A goose and gander thing? – About two months ago the beloved husband fell over with the kitchen chair. One minute he was sitting at the table and the next he was on the ground sideways still sitting on the chair. After suppressing my intense urge to giggle, I asked him what happened and he didn’t know. I assumed he was being a klutz. Our chairs have wheels and it’s on a different carpet than it used to be so the feel when you roll it is different. Yesterday I fell over. In the same chair! Now I know it has nothing to do with being a klutz. Probably. I was trying to roll in closer to the table and flup I was on the floor. Sideways. Still sitting in the chair. It’s funny how something is so much more real when it happens to you.
So what’s the date? – We are getting kitchen work done in October. It will be a messy six week job. All appliances will be taken out. I’m both looking forward to it and dreading it. I want to be as prepared as possible with take-out menus and slow cooker ready. Somehow we will need to set up a temporary kitchen. But wait, will they be here on October 1st or the 31st. Contractors rarely are on target with their start dates. Stay tuned for this saga. I can guarantee you there will be posts generated from this experience. Any food suggestions welcome!
The fear – I started driving yesterday. After my accident I have a healthy dose of fear running through me. I am driving the beloved husband’s minivan with seems huge compared to my smaller SUV. So far so good and I am grateful that every time I hit the brakes they work.
People therapy – I had dinner with some friends this week and it was good therapy. We caught up with what’s going on in our lives and there were plenty of giggles (which still hurt!). Sometimes just a spot of human therapy does the trick especially when you can’t get pond therapy.
Speaking of pond therapy – I’ve missed the pond this week. My “creek” walk is a bit too far at this point so I miss the water therapy. I hope the new owners did not take it out and are enjoying the flowers and critters.
So how was your week?
I’m nervous and anxious about your kitchen work! Vicariously (read: jealous) riveted! 😉 – Marty
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I’m working on letting things go because for sure something will go wrong! I’m sure there will be posts…
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Maybe after the kitchen build you can put in a small pond? Cheaper than therapy! 🙂 I’m glad you’re getting out and doing some driving despite the fear, but I sure do understand how it will take time to feel comfortable. One small appliance suggestion for you, if you don’t already have one, would be an Instant Pot. I use mine several times a week and think it could really be helpful while your kitchen is under construction. Just a thought! 🙂
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Several people suggested that. I’ll have to look into it!
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Trying not to laugh, but definitely understand those weird crevasses that spontaneously appear and disappear. That’s how husband broke his arm on perfectly normal, flat, clean surface during a walk – and he wasn’t even walking the dog.
Seated ghost in chair? Or maybe guck on wheel causing a stall and rock ‘n roll over?
Minivans drive so much different than SUVs. But you’ll manage..that…the remodeling is another thing. Cats will complain and be so unhappy. You’ll all need a soothing water feature.
Hope the contractors get in an out on time and under budget!
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I giggled at your comment. I fractured my kneecap by falling on flat dry macadam on a perfectly wonderfully sunny day. I was in a garden center which is my favorite place for therapy. It was a boring and embarrassing story.
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Glad to see you took the first step to get back to driving again – good for you Kate. I once fell out of a desk chair. I was a teenager and my desk was in the den in a tight corner and I’d gather everything I needed for studying before I went into the corner, except that time I forgot something and the chair had no wheels and I tried to exit in a hurry, fell sideways out of the chair with a big kerplunk. Don’t schedule an elaborate Thanksgiving Dinner just in case something goes awry – yes, I am never the optimist when it comes to contractors!
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I’m not an optimist either when it comes to projects. They always go over budget and over schedule.
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The gardener makes me watch People’s Court. Be sure to have your kitchen contract include TIME IS OF THE ESSENCE. LOL I hope you’re planning to get rid of that dangerous chair!!!!
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Yes, I had one bad episode with a contractor. We added 5 foot to our screened porch. There was concrete work and roof work. It took 6 months. They were into it a few weeks and got a more lucrative, critical job and just left ours sit. Never will use them again and won’t recommend them. The finished product was good but they weren’t creative and they also didn’t communicate what was going on.
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That sounds really awful and so annoying.
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I feel you on the contractor work. I selected my contractor in March. They won’t be starting until September. At least fingers crossed that they will.
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I know. We have a contractor starting next week (fingers crossed) and the kitchen in October (hopefully). Our dining room table has already been pushed out from June to September. I feel like most of this year will be camping here. Nothing quite where it belongs.
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Reconnecting with friends is always fun but even more meaningful these days. Here’s to more of that, less killer chairs and safe outings in a different vehicle.
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Yes connecting has been great. You need just the right mix of people and cats!
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Nothing more healing than giggles, even if they hurt a bit. Friends/giggles = feeling SO much better. Although, I hope your man didn’t giggle when you feel down with the chair. Those chairs – a little scary. Good luck with the kitchen redo. We have good friends going through that. They put their toaster oven and microwave in the garage to cook. Not fun, but worth it for the end result.
