I don’t wear out clothes or shoes. They get old or shabby. Some shrink to an unwearable size. They may be so dirty that I’m embarrassed to wear them but I never wear holes in them. If I want “distressed” jeans I have to buy them that way. My old jeans get thinner and shorter. No holes. Same with shoes.
Last week my big toe hurt. It felt like a blister so I checked it. There was a hole in my sock. Not on the top (where a nail can poke through) but on the bottom under my big toe. Usually I wear the heel area thin. I never get heavy wearing under my toe.
This week that same toe hurt again but this time it was worse. I had worn through the insole of my relatively new sneaker creating a divot that looked like a volcano crater. It was under this same bionic big toe. This pair is about six months old. I purchased them last summer after the stores opened up but they had the goofy one-way arrows on the floor. I rarely wear them preferring my Merrells or Rykas for heavy duty walking. (Full disclosure I did poke a hole at the top of the big toe in my favorite Rykas but they are two years old.)
The top part still looks new. No food spilled or cat barf on them. The insole was a memory cushion style guaranteed to be comfy (but not guaranteed to last). If I wear them out that fast imagine how another person would fare. I had to pry the insole out as it was cemented with gorilla glue. I will replace the insoles and hope that works at least until there is a food stain on them.
I can blame it on the pandemic (that’s the current way to get out of shoddy work and poor customer service). I’m convinced I have a secret night life that takes my sneakers and socks out for a spin. Sure hope they had a good time.
People fatigue me. Especially frustrating ones. Or excessive exposure. The definition of that varies with the individual but doesn’t exceed 90 minutes. Ever! During this past year I have found myself enjoying casual exchanges with people I don’t know. I must be a quart low in the people department which hardly ever happens.
There is an unusual guy who comes in Starbucks the same time I do most days. I rarely talk to anyone (pre-coffee) except to greet the baristas (hoping that will make me a favorite and get me better service). I first noticed him because he had a mask with a gorilla mouth on it. I had to comment on that. When he is not texting, he is funny. (It’s hard for anyone to be funny pre-coffee so he gets extra credits for that.) I find myself happy when I see his car because there might be something upbeat going on conversation-wise in the store. Today I saw him. No gorilla mask. Worse than that, it was a plain white tee-shirt material mask. His gorilla mask was in the wash so he was wearing his tidy whitey version. That made me laugh. Yes it really did look like repurposed underwear.
Blame it on the pandemic – I’m so tired of people blaming it for their incompetence. We are in the midst of several house projects. Most are in a holding pattern waiting for someone to get to us with important information. Covid-19 doesn’t excuse you from following through on what you said. If you said you’ll get right back, I expect that to be within the half hour. Anything else should be prefaced with a factual time frame we can expect to hear. (The twelfth of never is not a good response!)
Many calls are not returned. Not everyone is guilty but the majority are. Some successes – we were able to replace a fireplace in a timely manner (two weeks) and get a gorgeous tree planted in the back yard (under two weeks).
Phrases I don’t want to hear ever again – “We are slammed!” “No one wants to work!” (That is so not true!), “I can’t get the supplies” (this one I’d like to hear before I commit to something). Just be honest please. If your work queue is filled for the year, tell us and we’ll make a decision.
We did get a response from a guy the beloved husband called last week. He had to be called again and he apologized for not getting back but his wife had a baby. That is an acceptable excuse but most of what I hear is bull poopy! You may as well say that your dog ate your homework. It never worked for me so it sure won’t work for you.
I’ve heard that people that want Trex decking should be prepared to wait as long as a year for it and the DIYers aren’t faring much better since the supplies are either over-the-top expensive or non-existent in lumberyard. Just an incredible year.
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That’s true. We know someone who is trying to redo a deck and there are no materials. Also, my husband bought 2x4s for a project. He needed a few more and they went up a $1 in a week. That’s a lot for a 2×4.
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That’s a lot and I heard they are slow processing the wood and that’s why the price hike. A fellow blogger ordered a Trex deck last Spring and still waiting for it to be installed. Thought of you today – Starbucks is allowing no masks in their stores.
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Our Starbucks still requires masks. Redoing our deck is on the list for next year so I hope by then it’s all sorted out.
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Oh, I didn’t know if wasn’t a new protocol for all of them. I went to the grocery store this a.m. and they required masks, but changed the mask rule this afternoon (likely because they didn’t want Walmart getting all the customers). Yes, hopefully it’s normal for contractors to buy put in decks and everyone to buy lumber again.
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Today Starbucks went mask optional for vaccinated people.
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Ours must’ve done that a day ahead of yours then. Now the stores have to get new signs to put on the doors and where you walk in.
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We had three different contractors just blow us off last year with getting back to us. I never followed up with them because I figured that was a warning about what they’d be like. I’m going to have to restart the process with new people later this year. I just hope we have better luck. I’ll be following your progress here. – Marty
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Not doing so well here. We did get a new fireplace installed (it’s off season for them) and a tree planted (a miracle). No kitchen or other contractor work though. We were blown off a few times. I’m not sure we’re in a queue. We’ve started doing what we can do ourselves which is why I’ve been painting. Today I did a 12′ cathedral ceiling (I painted the walls not the ceiling). That was a drag but the room looks so much better now.
