As we are prepping for a move to the new home, you may see more snips and snaps instead of full length essays. The crazy squirrel inside my head refuses to stay focused.
Like a leper – That should be a new Madonna song. This week I had to check bank balances for our upcoming home purchase. I had a good idea of our balances but I needed someone else, preferably from our credit union, to confirm it. I had to call for an appointment. I’m good with that. When I got there, I had to call and say I was in the parking lot. Someone came out. I did banking business standing outside in the cold with nothing to write on while cars were zipping by. I had no idea they would not let anyone in. My regular bank limits the number of people but you can go inside and sit with a person. Another sign of the times I won’t miss.
Priorities – Yesterday I went to the home we are buying. I parked in front and pulled out my Starbucks app to see which store was closest. The one I’m using now will still be the closest but I will be a mile farther. Somehow that make me feel better knowing that I could continue my insane routine of getting a mocha every day.
One small project – A realtor came in yesterday for the first go through. I asked if there is anything I should do to make the property better for a sale. She suggested I remove some wallpaper in the kitchen. I’m one of those old-timers who likes wallpaper (no teapots or roosters!) especially in a kitchen with white cabinets and a hardwood floor. I realize it’s not in vogue now although “they say” it’s coming back. Removing it is not a big project. It’s only one wall. She also suggested I downsize the cat stuff. What? Are three cat trees too many? How do I explain to them that they cannot have beds in every room? It’s only temporary. I have no idea how to explain that the new house has no screened porch for them. Moving is hard.
Ok. So now I know the where – somewhere near enough to your present home that you can keep your favorite Starbucks. (Was that one of the deciding factors?) 🙂
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I’m in the center between two although my drive to either will be a little longer than my current drive. I wanted to stay local for things like Starbucks, pizza, grocery stores, etc. A long time ago I lived about 25 miles of out the city an it was a real pain if you ran out of something. No one ever stopped by. I guess I’m more of a city or town girl.
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No screened porch? Uh oh… I hope this has been cleared in advance with Their Majesties!
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Nope and they are out there now and it’s in the 20s. They like fresh air even in the winter. I’m hoping they will be distracted with the new digs and won’t notice for a while.
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Luckily cats are amazingly adaptable. For 6 years Freddie has enjoyed night romps on the roof deck (and roof) but a couple of months ago I started locking the cat door at sunset. I thought he would go bananas having his freedom curtailed but he is quite happy snoozing in my office in the evening and curling up on the bed at night. As soon as I open the cat door in the morning he is ready to go! Once in a while I forget to lock the door and he still stays inside… As long as they have access to windows to look out I think they’ll be happy!
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Sometimes it’s for my convenience too. I will put Sasha out there if I’m trying to get Gracie to eat. Sasha steals food. The new house has a lot of room to roam so I’m hoping they’ll be happy with that. We got the “bylaws” of the community and catios are not allowed. I understand they don’t want ugly attachments but they can be done very nicely. Also we are at an end and backed up to a tree line so no one would see it anyway.
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HOA rules go both ways. When I moved out of a 500-unit complex it was because the rules were too restrictive. Now I live in a 4-unit HOA and it is chaos… we have rules that nobody is required to follow. I’m looking forward to moving back to a larger HOA where there are some rules… but at this point I have no idea when that will be.
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Hang in there Kate ❣️
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Actually there is no choice but to hang in there!
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There you go. Once the dye has been cast, it’s about making the most of it.
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I guess we’ll never move since I wouldn’t be able to downsize the cat stuff.
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The funny part is that I had put away a lot of the cat things — toys, beds, dishes, etc. At the end of the tour she told me to downsize the cat stuff (as if I hadn’t already). We have 3 cat trees and when the showings start maybe I’ll put 2 in the cat room but they live here too.
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Everything has gotten so complicated. Our banks have closed all their drive-thus for the 2 branches close to us – darn they even closed the closest branch ( the one with stupid annoying people who didn’t listen in training). You can do just so much online.
Glad your morning coffee routine will not be impossible though.