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We’ll have to do something like that. Take-out every day gets old at least for me but at first it will be a novelty.
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Good luck with the new appliances! Get the grill going outside and a microwave to heat things up 😎
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Somehow we will live through it!
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As we do 😊
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We probably should have had some reno work done here since we’ve lived in this house for 25 years but we haven’t….other than new overhead lighting in kitchen and hardwood flooring in there as well. Whole kitchen reno sounds exciting – the basement “alternative” kitchen idea sounds great for you. I do hope your old pond is still there – such a peaceful spot – if the new owners “talked” about taking it out they very well may have especially if their two girls are little ones. I foresee a pond in your future THERE….some little mini-oasis where all the bad things melt away into the peaceful shade. Really.
Hugs, Pam
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I’m hopeful that somehow I’ll be able to put in a water feature of some sort. Next year we will work on the deck and landscaping so maybe then.
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That’s funny how you both tipped over but remained sitting! I love that pic of the three frogs. I would miss that, too. Hope this week goes well!
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It’s the oddest of falls. It’s as if we make the chair top heavy. We’ve had these chairs for many, many years and it didn’t happen until we moved here.
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Well, you could give the chairs to the felines in the family and then get some new ones for yourself! That might solve it.
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The cats use them a lot. They’ve never fallen over.
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That chair is pretty clearly defective – out it goes! Not surprise you miss your pond – it was really beautiful, though I’m sure it was a lot of work. Hope the new owners appreciate it! Good for you getting back out driving again. Are you looking for a smaller car for your replacement?
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As for a car, I don’t know what I want. Logic says to get a smaller one for the amount of miles I drive but I like sitting higher in an SUV.
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Maybe there’s a smaller car that you sit higher in?
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Maybe a Kia Soul would be good? It is an SUV, but a much smaller one.
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I have to look it up!
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I’d say you definitely need a new chair. Two strikes and its out! 🙂
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We have some on order but like everything, delivery isn’t until fall.
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Those chairs are weird!!! I can’t imagine a chair falling sideways like that. Maybe I’m not very imaginative, but it seems strange.
I’m not surprised that you miss your pond. It’s gorgeous. Thank you for sharing it with us, your blogging friends.
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It was delightful. The water sounds ease away anxiety and all the bad juju. I miss it. My bad juju seems to be floating around.
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Please let any bad juju just float away and be proud of all you’ve accomplished these past few months. Congratulations. Also congratulations for getting back in the car. You’re a strong lady.
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Not so strong. If I could, I’d just stay home and order on line!
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Yeah. Sometimes we just have to rest and recover.
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Sounds like the chair needs to go. Different carpets shouldn’t cause a problem. People therapy is good when it’s the right people. Love the pictures of the pond. The frogs look like they are having frog therapy.
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Frog therapy is good too. They make me laugh!
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Renovations are always a pain, but a new kitchen is worth the inconvenience. I would love one, our cabinets are original from when the house was built in 1947. 🙂
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Yikes! Those are old cabinets. They made them different back then. Probably all wood.
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Too bad the chairs don’t come with airbags… but I guess since they caused you some injuries in the accident, it’s a good thing they don’t.
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I was worried on the way down that I would whack my check area but I didn’t. Just my pride.
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I hope your pond is still bringing pleasure to the new owners. You made it such a lovely spot.
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I hope so too. They talked about taking it out to make more play room for their daughters but there was enough land around it and in back of it for kids. Fingers crossed but it is what it is. I got a good ten years from it.
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And now you’ll have good years without the maintenance of the pond.
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I have my stream. Yes, it’s mine all mine but you know how that is. You have one too.
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Oh! Yes!! We both have personal streams.
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If the car accident wasn’t enough, you have chairs bucking you off on the floor. Those chairs would have to go. 🙂 That first photo of your pond is stunning.
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We’ve had the chairs for 12 years and didn’t have any issues until this house. I’m sure it’s the different carpet. Maybe. Or the old people.
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I know that driving again after a car accident is a challenge, but it’s something you gotta do. Kudos for getting back behind the wheel again. Also, sending good vibes your way for the kitchen renovation. Can’t start too early with that positive energy.
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It will be trying with 4 cats and numerous workmen. We’ll see how it goes.
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Cool shot of the frogs having a 3-way 🤣. Glad to read that you are driving again, Kate! Kitchen renovations are not fun to live through but the end result will be worth it, I hope!
Deb
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Remind me of that in October!
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Gorgeous photos 😊❤️
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Thanks. From the old house.
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Just lovely 😊
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I’m glad you continue to recover. Maybe it’s time to replace the wheels on the wonky chair…
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We ordered new chairs in March. In line with what’s going on delivery isn’t until end of September.
