All that snow – Last week we had a huge snowstorm. We had 26 inches. At another time it would have been blissful (like when I was 6). Now not so much. We are packing to move. Early on we emptied our shed (for fear it would get snowed in) and got most of the outside or colder work (like cleaning the attic and garage) done. However there were a few things that escaped us like our two hose reels complete with hoses on them. My electric bird bath (keeps the water from freezing) had a cord to the outdoor outlet. That cord is under three foot of packed snow so it will be sacrificed (or as we like to say “a gift to the new owners.” The beloved husband dug the hoses out. All is well until we think of something else that is buried under all that snow.
About that energy level – Every year when I go to the doc for my annual he asks me how I’m doing. I’m always fine but lacking energy. He did some blood tests that showed everything normal. He says it’s a normal part of aging. (I hate to hear that because how can I be aging when my innards feel the same as they did decades ago?) This move has shown me what lack of energy feels like. Really! My sister-in-law is the belle of the ball. When she goes out (before the pandemic) she’d be having a great time and all of a sudden she says, “I have to go home now. I need to lay down.” Just like that she is gone. I have always been surprised because it just happens. There is no working up to it. Now I am there. I’m going well and all of a sudden I have to lay down or I will collapse in a heap of body flesh on the floor.
A strange side effect of the pandemic – I don’t want to go anywhere. I used to enjoy a trip to the store but I dread it these days. I have a list of “must get” for the new house. Important things like a shower curtain. These are items I’d rather see in person. I’ve ordered on-line all I can. I hope when this ends I will be able to shake that “stay at home” disorder.
So how was your week?
I know I could muster the energy to make a move and I see your house in photos versus my house … my house is very small but I seriously wonder how two other people lived here, plus a bird. Yes, I live alone, but still …. I often nod off while at work … my work is often boring, most of the time anymore it is boring, but I also nod off proofreading my own stuff. I walked and shoveled today. When I finally sat down two hours later, within ten minutes I nodded off. What happened to that boundless energy back in the day? I should have bottled it.
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I wish I would have bottled it! I could use a case!
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Ha ha – I know the feeling. Every post you have done, between needing to change the kitchen for selling purposes to pitching, packing and transporting, I have thought “I do not know if I could do that now … my downstairs is cringeworthy now and it is furnished, paneled, carpeted and pantry room and laundry room finished but just so disorganized.
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I can’t even imagine summoning the energy to move. And you reminded me how the yard is newly discovered in the spring when the snow melts. Covered it’s all a mystery!
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I didn’t realize exactly how much energy it took. We should have moved 5 years ago.
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You are scaring me!
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“… a gift to the new owners.” I love that. Sometimes self-preservation is the only way. 🙂 – Marty
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One house I moved into a long time ago was vacated by a woman who was retiring to Florida. First a month before settlement, she pushed it back. Technically we could have backed out of the deal but then we’d be house hunting again. We had to get an apartment in the interim. When we finally moved in there were a lot of ticky tacky wall hangings all over the place. I asked WTH? The realtor said she thought we might like them. Maybe in 1950 someone would have but I went through with a trash bag.
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lol I had the same exact dynamic once with a seller who rented back from us for about an eight week delay (their home purchase was delayed, so it was an understandable situation for them). When we finally moved in, they “gifted” us the world’s most ugly window treatments — in every room! They got tossed, stat.
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I don’t know why people just don’t trash that stuff! Makes good stories though.
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Aging is a lot like the DMV, a great equalizer of the masses. All we can do is the best our aging vessels will permit. Hang in there, moving makes us all seem so overwhelmed, whether we’re retired or a young whipper-snapper. Good luck with the move (which as I recall is later this week?).
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It is the equalizer. Once your are retired, you lose any titles you may have had. You can update your look but the aging is still there!
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I think that’s why some stores offer a 10-15% discount on Tuesdays thinking it might blunt the aging process. Still, I’m happy to accept their sympathy. 😉
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Unlike you, I do have a pre-existing condition that affects my energy level, namely my body doesn’t absorb iron or B vitamins properly. I’m supposed to take daily supplements, but add depression and guess what? It took me a couple of weeks to figure out why I felt good mentally but exhausted physically. Now I’m back on my supplements and here’s hoping this time I an stick to the regimen.