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A cathedral ceiling walls are still very high! Good on you, I’m impressed.
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I’m impatient to wait for contractors if I can do that job. Painting isn’t too bad unless it’s high. I can’t do any higher than the 12′ walls. Our family room is a little higher and I won’t try that.
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The last walking shoes I bought the uppers wore out. The soles were fine, but the stitching split. Weird.
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I have one pair where the seam around the top of the toes sprung a hole. I thought it was shoddy workmanship but maybe not. They have breathable tops which I’m finding are not very durable.
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Covid is the blanket excuse for everything not working or showing up. Really tired of it. Luckily nothing has broken (yet) and we’ve manage without having to get any repairs. With the freeze repairs, new construction, few and costly building supplies, everyone says it’s hard to find anyone with time to help.
We’re pretty open here – but some shelves are thin, and there are tons and tons of “Help Wanted” signs everywhere.. Employers are paying people to come in even for an interview. Many companies are raising salaries to try and hold onto staff/workers. It’s pretty weird.
So glad you got your tree! Planting a tree makes it seem more like your home. Now all you need is the birds to accept you, right? They must be a tough crowd there.
It is getting better. Everyone has to just hang in there…and hope nothing else get ransom wared?
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Except for an increase in gas prices, we weren’t affected by the hackers. Some places farther south are running out. Here, for some reason, people didn’t rush out to hoard. I’m surprised because they sure hoarded the tp at the beginning of the pandemic.
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I’m with you on the people fatigue. Those that don’t want to try, but call to see if you will do it for them annoy me.
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Some people are fatiguing all the time but some have been a welcome diversion. I’m not so big on people who want you to do something they can do themselves.
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Renovations are insanely and routinely behind of late. My dear friend’s reno project was promised to be finished nearly 3 months ago. They even stood her up for a meeting that she came back to town for specifically. It’s just nuts. If I’d preformed like that at work, I’d have been fired.
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That’s what swirls in the back of my mind. If I did this, I would have been a failure.
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The guy with the mask made me laugh. Laundry day…it happens even with masks!
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Yes. Something that makes me change masks often is that I use a tinted sunscreen so there is always orange inside the mask. Gross! The whiteness of his mask did look like underwear. For a guy who wears a gorilla mask, I was surprised. Maybe he had a “meeting.”
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We are getting the same thing with lack of response or long wait times from workpeople – it is all over right now!
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Not sure exactly why. They can make more money than they get not working. The specialties like carpentry and plumbing pay way better than unemployment in our area.
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It is weird for sure!
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I have noticed that I’m a bit more social with strangers than I was before experiencing such lengthy isolation. I feel genuinely more interested and hope it lasts. It’s been nice to genuinely feel more friendly. 😉
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On my walk yesterday I had a 5 minute casual conversation with a total stranger. She gave me some good information on walking paths in the area. Usually my exchanges on a walk are superficial. I also fell in love with her dog.
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I wonder if we aren’t somewhat changed forever by this past year. I’m kind of intrigued. Happy walking!
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Our mask requirement was lifted for vaccinated people in most situations. I was out and about today and everyone is still wearing masks. Either they weren’t vaccinated or the realization that everyone is spitting into the air is grossing people out.
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I like the way you think! I think the spitting in the air has me freaked out, too!
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“Some shrink to an unwearable size.” People laugh in my face when I tell tghem this. They insist there is a different reason
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I can’t think of another reason! 🙂
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In our area, any one or anything to do with home constructions is hard to come by. Their schedules are full, and the prices are outrageous. I’m waiting on a company and haven’t heard anything in several weeks. Happy Starbucks.
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Same here. I’ve been dumbstruck by the prices.
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That’s a shame about your insole. I do wear out shoes, but it takes several months.
I agree with you. Pandemic excuses are pathetic and worthy of full rants.
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Thanks! On my walk today I saw several branches that were snagged in the stream. Thought of you immediately. It was in the middle so I was not going to rescue them! 🙂
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Maybe your snagged sticks enjoy water rushing past them.
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Out for a swim!
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It seems people have lost their work ethic. Some just don’t care. So sad.
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Not sure what it is but something’s changed for sure!
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I think part of the problem has been some people, depending on the state, have been making more being on unemployment than working their regular job. Here in NC there are helped wanted signs everywhere, especially at restaurants and smaller businesses.
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Strange about the weird tear in your socks and shoes. I was sure that as I read on I was going to discover that it was cat-induced! 😀
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I’d love to blame the cats but they didn’t do it. This time at least.
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Or did they….
You don’t know. You’re asleep.
: )
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🙂
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Thank you for blogging about two of the things that are making me snarly this week!
My walking shoes usually don’t last more than 6 months. They get 20-30 miles a week. Apparently, 6 months is all serious walkers or runners are supposed to expected. The concept of planned obsolescence in order to make more money is really irritating. I would like my shoes and appliances to last longer (and I bet the environment would also).