Realtors always trying to show you they are the “experts” and want to show you they earn their keep. All the tv home/deco shows are talking wall paper. That little table area looked so inviting.- and I’m not a wallpaper person. Besides, as a close older friend who worked in a big name real estate office here once told us – no matter what you do – paint, paper, recapped, you can’t guess what the new owner wants so do not drive yourself crazy trying to please the invisible buyer. Neat, good curb appeal with nice backyard a plus and vacuum- and being in a hot market is all that’s needed. (envious of your wall paper knowledge and skills…I tried to remove some…once…only once…ended up accepting the “SW pueblo all texture” which remained which was OK for that area…we did remove all the sheetrock in a room once determined to get rid of a pattern (OK we did some insulating outer wall and getting rid of stupid holes from bad shelf hanging attempt of previous owner…we were young, energetic and intrepid then HAHA)
I feel for the cats – strange people smells and change are disturbing, but they will love exploring – and new sunny windows!
Hang in there and be firm – your house is ready and beautiful! (sorry for the length, again)
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I painted the wall and don’t like it near as much as the wallpaper. The invisible buyer! I’ve gone into homes where they painted to get a better price. Only problem was that they painted it gray (all the rage now) and none of my stuff goes with it so I immediately saw a big project before I could move in. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t. We looked at one house. Original layout was great but the owner had turned the dining room into a ginormous mud room, then moved the washer/dryer into the master bath. All very weird. For us anyway.
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I like that little kitchen nook Kate and I like wallpaper – there is wallpaper in every room in this house and wainscoting in the kitchen … the realtor wouldn’t like this house. It is Early American furniture and done in country colors with a country theme.
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You would definitely make my realtor crazy. Early American hasn’t been popular here for a while. There is some primitive decorations but not what I remember as the 60s early American.
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Yes, I would … the kitchen has many ducks and roosters in it – both country-looking ducks and decoys. Many of the Christmas ornaments have a country or Early American theme – I’ve not seen them in ten years, but we spent a lot of time getting knick-knacks and going to craft shows to keep the country theme going.
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You would need the right buyer. There is a lid for every pot!
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This is true! Plus, I have wall-to-wall carpeting. I know you said you got carpeting in your bedroom a year or so ago – I remember the blue carpeting. I don’t know if wall-to-wall carpeting is still a “thing” or not – lots of people have the wood-look floors now.
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My bedroom is hardwood with an area rug. Carpeting is not as popular right now (at least in my area) as carpeting although you do find it in the bedrooms.
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I remembered the new rug and it was blue – you said the cats explored and liked it. 🙂 There is hardwood underneath … only the kitchen doesn’t have carpeting, but there are three wool braided rugs. I am sure that is not popular anymore.
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I rather like the wallpaper with the cozy table. Glad your Starbucks will stay the same. Brave woman!
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I liked the wallpaper too. In fact, I painted it yesterday and I still like the wallpaper better.
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Interesting about the bank. I have a form that needs to be notarized soon, and the two banks we have both require appointments for non-drive-thru banking services. Now I’m wondering if they’ll come out to us too. Glad to know your Starbucks will remain the same — there’s something to say for continuity in one’s life. – Marty
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We haven’t seen much continuity this year!
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Good news about Starbucks. That’s going to be rough explaining to the Sassy Cats that a screened porch is no more… yikes! But you said there were plenty of windows… windows are great to do some Kravitzing. Every time we have moved, adding a four seasons sunroom was a priority. Moving is hard, you are so right.
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We may try to do that. It will be harder because there is a walk out basement so a porch would have to be at second story level. We’ll see. The house has so many windows and two sliding doors. That should keep the cats happy.
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They are going to be kept busy checking out all that is new! The sliders will be a bonus!
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Downsize the what?! I’m no expert, but I say, FIRE HER! No porch? Um, good luck explaining all this to the Sassies. God go with you!
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The porch will be a tough one. Even now when it’s cold in the morning, they will go out there for a little bit. Catch up on the gossip from the birds.
