Happy birthday Mom! – Today is my mom’s birthday. She’s been gone since 1986 but I still miss her. There is always that hole in my heart.
I’m turning into her – After her retirement, my mom worried about money. She was on a fixed income that was small. Each week I would listen to the litany of what prices went up. I understand it better now. It gets scary when something doubles in price while there is no movement in your income.
The annual clean up starts – Some of the annuals have had it and I’ve started to pull them out. A month ago everything was lush and colorful but I can see the signs of fall and the changing light. I learned a long time ago that it was best to not wait until a severe frost in November to clean up. If I wait, the day I work on it is freezing cold.
Another sign of fall – We got the Medicare changes for 2021 in the mail. That is an exercise in futility. The cost of anything medical depends on how it’s coded. The beloved husband was hospitalized overnight earlier in the year and we thought for sure we would be responsible for a hospital stay co-pay but were instead charged for an emergency room co-pay. That worked to our advantage. It’s like a box of chocolate. You never know what you’ll get.
Is it over yet? – As the election heats up, I see people being mean. Having a different view is a right but being ugly about it isn’t. I am embarrassed by what I see people slap on their vehicles much of which makes no sense when you think about it.
So how was your week?
Your roses look beautiful…..and I hear you about the prices going up, esp groceries. I guess they know everyone needs to eat….I never thought I ‘d be one of those people who goes around bargain shopping and stock piling sale stuff.
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I’ve seen price jumps of 100% this year. Even my cat’s pot of grass that I buy at our garden center jumped 50% in cost. It all adds up.
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I am going to take in the yard things this weekend, as into the garage, and the rocking chair into the basement. I don’t like to wait til it is freezing either and that goes for the hose instead of wrangling it off the holder and into the tall tubs I keep it in. I had my original hose reel for 25 years and one day it broke apart. I ordered another one, not similar but supposed to be good, from Gardener’s Supply. It fell apart three years later so I just have the wall hanger now. My hose reel over-wintered at my neighbor Marge’s garage as she had the room – I do not not. My mother was not really old enough to remember the Depression but she heard her parents talk about it – she was not frivolous with money, but thought carefully about purchases. I hate that I am in the same boat, noting the costs of everything going up. And the lack of paper towels and TP once again – I won’t order them from Amazon as there is serious price gouging (despite them saying they don’t). Grrr.
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It seems every week we go to the grocery store there is a different shortage and it’s hard to figure out what it will be. We’ve been stocking more than we usually do which probably contributes to the problem. They don’t make anything like they used to. I had to replace a blender. My first one lasted 30 years. The second one didn’t make it’s 5 year birthday. I’ve bought what is considered a “good” one so I’m hoping it’s my last. I don’t use it all that often but I do use it.
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Yes, the shortages or also the limits of what you can get. I stock up on pantry items for the Winter and the other day, there were four of the large round boxes of Quaker Oats Slow Cooking Oatmeal. Usually there are at least 20 or more and there is always Meijer brand next to it – I buy either one, depends on if it’s on sale – no difference. None of the Meijer brand at all. It is like that all through the store, not just cleaning supplies, paper products – all paper products have a limit on them. It is exasperating.
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Yesterday Reynolds Wrap was in short supply with a purchasing restriction of 1. I only needed 1 box so I was good. Also no paper towels again. No wonder people are hoarding. You never know what you can’t buy.
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Yes, the clerk stocking paper towels (but zero Bounty and I would have even taken the whole sheets) said it’s been the same since the beginning of the pandemic for paper towels, napkins and toilet paper. I think people don’t want to pay Amazon’s prices for necessities so hoard.
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We can get a lot of tp now but not the other paper products.
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TP and other paper products are all restricted amounts … I am thinking of ordering TP from Staples as they carry the brand the plumber recommended many years ago – Meijer grocery store doesn’t carry it. Walmart has many muggings and Kroger is usually so busy they wait in the parking lot for customers to exit (all year around).
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The old you get, the more it seems mom is right at your shoulder? Her words creep out of your mouth before you know it. This past year seems to have really had a jump in prices – parents talked about it, but it’s real more than ever. A bit concerning.
Also concerning is the anger and viciousness – and the violence people are so quick to resort to when they encounter differing ideas. Often bad before elections, but this is disturbing. It seems across the board from one end to the other. How difficult it must be to explain to young children in a household. (Molly feels everyone needs to get outside more and RC Cat just shrugs and says “take a nap”) I wish things would calm down after the election but some groups are already saying they won’t stop then.