I so hear you on the not calling back. I’ve been waiting for a week for a supposed supervisor to respond to an email. I even called to follow up. Her voicemail message ends with “Have a blessed day” and it was all I could do not to snarl, “I don’t WANT a blessed day, I want you to do your JOB.”
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I’ve never had so many “no returns” in my life. People used to want your business. Now it seems they are more choosy. I wonder if my job is too small or too complicated. One person told me outright they weren’t interested in my project. I respected that as I was able to cross them off my list. As for sneakers, what is going on? This is a first. Sort of at least. I did poke my toe through the top after a year and I’ve never done that before. Those were my favorites too. I’m paying more attention to the insoles now. No more memory foam for me. Hope you get your call back sometimes this year.
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The memory foam works fabulously in my Sketcher mules/ clogs that I keep outside. Lasts for years. But it’s not getting as much hard use gardening as the walking shoes.
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It was a Sketcher memory foam. I don’t even wear them every day. For most walks I wear my Merrells. Not sure what happened as that’s not usually a place that gets stressed.
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Contractors are notorious for not calling back… pandemic or no pandemic. That’s one of the reasons my husband and I end up doing most of the work ourselves. We are currently rebuilding our back deck. Lots of work (mostly by hubby) but it will be done right and in a reasonable amount of time.
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That’s what has happened to us too. We are doing more work than we expected to. Next year will be a possible deck redo. Already dreading it.
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I would never last with shoes like that. Marley and I get serious walking shoes (all the dog walking we do) and we buy two pair each at the start of the year, wear them down to not much, and get two new ones. We just replaced the ones that went a little too long due to the pandemic. Feels so good to have new sneakers so I don’t feel the rocks on the sidewalk anymore!
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I’m not sure what serious means as all of mine are “walking” shoes. They should have been labeled casual walking shoes or maybe just for mall walking. I used to get two good years out of a pair of sneakers but that’s not happening now.
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I don’t think anything is made to last anymore. 😦
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😦
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We wear Nikes. I’m not sure they are any more serious than others but given how much walking we do they hold up pretty well.
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I have some Nikes too. It’s only been in the last year that my sneakers don’t seem to last long.
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Yes, I too am tired of blaming it on the pandemic. We can’t get our deck replaced because there are no supplies and no one wants to work. We cannot get our sidewalk replaced because the company is slammed. Yada. yada, yada. Not buying it, both literally and figuratively. 🤨
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I’ve heard there is a shortage of deck materials. It’s weird what products run out and what don’t.
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I have such shoes too… they look like fresh from the store but the sole is broken… walking shoes. named anapurna… they can be glad I’m not at anapurna but just in the swampy wilderness of brittany or they had caused my death…
and we also hate the covid.excuser… no one ever offered me to pay my bills later just because of covid, but maybe I will say next time, my account department is in home office, call back later, let’s say 2027…
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They don’t make shoes like they used to! 🙂
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Amen to “all of the above”……On the shoes – they (almost everyone) just don’t make things the way they used to (I can hear my Mom saying that now…..) – even sometimes the BIG brand names! I agree it’s super frustrating when someone doesn’t follow through like they said they would OR just plain doesn’t call back. I never have understood that because I ALWAYS do those things – I worked for the Army as a civilian in my first job – you don’t NOT follow through there…..then later in Hospital Administration and you REALLY don’t NOT follow through there with patients and their families. Maybe it’s me but I DO think people have changed (except for me of course – I’m still PERFECT!).
Hugs, Pam
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I suppose there always were people who didn’t follow through but it seems that either they don’t need my business or just don’t care because somehow they survive doing business the way they do.
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Kate, I want a nickel (is that too much, not enough?) for everyBODY that has said to us, “We are slammed!”… painters seem to use this the most in our experience. People wear me out. I think it is going to be difficult for me to to re-enter or re-engage with the people population. We did running around yesterday and what little patience I used to have was shot. I could hardly wait to get home to my little casa.
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Totally agree. I can only take so much nonsense. The only sensible person was the guy who planted my tree. Best of all he texted so we didn’t need to talk on the phone. He was booked 4 weeks out but because I was near a big job (and mine was only one tree) he slotted it in easily at the end of the day. He called exactly when he said he would and he showed up when he said he would. Gosh, I wish half of the people I deal with were like that. The fireplace people were nice too. This isn’t their busy period so it was easy peasy but he said that even in the fall when it gets busy, they ramp up with extra people so the time frame is reasonable. No one wants to buy a fireplace in November with deliver in March.
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Try going back into an office environment after working home for over a year…not pretty, Pix! 🙂
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My heart goes out to you, Jill!
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Have you gone back yet? Hopefully you can ease in part time. If it worked for the last year, home should work at least part of the time.
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Yes, I’ve been back full-time in the office since April 12th, even though I can do everything from home….makes no sense. This morning, I commuted downtown in the rain. I walked to my building and it was totally dark…not even any emergency back up lights were on. My access card wouldn’t work to open the door. I texted my Sgt and he said “Go home.” That’s were I should be in the first place! I wasted my gas and we are having a gas shortage here in NC. You can’t find gas anywhere.
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Wow! You have had a bad day.
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It can only get better…I hope! 🙂
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