The past week was a potpourri of events (some not so fun and some fun) to make it a tough week. I learned a few things about retirement. I love it! It’s been 11 years since I’ve had to jump out of bed at the crack of dawn to start my day. Don’t miss the jumping part.
I am an early riser, but I don’t like rushing around. I like a morning sweet spot of drinking my mocha and checking my emails and blog leisurely. I don’t miss taking a shower at 6:30 a.m. which I did everyday for 45 years. I don’t miss hurrying up.
Loving my jeans and/or exercise pants with a warm sweatshirt. It’s sneakers too. My feet thank me. Occasionally I like to dress up, but it’s become more occasional. Way more occasional. Maybe weddings and funerals. I’m not dressing up for mine.
Other than greetings at Starbucks and a cat trying to sit on my head, I prefer all live exchange to start later. Even my exercise buddy wants to walk at 11 instead of 8.
Some things don’t need a decision today. Or tomorrow. The key is to figure out which does and the consequences.
I don’t like multiple commitments in a day or even a week. Scratching a cat is one commitment.
Almost anything constitutes dinner. You just need to survive. Every day doesn’t have to be a gourmet day. Ok, maybe not potato chips. You need to wash them down with something from another food group. Maybe iced tea? Dip would round it out.
Recovery time is important. Recovery from errands, walks, thinking too hard (yes a lot of thinking too hard). You get the idea.
I’m not a couch potato (although this post makes it seem that way), I just like an easy way of sliding through the day without a lot of jerky stops and jackrabbit starts.
Just cancelled a Friday morning appointment and declared it a “me day.” Next week will be better. I hope.
Note to regular readers: Gracie came through the dental surgery ok although it was more extensive than expected. She’s a trooper, a toothless trooper. She’s on sick leave so either one of the other cats or this peep will give an update on Friday.
I Can. Not. Wait. To be retired! Looking forward to it so much! Your days sound pretty darn amazing to me. Enjoy them!
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They are. Some days I miss the people or the sense of accomplishment when you do something big but for the most part, I don’t miss it.
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You and me both, gurl.
Glad Gracie’s okay. Scritches and rubes.
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It happens!
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You and me both, gurl.
Scritches to Gracie. Good girl.
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Glad to hear Gracie pulled through everything, toothless and all. You’re getting inspired about 11am workouts. That might be easier the more I think about it. – Marty
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Unless you have projects to do, 11 is a nice time. Exercise, eat lunch and have the afternoon open.
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It’s been 7 years since retirement already for me, which I find hard to believe. I prefer not to talk before noon if I can help it, and try never to schedule morning appointments if I can help it. 40 years of washing and blowdrying and styling my hair EVERY SINGLE morning? Where was my head? Now, maybe twice a week, but I’ve been known to stretch it to five days if I don’t have to go anywhere. No I don’t miss work at all. Who knew I could be so happy doing so little for so long. 2 or 3 commitments a week is more than enough, the rest is down time.
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The hair thing amazes me too. Today’s working women don’t do that every day. They also don’t so all the elaborate stuff we did on a daily basis. That’s time we’ll never get back. I like late morning appointments. Afternoon is free but I still can savor my slow start.
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Glad to hear Gracie made it through the dental surgery well. We hope the recovery goes well. I’m with your on the whole notion of retirement. It’s funny, I used to juggle 17 balls at a time and now if I have to do 2 things I get anxious. I vote for easy does it and a slower pace!
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I do too!
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I have always preferred sliding slowly into the day. Even when I was working, I got up early enough that I could soak in the tub while eating breakfast and reading a book. Sure, I could have slept longer but I hate to hurry around in the morning.
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I used to go into work early so I could start the day without the usual jack rabbit start. Then the employees realized I came in early so they came in early if they had a problem. It still helped.
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I’m with you about “sliding through the day without a lot of jerky stops and jackrabbit starts.” Hear, hear. I am productive and efficient enough, but I refuse to be busy anymore. There’s no joy in it.
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I am so looking forward to the weekend, then next week. Nothing early and not a lot. My kind of week!
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“Me” day–is that even possible with pets? Especially cats? Every day revolves around the cats, you know!
I think I have to leave town for a me day. Except then I’ll be calling to make sure spouse doesn’t forget to fill the water bowls, etc.
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Well, as “me day” as you can get. It does involve making sure all the cats are settled. Gracie’s new (annoying) habit is to eat every two hours. Someone has to stand with her so no other cat steals her food. She’s already milking this.
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LOL, go, Gracie!
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Today is a good day for here. She is sleeping in the huge comfy bed in the family room instead of under the bed. Big step.
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Amen! I’m all for “me days.” We all need them. I’ll be honest; I damn near fainted when I read 45 years of early showers. I seem to forget I’m right behind you but never thought of the number.
Glad that Gracie is on the mend.