Floods, fires, plagues – if nature was trying to teach us a lesson that we’d better work together, it ain’t working…then there’s always the possibility she’s trying to make us the next dinosaurs. HAHA
HAng in there – glad you can get out into the garden….I did too yesterday to trim hedge hoping to make it look more this fall…and encourage it back into shape. But darn it was hot! Cloudy with a north cooler wind today…bush is laughing about that
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Being outside definitely helps. Weather is great here. Cooled down like a switch was turned. Not complaining though. We’ll be dipping into the 50s overnight. So pleasant to get up to. People be nuts. Just no other words. We will be the next dinosaurs and the next iteration of life will wonder what happened to us.
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The usual back-to-school shenanigans and Catorze craziness over here! Not much else to report.
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Normal is good.
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Well, as normal as it can be with Catorze around!
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Happy Birthday to your Mom, Kate. My Mom died in 1987, I think of her every day. Our week, starting with Friday has been all TS Sally. We have had wind, rain, flooding and today we are still in the grip of the feeder bands of Sally. Coastal Sarasota can’t get rid of Sally soon enough, But there is a bunch of tropical action behind her. Sad for Louisiana who will have her soon.
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Fingers crossed that you can get through this hurricane season unscathed. We will see some tropical action (mostly rain) later in the week as it crosses the country.
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Happy Birthday to your Mom, and it is interesting to reach the same age and find you’re talking about the same things that use to drive you nuts. 🙂 I hate the run up to the medical coverage. Several times a week a new envelope arrives with new stuff in it to read and analyze. It’s overwhelming. Glad you got a different chocolate. 🙂 Yes, I’m cleaning up the outside too because fall is definitely here. I just wrote a comment on another blog post about ‘mean.’ I read comments on social media that just floor me, and, yes, why put ugly things on your car. Strange times right now, but it’s a new week so we’ll hope for the best.
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We can only hope for the best. I’m hoping this time next year will find us in a different place.
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My human needs to clean up the flower beds around here too, she just doesn’t know how to yet. I will miss seeing all the fellow animals in the yard as it gets colder though.
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It’s not as fun as planting in the spring. It’s sad.
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This will be one. horribly. ugly. election. I’m ashamed to be an American, let alone a human these days.
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I know. I am always surprised when people respond to a difference of opinion with venom. It escalates it all. Wake me when it’s over.
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It’s always sad when all the flowers start to die back, so I let cleaning them up until the last possible minute. But you’re right – better sooner than later, unless you like working outside in the freezing cold 🙂 You are right about this election. It can’t be over soon enough for me.
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I’m going to pull out the zinnias today. Some are doing well but many are leggy and worn looking. If I only pull some, it means I still have work to do on them come frost.
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Happy Birthday to Kate’s mom!
Despite what we think when we are younger, I believe that we do reveal traits of our mothers as we age. Often our moms were much wiser than we ever realized!
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That is so true. I’ve often thought I was more like my dad. I’m built like him and have many of his features but there are times when things come out of my mouth that are pure mom. As I’m getting older I can see her in my face too.
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We will start fall cleanup Sept.30. The weeds have literally taken over here and the pollen count is prompting warnings. I am looking forward to a neater landscape and slightly cooler weather. I lost my Mom in 1993 and still miss her. She also had to think about prices and on a low fixed income. But if you needed help she would give you her last dollar.
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Moms are like that!
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Happy birthday to your mother! We toasted my mother’s 100th (she died at age 83 in 2000) on a mountaintop in Mexico. It was perfect because she loved to travel and I was with one of my brothers, which would have warmed her heart. What would have distressed her is the current state of our country. I wish she had lived long enough to see Obama elected, but I’m glad she didn’t see the current WH occupant.
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I love that you celebrate your mom’s birthday. I do too in my own way. My mom would not have liked what’s going on today either. There is so much other stuff to focus on without the drama.
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Mom anniversaries are tough. Mine was in ICU for her birthday and died a week after, pretty much making an entire month a memory of misery each year. Many hugs to you.
Yes, you can debate most issues without resorting to nastiness. What’s currently making me nuts on FB is that conservatives jump right into a discussion about an issue or article and spout talking points or yell, “Shame on you!”Then you ask if they actually read the article or saw the source material, because their take makes no sense and they respond with, “I don’t need to read that to know it’s crap!”
I’m getting a bump on my head from banging it on the desk.
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I got the same bump!
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Thanks for reminding me that I should be thinking about cleaning up outside. Things are winding down.
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They are winding down and we’re getting ready for hibernation!
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When the weather gets steadily cold, I’ll miss one daily exercise — opening windows in the evening to let in cool air and closing them in the morning.
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I love open windows. This summer was not a summer of open windows. We had such high humidity most of the time. Today they were open and it was great. I love the idea of getting fresh air in.
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We get fresh air in and try to keep it inside.
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Happy birthday to your mother, Kate. That’s a sweet photo of her. Our hummie population is dwindling…I’m getting depressed.