I say that because I am a personal shopper for Instacart. Saturday I felt really good and I worked ALL DAY either shopping and/or delivering groceries. I had planned to also work some Sunday but I woke up and felt like a Mac Truck had run over me. I can still outmaneuver those younger shoppers (mostly because I know the layout of the store), but they can go at it way longer than me.
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There are times I wish a vitamin supplement would help me but unfortunately my is normal aging. I still don’t like it.
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We’re expecting 15 to 30 cms. of snow today, but I’m welcoming it because we haven’t had much at all this winter.
Take care and rest up, Kate.
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You always need at least one nice snow or it’s not winter!
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My thoughts exactly.
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The snow was beautiful when it was falling, and I was watching it from my window. Then it stopped. The other day I drove right past Home Goods; come on, what happened to me? There wasn’t even a thought to go in. Good luck this week!
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I know! I’m like that too. Stores that held appeal don’t work for me anymore. That was my favorite therapy too.
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Well, my human hates going out too, I like to think that she just can’t stand being away from me, but I’m not sure that’s the case. And I have always been an advocate of naps. Naps are power. Take them often. A good beam of sunlight can do wonders as well. I’m sending you hugs and good thoughts and warmth.
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Sounds like we are all in the same boat. Naps, stay home. Hope we enjoy going out again sometime.
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26 inches of snow is crazy! I’ve always been a low-energy person, worse as I get older, but now that I’m retired, I find an afternoon nap to be a truly wonderful thing. It restores my energy and I can stay up later reading, otherwise I’d probably be in bed by 10. Good luck with your moving…..you’re in the home stretch now!
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I crash around 3 in the afternoon. I have to do something. Sometimes it’s a nap and sometimes it’s a walk. Depends on my energy level for sure.
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I sometime nap and then walk….or vice versa!
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If I can push through I’m ok again but sometimes I need to nap. If I take a walk it sometimes revives me. It may be a sugar crash. My blood pressure drops about that time too and I get cold.
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A dietitian friend told me if you’re extremely tired late afternoon it’s usually a sugar crash – have some protein!
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Protein? Maybe that cookie isn’t a good idea then.
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That is a lot of snow! I am only 51 and I already have that lack of energy.
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Wait, it gets worse!
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I remember big heavy snowfalls where I grew up. Can’t say I miss them.
My energy is fine when I am out and about but too many days of being home alone with just the cats, as wonderful as they are, can be a downer. 😾
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I much prefer less snowfall winters. Last winter was one of them. This one has been quiet until last week and there are more snows in the forecast! We need a balance which we are not getting now.
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Wishing you good success this week, Kate. Moving is stressful. Moving in a pandemic with snow on the ground, even more so.
I don’t discount that as we age our energy shifts, and sometimes dramatically, but I am noticing many changes, and I’m wondering how current life conditions have made everything more stressful, thus energy drains! I think it will take quite a while for us to establish patterns that even resemble what we were doing and thinking in 2019! And then again, yes, age! I think the jury is still out! 🙂
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It will be different for sure!
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But…. but …. your brain is a bundle of energy, Kate. As long as your brain is fit and shows on your writing, all is good. As for the body, be like a cat. Take plenty of me time napping.
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I always say “now what would my cat do.” Fortunately I have never lifted up a leg to lick!
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Or smelled someone else’s butt…..
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🙂
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More snow? AAARRRGH….Well, hope your Super Bowl Sunday has something tasty to eat (I’m a carb person under stress too… but I really need to put down the chips…sigh)
A massive arctic front is supposed to hit us Wed or Thurs. See. leaving those Christmas lights under the palm. trees may actually have been a good idea…not up to wrapping them.
I love the electric bird bath “gift” to new owner. Made me smile. (and there’s a huge robin poking around the yard now…guess it is working with Molly who has been doing far too much scratching in the dirt today…rounding up nice fat earthworms for friends?)
Pandemic numbers are down, vaccines more available, but the media driven panic is just as bad here. We’re not going out unless we have to – we could schedule a vaccine, but it’s not the one that seems best for us (and I am not going to a massive mega site with a massive line and wait for hours among massive numbers of people), so we are waiting. So far so good.
You’re doing good, too. You’re going to make it to the new home and then massive relaxing session.