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I damn near faint whenever I try to calculate anything to do with my age. The numbers are always unbelievable. Especially ages of friend’s kids that I don’t see. Yikes! How did that happen.
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Hahaha! So true.
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I’m with you, why rush around? Why pack each day with activity? The older I get, the more of a homebody I have become, and I love it. I don’t think you’re a homebody, I just happen to be one now. Glad Gracie is doing fine!
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Many people use retirement as a time to travel. Other than our beach trips, we haven’t done much. I traveled a lot when I was young so there is no where I need to see. Ok, maybe a warm beach with a bar cabana!
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Poor Gracie but glad she’s getting along like a little trooper. I love retirement too and while I still have a horrid habit of super early rising I’ve used that to my benefit by getting my computer “stuff” done before my husband is even awake in the morning. Then we have coffee together and do whatever we want instead of things we “have” to do. I’ve been retired for a long time and while I mostly enjoyed all those years of working I’m enjoying even MORE all these years of “me time”.
Hugs, Pam
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I had a 6 month transition from full time work to full time retirement. I worked 20 hours a week. I really loved that. It kept one foot in and one foot out. People should start that at age 50. Full retirement has not disappointed though. I have to seek out activities but that means I don’t have to do full day budget and goals meetings anymore. Don’t miss those at all!
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I am glad Gracie is home and recuperating well. Very happy she likes wet food. I share all your thoughts about take it easy mornings. I love my afternoons at home. Don’t like to run around and do errands or commitments. Been doing that all my life and nothing is that important anymore. Good Night, Kate… I am a night owl 🙂 It’s so peaceful at night.
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With Gracie under the weather, I’ve been up at 3 a.m. checking and fussing and it’s the same peacefulness. Today was the first day I slept through until 6. Gracie is doing wonderfully. Last night she even gave chase to the mousie (no not a live one) which she hasn’t done in ages. I should have missed the luncheon. It was nice but with worry sitting on my shoulder it wasn’t as wonderful as it could have been. I am resolved not to let my schedule get so packed down again. At least if I can help it.
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Great news about Gracie this morning! That was an extensive dental with extractions. She must really be feeling better with all those troublesome painful teeth out. ! I vow to not get my schedule packed down but the calendar is always filling up with those 6 month medical appointments. So over them. If you don’t go they hold your medication hostage. Probably still good you went to the luncheon, no matter where you were you were going to worry, impossible not to.
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I played Mahjongg on Monday afternoon. I thought it would be a good distraction as her surgery was on Monday. It was. I even won a game and was damn close in two others. The luncheon wasn’t quite the same. Worry triggers my IBS which is also triggered by food so any food related activity was questionable. I couldn’t relax and I left early.
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You’ve had a hard week. I hope the next few days will progress at your speed and be very pleasant.
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It’s already getting better. Gracie is recovering at a good clip. She’s eating up a storm and being more active. I also canceled anything for the end of the week to give me a break. Today I will walk with my walking partner who I haven’t seen in a few months. That will be fun and I’ll be able to enjoy it without worry.
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Excellent! Lack of worry is an instant boost. I’m glad Gracie is recovering nicely, thanks to you.
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Yes, I forgot how heavy worry is when it sits on your shoulder!
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I’m with you, Kate. After decades of rushing through life and being over-stressed and sleep-deprived, it’s life in the slow lane for me all the way!
Deb
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Who knew the slow lane could be so fun? Certainly not my 20 year old self!
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I forgot to comment on Gracie – I saw the p.s. … hope she is feeling better after surgery that was more extensive than planned and she likes canned food and not kibble.
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She has been doing very well. She’s been eating more than ever and is getting more active (and annoying!). I have to sneak kibble to the other cats because I can’t put it out but so far that has worked.
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That’s good news. Hopefully Gracie will be up to her regular food eventually. When my friend Carol had the three cats, one had stomach issues and could have only raw cat food. So they were fed in separate rooms and that cat had to stay sequestered until the others ate and Carol could pick up their dishes.
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We have some of that. Sasha will push other cats out of the way to eat their food.
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I am still up early as I walk, but when I worked in downtown Detroit for years, you could set your watch to me leaving the house … most days, earlier on snowy days as the bus often was late showing up and I’d get an earlier bus running late. In Summer, I’d hand-water everything, even weed a little get ready for work … that’s dressed up, make-up done, hair done. Now I go flying out the door, sweats or shorts and a tee-shirt, hair in a bun or under a hat and no makeup and glasses. How far I’ve fallen! Like you, the younger me juggled different things pretty effortlessly – not anymore. Sigh.
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Yes and I don’t miss most of it. I did enjoy dressing for work. I see how people dress for work these days and it doesn’t make clothes fun.
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I loved the clothes and accessories too … I see them now and it makes me sad. I had a lot of holiday clothing for Christmas. Subtle touches on sweaters and vests and pins I got thru the years. I see it too and shake my head. The first law firm we had a dress code with no pants, even a pantsuit, for women. Very strict.