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Oh yeah, birds know everything that goes on in the neighborhood!!!
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Moving is hard, but y’all are going to be successful.
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We don’t really have a choice. We’ll either be successful or they will cart us off to the looney bin.
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Will you do cartwheels??
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I doubt it!
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Moving is hard indeed! We have made 4 moves in our married life so far. Good luck! Sorry about no screened in porch!
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I’ve been trying to figure out and this may be my 8th or 9th. This is the longest I’ve lived in any house including my childhood home. It gets much harder as you get older and your energy wanes.
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I guess we are about the same for I moved 4 times as a child. We have been in our present home for 15 years and thats rhe longest I been in one place.
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I had plaid wallpaper in my kitchen until two years ago when I did the kitchen reno, and I kind of miss it. My beige walls just look too beige now….esp when wallpaper is coming back in, although I have no idea if plaid is. If I were you, I would have left it for the next person, but you have to keep these realtors happy. Maybe it would be better to keep the cats happy. I had a 7 year old tear my old wallpaper off and she had great fun with it!
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I’ve never had a cat that ripped wallpaper although I understand they like grass paper! It is down and I’m painting the wall today. I already don’t like it near as much as the plaid. It was a very subtle plaid and didn’t yell early American but the realtor thought it best to get rid of it. The houses we looked at were mostly terminal beige or (egad!) gray.
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Applaud to your wallpapering skills. I’ve put it up, and I’ve taken it down and both requires some skill, hard work, and patience. This year there’s no patience so I’m glad there’s no wallpaper. 🙂 My friend who just made the cross country move certainly did store ‘stuff’ before they started coming through. They packed a lot of boxes and stored them and extra furniture so it had that ‘not lived in’ look. 🙂
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I call it early Pottery Barn! Taking down wallpaper is easier than putting it up!
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I can’t believe that you just found out how close your favorite Starbucks was. I figured you would have drawn a radius around the location and only looked for homes within a reasonable distance.
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I knew it was reasonable. I just didn’t know exactly how reasonable. It will take me about 5 minutes longer.
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Whaaattt? as they say. I remember when you put that paper up. I love it. And hide the cat condos? Realtors. What do they know.
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I have rearranged the beds but the cat trees are still out. I’ll move them when we start to show it.
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I’ll admit, I don’t envy you trying to make the house marketable while keep those who rule the roost happy. Realtors just don’t get that. Ugh. Have fun with the wallpaper. And yes, it is very much in vogue. An interior designer friend (who I affectionately refer to as a pillow tosser to her chagrin) recently told me that about wallpaper to which I said, “Umm, yeah. No.” To be fair, I do like wallpaper but have plaster walls and am too old to deal with smoothing them out for wallpaper. That’s why paint you paint every year, right? And I wonder why my list of friends is so small. LOL
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Pillow tosser! Ha! I remember when I bought some furniture and the designer salesperson talked me into several pillows. What a pain. You have to remove to use the furniture. Then they are laying all over the place. One strategic pillow for me. One pillow in our guest room reads “No outfit is complete without cat hair.” I know you are again surprised. Really I don’t have a lot of cat tchotchkes around.
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But realtors always think it’s too much…[insert whatever it is]. They make me crazy. I’m not a monk and need some of me around. I remind them they’re lucky I vacuum and wipe down the shower every day. 😈#suchtaskmasters
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Most of the homes we went through looked like no one was living there or half of their possessions had already been moved. There is no way people are that boring!
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Or THAT organized. I mean COME ON! I just wanna smack those neatnik freaks on top of their little staged heads.
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Me too! They make me (and my home) feel unworthy!
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We can’t let them beat us down!
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Hi! We have moved twice in the past 12 years. Only to move back to our home …. as we hadn’t sold it yet. Stupid I know. I live in my computer room so need no more room or less room. Rearrange nothing in there/here and nobody better touch anything …. not even the dust.
After four years I decided to move back to my blog again. No new approach or new ideas. It used to be so easy. Slowly slowly see who is around.