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It’s that time of the year. Remember the happiness when you saw the first one?
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It was a good week, quiet but quiet is ok. I think that the ugliness is getting more intense as election nears. But will we all go back to our corners when it is over? Oh, well, I will just take it day by day and be grateful. So many in California and Oregon are dealing with so much loss.
Enjoy the early yard work!
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I hope that one day we can all come together and be friends again. We are so much luckier than the poor folks who are watching their homes burn down.
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Happy birthday to your mom. Mine has been gone since 2006 ~ I miss and think about her every day. Your roses are gorgeous! Great information in your response to another reader about Medicare Advantage, I will be making these decisions soon. I had to quit following (hopefully until after the election) some usually interesting folks because of the blatant hate and bitterness when their blog topic turned political. I had a great week last week ~ hope you have a wonderful week this week!
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This coming week should be a nice peaceful calm week. I’ve blocked people too. Hope your week is another good one.
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I wonder if people being ugly about things is something new, or if only now they feel emboldened enough to let their inner thinking becoming their outside voice. The optimist in me says the former, and the pessimist (realist?) in me says the latter. Whatever happened to “if you have nothing nice (or at least constructive) to say, keep quiet”?
Deb
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I really believe that it’s always been there but there was a politeness or custom or whatever you want to call it about keeping it to yourself. Now anything goes.
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Nothing too excited except fixing up stuff around the house or fixing Mr. Squeaky(Chuck’s favorite toy.) Hope you have a great day!
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Fixing stuff is a good thing. You get to cross tasks off your list!
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Right. Got to keep that list small but as a homemaker it always seems to grow 😀
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🙂
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Happy birthday to your Mom. My Mum would have been 98 this past May.
Glad we have our NHS here in the UK at the moment in respect of Hubby’s forthcoming op. We don’t have medical insurance, and when we looked into it, premiums were beyond us anyway.
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Medical care is expensive here as are all drugs.
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We are lucky in that being over 60, our meds are free, though as I am on cancer meds, they would usually be free if I was under 60.
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Not much is free here!
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Do you have a Medicare Advantage or a MediGap plan or neither? BFF turns 65 next year so I’m trying to get educated on options. I know it varies by state, but if you have a pointer or two to share about choosing between them, please do!
Happy Birthday to your mom. My mom would have been 91 at the end of September . . . which means it’s been 91 years since the start of the Great Depression ~ at least we’re better off now than then. But maybe the gap is closing! 😛
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We went with the Advantage for this year. It costs us nothing (other than what they already take out of each social security check). For us it works better. Many medications are free (which were not under our drug plan) and our primary care physician is free. Where they get your money is with the higher priced stuff. For our plan a hospital stay of any length is a $750 co-pay. Since neither of us had been hospitalized in decades we took that chance. As it turns out being hospitalized for observation is coded as an Emergency Room co-pay. There is a charge for MRIs, CAT scans, etc. but it’s minimal and we don’t routinely get any of those either. You have to log what you spent in the past year along with what you’ve had done and compare the costs. For us Advantage was way ahead. I received reimbursements of over $800 for my glasses and dental which wasn’t covered at all under a sup plan. Also depends on how healthy you are. If you are hospitalized often with a lot of testing, you may be better under a sup plan.
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Thank you SO MUCH! This is really helpful. We’re pretty healthy and prefer NOT to spend time in hospitals . . . so Advantage plans may be the way to go. Thanks!
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Very interesting, Kate. I help my Michigan sister in reviewing her plan every year, so this is a reminder for me to get around to doing that again. We switched her two years ago from Original Medicare to an Advantage plan that did offer more, including coverage for when she winters in Arizona (not all Advantage plans will cover you in another state). She also has remarkable coverage for vision. I keep reminding her that not every year is the same, and we have to go over it carefully on an annual basis. That part she doesn’t like so much. So your post is also a reminder for me to fasten my safety belt in speaking with her about it. 🙂 – Marty
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I hate spending time on it but it’s necessary.
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I’ll be making those decisions soon. I haven’t finalized anything but I do know that it’s much harder to switch back to original Medicare once you’ve switched to Medicare Advantage. The gap coverage MUST take you regardless of health (no health check required) when you first sign up. But, if you switch, your health (and prior medical issues) can be taken into consideration when setting your fees.
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I’m not sure I knew that. I do know that they are eliminating the more expensive high coverage plans in my state. Current subscribers are grandfathered in but they will eventually kick them out by overpricing it.
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I think a lot of people are surprised by that. It’s something we learned when we were researching options for my husband when he turned 65 a couple of years ago.
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Can’t wait until the election is over. Just hoping it results in a sea change for our country.
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Me too! I am so sick of how ugly people have gotten under this current administration. Nothing gets done.
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