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I was already working when my company relaxed the rule on pants for women. It was ahead of it’s time. Looking back it now seems silly that the dress code was so strict.
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Same here because in some cases, a nice pants suit looked better than a skirt suit. A lot more comfortable too … I was happy to forego the high heels for flats or low heels when I went to pant suits. And I was happy to find the pants in a long length as I was/am 5′ 9″ tall with a 34-inch inseam.
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Despite being on the short side, I have a 30″ inseam. Retail staff can’t believe I don’t wear petite sizes.
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I am surprised too if you are petite. My mom was only 5′ 2″ and my father 5′ 3″ and I was taller than them by my teens. I started sewing all my own clothing as pants in tall sizes weren’t available then and jackets were way above my wristbone, so I looked like my clothes belonged to my little sister.
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Your family must have had a tall gene somewhere! 🙂
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My father said his mother was 5′ 8″ but that was not really abnormal, but my maternal grandparents were both short too. We used to hear a lot of jokes about the milkman!
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The title of the post scared me. I am glad Gracie came through OK, but sorry it was more extensive than was expected.
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She’s doing much better tonight. The recovery is going well for everything but the liquid antibiotic she gets in the morning. That takes 2 adults to handle this 8 lb. cat.
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I agree. I like only a few commitments each week, and I like a little recovery time after each.
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Sometimes a lot of recovery time! 🙂
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So glad Miss Gracie did ok with the surgery! I agree that retirement can spoil one. I have having to be somewhere early in the morning.
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When I worked I would try to get the first appointment in the morning. Now I try for late morning. No rushing in the morning but my afternoon is free.
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I’m glad Gracie got some relief! No more dental pain for her.
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Yes. She must have had it for a long time.
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YES, on the multiple commitments!!! Sometimes I look at my weekly calendar and get upset if I see three things on there hahaha. This morning I had a dentist appointment at 9:15, and I was so cranky having to be social at that hour. hahaha
(No word on Perry yet)
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I get the cranky! Poor Perry! Hope you hear soon!
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Ugh, it’s IBD or lymphoma. Now the question is how to proceed, especially now that he has a heart murmur on top of it all. And only 7!!!
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I am so sorry! That is the worst news.
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I know. It’s so awful.
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Glad Gracie is ok. I agree that one appointment in a day is enough. I don’t like rushing around either. I’m up early, but take my time in the morning. Even my cat takes it slow and doesn’t get out of bed until about an hour after I get up.
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When I worked I had two cats who didn’t get up until after I left for work!
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I’m not loving hurrying anymore either. Even hate days when I have pet sits morning and evening…would prefer all morning and then done for the day, and I’m working in that direction. And a good nap in the afternoon is pretty nice too. We worked for decades…time for a less crazy schedule.
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Yes! Less crazy for sure. I like when all my chores or errands are done early so I can relax the rest of the day.
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I’m with you on that. I want me “to do” list mostly completed early so I can do whatever the heck I please the remainder of the day.
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Good to hear Gracie is ok but did she lose all her teeth? I love being retired! No more early morning risings and no more doing what others say I should be doing
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She has 3 teeth left. They took out 11.
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Oh my! How is she doing? Adapting well?
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Doing very well. I’ll report tomorrow but she ate 2 cans of Fancy Feast when she got home. That’s an amount she has never eaten before. No kibble for 2 weeks but she’s gumming the soft stuff.
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Wonderful!
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My question is the same as pensitivity101 ~ no teeth left?
Hope she rebounds like a trooper!
I’m with you ~ a sprinkling of commitments is more than sufficient.
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3 teeth left.
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Poor thing. Hope she can still enjoy some of her favorite eats.
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She can’t eat kibble for 2 weeks but she’s eating wet cat food ok.
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I don’t miss the alarm clock either. One of the first things I did was stop wearing a watch. 🙂 I am a very early riser, but I occupy my time with things I want to do. 🙂 Happy rest of the week.
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I naturally wake up so I never used an alarm clock. At least not since high school days.
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I used to be an early riser – like 3:30 AM was my norm – and it took me five years to get to a place where 6:30 AM no longer feels like I’ve been sleeping in. And, like you, the comfy clothes are the way to go. I’ve decided to be cremated when I pass away, and I’m not sure whether I’ll have clothes on for that or not! I hope Gracie will get better quickly and be back to her normal mischievous self soon.
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I hope so too. I miss my little gray!
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Great news about Gracie! I hope she continues to feel better.
I agree completely with your take on retirement. No early mornings or multiple commitments for me either.
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I was truly surprised at how cranky I was that I had to shower so early in the morning. I did that all the time and never thought anything of it.
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Glad Gracie is OK. Has she lost ALL of her teeth?
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She has 3 teeth left. They pulled 11 and she was already missing some.
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Oh bless her.
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