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In the meantime, you might just take the wheels off….😉
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Actually we have other chairs we can use. We like to live on the wild side!
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Glad to hear it! A little rebellion is good for the soul.
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I vote you get rid of the chairs with wheels. You don’t want to end up in a wheelchair. Maybe you can purchase a small refrigerator and put it in your garage…or basement if you have one.
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We have a spare in the basement and may keep the big one in the garage. I may set up a quasi-kitchen in the basement there is a nice area in front of french doors to put the dining table. Just no range and the sink is a utility sink.
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Italian dishes usually work quite well in a slow cooker – with microwave rice or pasta. We just found one of our cats sat in the garden with the local fox. They seem to be friends.
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The only thing I worry about is boiling pasta noodles. I can eat Italian every day but I have to figure a way to boil the noodles. We had foxes at our last house. One of them was stalking my old cat Jake and I made him come in the house. No one wanted to be friends. They must have enough other food that cat doesn’t sound tasty.
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Sorry, but I am laughing out loud all by myself at the chair just getting all misbehaving and taking you and the beloved husband, at different times, on the way down with you still in it! I can truly see it in in my head. I am glad neither of you were hurt.
I understand your fear about driving and I haven’t had an accident that was as serious. Florida traffic is nuts with all the oldsters driving and I have lost some of my faith in my own driving ability. I don’t like driving here… spatial issues everywhere.
What you say about people therapy… #truth.
You will work out the kitchen thing. Slow cookers are a lifesaver. We also picked up take out from junk food to regular nice meals.
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We have an extra refrigerator in the basement and I’m thinking maybe we could set up a kitchen there. There is a sink in the boiler room that can be cleaned up to use and we have an area to put our round table there to eat in front of french doors. Since we’ll only have temporary equipment, I’m thinking I’ll freeze some meals to microwave and use take-out. We’ll see how it works and how easy or hard it is. This was my first accident but it was a brake failure. I’m having trouble trusting cars. Other drivers don’t help.
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Our friend that had failed brakes that I told you about… She is having a hard time trusting her husband’s vehicle and she is afraid her car that was in the accident where she ran into the wall. They haven’t gotten her car back from a very large collision repair. She told them to keep it, she’s afraid to drive it. I get it. I have a delicious slow cooker recipe for chicken… true comfort food from Teddy’s Mom, Pam. Just let me know if chicken works for you.
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Chicken is what we eat most. I bet it has bacon in it! 😉
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LOL! You would be so right… HAHAHAHA!
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YES YOU WOULD! Bacon takes all the frustration of life away…..and keeps people from falling over in chairs too…..tee hee
Hugs, Pam
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I’m considering that a medical prescription for bacon! Right now is prime time for BLT sammies!
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Sorry you didn’t get your wildlife therapy. It’s nice to be able to sit in my yard with the birds and the fountain and the butterflies.
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For me that is very soothing. We are not there at the new house. Hopefully we’ll do work outside next summer. Our deck is hot until around 3 p.m. or so but it’s not the same.
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Sounds like one of the wheels on that chair might be a bit wonky . . . making the sitter in the seat a bit wobbly?
Glad you were able to get behind the wheel again. Fear, in moderation, is a good thing. Full blown fear, unbridled with common sense, is a monster.
Sorry you can’t get to your creek walk yet. Soon.
Do you have some place to plug in the fridge during the reno?
Will you have a microwave? Or a camp stove you can use on the deck?
If you’ll have a fridge available, that will simplify things. If not, buy a big cooler with ice?
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We do have an extra fridge in the basement and I’ll try to set up an auxiliary (rustic) kitchen there. I know from traveling that 6 weeks is a long to to rely on take-out. After a while you long for a simple home cooked meal. We have a microwave, slow cooker and I’m thinking of buying a portable hot plate. We’ll see how it goes.
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I hear ya! I get tired of eating out when traveling. I like to have my own simple cooking most of the time.
Having a makeshift kitchen in the basement should work for salads, soups, sandwiches, slow cooker meals, frozen microwave ready food, etc. You’ll rock it!
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Not looking forward to it but the kitchen afterward will make it all worthwhile! Appliances that actually work!
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Jacket potatoes and microwave meals. I remember when my kitchen was the washing machine (not plumbed in yet) with the microwave on top of it and the kettle on top of that. Serving the food involved Hubby holding the two plates. Hope your work is Oct 1st and finished ahead of schedule. 6 weeks is a long time.
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It’s a long time in many ways. Having strangers in your home every day. The cats will be nuts.
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Poor Sascha!
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That will be a long time for her. The other cats will adjust and ignore. She hides and that’s a long time to hide every day.
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Maybe she’ll adapt as they’re going to be there for so long.
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