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🙂 Heavens! The new people do not get the bird bath! Just the extension cord that connected it to electricity! 🙂 We are not that nice! Hard to get an appointment for a vaccine here. If you do they are very organized in that there is no waiting. However, getting the damn appointment which must be set up on-line is nerve wracking. Been trying for 2 weeks now.
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Somehow I get this hilarious image of the new owners discovering the extension cord and wondering….
(Will they think it’s a new way to discourage snakes from arriving? The imagination runs wild!)
It takes forever to get appointments here – then it’s crazy land after that at the site…unless you’re a long term patient of a doc’s group…the big doctor groups attached to the big hospitals are much more organized….and it’s a real medical staff giving the jabs.
Your time will come!!!!
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Maybe some wine glasses?
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My week was also not great. So sorry you have all this snow complicating your move! And yup – a couple things are going to wind up as gifts to the new owners, I’m sure.
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Or in the trash. I remember some moves when something was left behind unboxed. I came through and trashed it. Sorry about your week. A lot of that going around.
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Hope things improve for you guys – when is moving day? Also hope the shopping is as painless as possible. It is not fun right now.
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Moving day is next Monday-Tuesday. Yay!
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I bet you will be thrilled to have it done!
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oh yes. I think I’m going to sleep for a week.
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I definitely have what you have described as “stay at home disorder” …. I am hoping my love of food and shopping for food will win out at some point. I miss dining alfresco in a big way. Your sister-in-law is my kind of gal. Kate, you are a moving machine. I would find the snow to have undone me. 26 inches of snow is mind-blowing. Our week was spent snoopervising two whiny negative lazy man babies painting the exterior of our house.
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The snow did undone me. Big time. Originally I wanted to move by the end of January and that would have worked but my husband didn’t think he could get his workshop dismantled by then. Fingers crossed that there are no more monster storms. We had 4 inches today and there is more on Thursday which makes it nerve wracking but we are at the end.
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Isn’t it strange. I’m sort of worried about having the stay-at-home disorder. Plus, after putting off so many things that need doing for a year, they’re all piling up. I’m going to be too busy, but like you I may not have the energy to get it all done.
Twenty-six inches of snow! Wow! It’s hard to imagine. I just ordered a book called The Children’s Blizzard. It sounds good. And the thing about reading, it helps you imagine things you might never experience.
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I’d prefer to read about a blizzard than experience one. At least at this stage of my life.
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Being busy with physical work is a blessing and a curse as we age. I push it during gardening season. I understand having to stop for a moment or two. 🙂 It will be a relief to be in the new house and be able to take your time putting things away. Yes, I’ve ordered more things on line this year than all my years added together. We do our curbside grocery pickup tomorrow morning. Take care and rest when you need to.
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You used the right word. In the past I could push through it. Not so much these days. Sometimes I have to stop and collapse for a while. We haven’t done grocery curbside. Everything else but that.
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Between the snow, the pandemic, Morgan in a cast, and the agonies of moving you are entitled to collapse in a heap! Kudos for all you have accomplished.
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Awww, thanks.
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If I were a murder/mystery writer, your post would have given me an idea for hiding the body before a big snow storm and then moving. Perhaps the new owners will allow you to come back once the snow melts to survey the property. I think once spring arrives we’ll all feel revived. Be careful in the snow!
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Maybe I should put that clause in the settlement! 🙂
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I wish I had inherited your electric birdbath, because I won’t buy one for our house. The birds have ignored the water I put out daily right now I’m going to give them a week to see sense.
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Oh my! My birds have orgy in the bird bath. The robins will hop in there 6 at a time and when they leave the water is dirty and low. They can also use the pond but the shallow birdbath probably feels safer to them.
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We haven’t been to a physical store in a long time. With these new virus variants, we are doing curbside pickup only for our groceries. Anything else is online or goes on our “when it’s over” list. I’m curious what you are doing with your fish? Since they are in winter hibernation (probably not the right term for fish) I wouldn’t imagine they’d be easy to re-home. But, it sounds like the new owners probably don’t want them.
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I’m leaving them a note on care for the pond if they keep it and also services that will clean or remove. I will offer to rehome the fish for them (my friend has a pond) if they decide to remove and the removal company doesn’t save the fish. They are common goldfish varieties but very beautiful. It would be a shame to kill them.
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I can help with the fish
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Are you nearby?
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Lynn’s friend. In Bethlehem
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Ok I didn’t recognize your handle! I’ll keep that in mind. Never too many hands.
