time shot. With a bit of luck maybe we can channel TWO flat tires for Papa Privilege because clearly one wouldn’t register in his brain that perhaps payback karna is a you-know what.
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I’ve never seen them there before but perhaps mama privilege usually takes them and parks more sensibly. He blocked a handicapped spot. It was for less than 5 minutes but there were a lot of regular parking spots very close to the door. It was really weird.
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That’s just just weird. It’s doggone rude!
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Argh…that should have read “That’s not just weird. It’s doggone rude.” Sorry about that.
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I knew what you meant! 🙂
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oh to be so lucky and privileged as to be able to get so grumpy about going to get an expensive starbucks drink.
and who knows perhaps the teens parents recently divorced and she is struggling with the fault. And the dad is getting the kids to school so his wife can be on shift in the hospital on time. One just doesn’t know what others are dealing with.
I’m sorry your day started so horribly bad for you.
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From the looks of the car and clothes, I doubt anyone works on a hospital shift. Doctor, perhaps although he wasn’t dressed like that. More likely his wife had an early tee off time for golf. Then again, I’m a writer and we make up the stories when we don’t know it. It’s what we do.
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Not at all surprised to see that an entitled parent raised an entitled kid. The kind of parent that thoughtlessly parks across three spaces is the same kind that parks across my driveway daily during the local school pick up & drop off. Their kids watch them do it and learn that it’s okay to do something illegal or entitled rather than walk a longer distance at any kind of personal inconvenience. And as I told more than one blasé parent, “You do realize you are teaching them to put you in a rat-infested nursing home or pull the plug on you someday, right?”
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Taking 3 parking spaces in front of the door was over the top. He wasn’t there long because the drinks were ready but sometimes they are not. Yep, I’m sure they would put their grandparents in a less than adequate nursing home. Old people are so inconvenient.
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Someone must have worked really hard to train those folks to be soooo rude. I really dislike folks who feel this entitled in the world. Grrrr.
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I do too. Sometimes I give kids a break because…well…they are kids but clearly this entire family was entitled. Next time I’ll check for special government plates!
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Scary times out there with so many not paying attention, and in this case feeling so very special. There is not a day that goes by without the local news reporting automobile accidents involving pedestrians. I’m glad you lived to tell the story.
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At least I got a post out of it. I almost did get slammed by the car door. Usually at this time of the day, someone comes out of the driver’s side, not the passenger’s side so I wasn’t expecting it.
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inside of a merde-cedes is often only merde… buy a water gun and give them a shower … it maybe helps to find the way back to the ground?
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The gorilla man — one of my favorite people at the coffee shop — drives a very cool white Mercedes convertible. He is nice, kind and generous. These folks were definitely asshats.
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People be challenging!
Maybe “mom” was being held hostage . . . daughter on phone with kidnappers . . . who were making sure that they got their morning coffee in exchange for “mom’s” release?
Then again maybe just asshats!
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I like the back story but I’m going with the second theory.
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