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There have been times when we would have backed out of this if we could without losing money. The house is what we want but the timing is wrong. So much other stuff going on in our life and then the pandemic too. If we live through this, we can live through pretty much anything.
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Many years ago, my husband and I decided that our marriage wasn’t strong enough to survive installing or removing wallpaper so there isn’t a speck of it to be found in our home. You have my sympathy removing it. When we bought this house it was COVERED in wallpaper. That’s how we discovered it was our kryptonite 😳
… and OMG the poor cats! Since is going to be TRAUMATIC!!
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Seriously it took 10 minutes to pull it down. The harder part is washing the sizing off of the walls. My husband does not do wallpaper. Life is much better that way. My dad taught me how to do it when I was a small child so I can do a room and have about 3′ of wallpaper leftover. I make people crazy.
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One of your hidden SuperPowers!
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I wish winning the lottery was a super power.
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Ditto!
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The credit union thing is crazy! They really should have told you that, and given you the option of waiting until there was room inside to do your banking. Glad the move is proceeding along, and you can continue on with your same Starbucks! Nice that not everything is going to be disrupted 🙂 You are right, the cats are going to be a little put out for a while. But soon they will have a new place to explore!
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I’m hoping since there are several of them 🙂 they will be happier. They can challenge each other to find rooms first.
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Your move makes me want to downsize with no idea where to start. Woe is me if I ever really do move. Redoing an entire wall would be out of the question when I can’t even pack up things that haven’t been used in 30 years!
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It’s more of a struggle than I expected. The wall isn’t bad. It isn’t big and has a large double door opening in the center. Packing is another story. Carrying boxes! Oy vay!
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Removing wallpaper seems a big job to me! I say leave it for the next person. 🙂
I have 1 cat and 3 trees and two cat beds and yet she’s on the dining room table knocking over holiday candlesticks. Sigh.
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Sounds like a regular cat to me! The wallpaper took a half hour to pull down. I put it up right so it comes down easy. Now I have to wash the wall and paint. It will be done by tomorrow. It was just one wall. I have a vine pattern on the other wall and that was ok but plaid isn’t cool these days. Whatev! I have texture paper in some other rooms and had/have no intention of taking that down.
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Wow. Good job! Do my house next?!
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Nope. I’m getting so tired of this moving stuff and we really haven’t started.
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oooh we hope it goes smooth… the wallpaper thing is doable, but to remove the cat trees is a no-go… they are still gods and we have to please them ;O)
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Yes and there are repercussions when the cats aren’t happy! Maybe if I put them in one room.
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Moving is absolutely misery, The only good part of it is that if you do it well, you get rid of a lot of stuff you don’t need anymore. When I moved from Berkeley 20 years or so ago, I had an entire garage full of boxes and I hadn’t opened them in more than 5 years. I ended up keeping one box of stuff from the garage…the rest went bye-bye. Good luck with everything. Hopefully your house will sell quickly so the cats are inconvenienced for too long, not to mention you.
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I’ve done a few interstate moves and they are the worst. Everything is done in one day. At least we will have the option of moving some things prior to the BIG move. I have a few serving dishes that I don’t use anymore. I like them but if you don’t use them what good are they?
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Good news about your Mocha in the Mornings!
I don’t believe that I’d want to do my personal banking in the parking lot. Even the drive through is better than that.
Moving is tough. Especially with pets. In the middle of a pandemic. During the Holiday Season.
That’s why that “crazy squirrel inside [your] head refuses to stay focused.”
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I don’t recommend it. It was windy and cold and impersonal. It’s a credit union without a drive through although I would have taken up too much time in a drive through. I was really annoyed. While I was there only one other guy came and he must have made a deposit because someone came out and took something from him and he left. Part of my problem was that the guy working with me had no access to his computer outside so he had to keep running back as I asked more questions.
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That sounds horrid, Kate. Hope any follow up can be handled by phone or on line.
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I will have to pick up a check but that should be easy. I will be sure to stay in the car and they can walk to me.
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