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I’m not surprised that you have a plan.
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Always. Without a plan and a backup plan, I worry.
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I can relate to the part about aging. I used to be invincible, now all it takes to knock me out is one greasy slice of pizza 😆 My week was good. I finally got my wedding ring re-fitted and it fits perfect, YaY! Have a great week!
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Yay! That’s almost like having a new ring!
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That’s what I tell my 87 years old hubby, now that he is using his walker.
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Most men don’t like to talk about aging when it refers to themselves! 🙂
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He realizes that it’s happening.
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This pandemic has lowered my energy for many things as well. I, too, am hoping I feel more like going out and doing all kinds of things when that is possible again.
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There are so many layers of stress right now. It’s insane. At least the political one has lessened considerably. The pandemic numbers in our area are lessening somewhat. All good.
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Yes, the political strain has definitely decreased, and is actually a joy to watch. And our numbers are down here too for now, which helps . Now if we could just get the virus cleared and our business back in shape…
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And the vaccine available.
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Sort of…if you can get an appointment!
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No luck yet.
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Not here either.
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Hi Kate, Your posts giving me the continued story of your moving, nudge me forward on my purging around the house. Thank you! I am hearing more about the “energy” thing this year. You have a lot on the go, Kate, and preserving your energy and recharging is a good thing. Bad, of course, when you want to get things accomplished. Hang in there. You are moving forward. Stay at home” disorder….great description.
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I have become so much better at purging. I wish I would have started the process as ruthless as I am now. The bottom line is we don’t have as much storage at the new place so I need to plan accordingly. Just today I realized that I will need a different kind of birdbath that attaches to my deck rather than the ceramic standing one I have. I already moved that one to the new house and now I have to find a home for it. Argh!
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It’s nice that you are leaving such lovely gifts for the new owner. Especially if you don’t need them in the new place.
I’m with you–I’m trying to go out as little as possible (unless it is to walk the dog).
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I know and I hope it doesn’t become a habit. Perhaps I need a touch of spring.
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I don’t think of staying at home as being a disorder. It’s what a reasonably prudent person does now. Plus it is the middle of winter so staying at home is kind of the done thing. Come spring and a new house, I bet you’ll be back out there shopping for your “must gets.”
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I sure hope so. I had some relatives that had what seemed like agoraphobia and I worry about that. You are right though. I tend to hibernate during the winter anyway so how can I tell the difference? I don’t like shopping partly because of other people and the virus. I’ve been dodging it so far but I haven’t been able to get the vaccine yet.
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Hi, Kate – I’ve also been avoiding physical stores at all costs these days. My reasoning has been less about concern for the virus (although there’s that too) and more about doing my best to stay clear of cranky people who are totally over it. Although I am really not hoping for snow, a good snowstorm could keep more of them at home. Hmmmm?! Sending good luck wishes for your move.
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I’m prudent about my errands and clump them together rarely running for only one thing. It’s just that now I don’t want to go at all. Maybe because it’s winter and I’m normally less likely to flit around then and partly I’m trying to stay healthy. I’m hoping things will be better in two months or so. Even if life doesn’t return to how it was, it should be easier.
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Kate, I’m the same way. I think of something I “need” and inevitably decide it can wait because I don’t want to go shopping. Except for food. A girl HAS to eat!
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Food I will do but with the move, I’m not stocking anything. By mid-week we will go onto takeout only but next week I anticipate a BIG grocery run.
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That’ll be a FUN RUN ~> Load ’em up and move ’em out! 😀
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Yes! Fruits and vegetables. For some reason I don’t have a taste for fruits and vegetables when I’m stressed. I’m a carb person then. I have been forcing down at least one salad a week. I want to hump this time out without losing all my teeth! 🙂
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I’ve been making rice and veggie casseroles and lots of soup.
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I’ve been doing soups as I put more veggies in those. Fruit for some reason has been unappetizing. I love oranges but nothing has tasted good this winter. I have some strawberries rotting in the fridge. I like to put those in my salads.
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If the strawberries aren’t too far gone, maybe you could make some Super Bowl Sunday strawberry daiquiris!
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I packed (foolishly) all the booze. I have small bottles of margaritas and beer and that’s it! I have mashed a strawberry in a margarita though and it’s good.
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