This past week we said goodbye to our beloved Mollie. She’s been ill off and on since last fall. Two weeks ago she was diagnosed with diabetes. We were not able to stabilize her blood glucose. Her underlying unknown GI-related health issues may have contributed. It was obvious she wasn’t feeling well. She was ready. We weren’t but it wasn’t about us. RIP my sweet baby girl.
So sorry to read about, Mollie. It’s always so hard to say goodbye.
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Yes and she was a favorite here.
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So sorry. You gave her a beautiful life, and she gave you the gift of knowing and loving her. I hope you find peace in that.
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Thanks. It will take some time but I’ll get there.
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That top picture is the on I will remember: a beauty of great presence.
I am so sorry – our ancient Westie had the same final week – we did everything, but he was clear we hadn’t failed him.
The Realm salutes a wonderful creature that graced your lives. May peace and comfort wrap warmly around you.
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Thanks. She is missed by all of us. We are all clinging together for comfort. Funny how cats do that too.
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So sorry to hear this, Kate. I know how much you did to try to help her.
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Oh, I am so sorry to hear this. Sending lots of hugs. RIP, Mollie.
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Thanks. She will be missed.
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Mollie was such a beautiful cat. I know how you must feel. We just lost our little Maisie last week too. ❤
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I am so sorry. Mollie was with us for 14 years and is greatly missed. Pets are family.
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Just a year more than Maisie. Pets are indeed family, and with an empty nest they are our children. ❤
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Well, 2020 hasn’t been going to well for us so far. My heart is with you, Kate. I know how hard this is. You did all you could for Mollie and she knows it. You did what was right for her, even though it’s heart-wrenching for you. Sending warm thoughts and hugs. 💗
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Thanks. I have really bad words for 2020. We had a human health crisis earlier in the year too. Yes you know all about this grieving stuff. One minute you’re good and the next you’re in a heap of sobs. Worst of all it was hard to get vet care for her. I had to wait 10 days to see a specialist and then I couldn’t be with her for the exam. Oh yes, and the weather is lousy too. Rain, cold, gale force winds. I’m waiting for locusts and the rest of the plagues to come through.
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I’m so sorry for your loss.
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Sleep well, sweet kitten
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Sleep well, sweet kitten
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Mollie could not have asked for a better life! And you gave that to her. May she rest now, in peace and pain free. We know that Morgan, Gracie and Sasha will all help to heal your heart.💗
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I don’t remember her getting old. To me she was the same young cat she was when she first come here. That’s how it happens. Totally blindsided.
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Awww Kate. I’m trying to type this with my eyes all welly. I’m so sad for you … and little Sasha who I suspect will feel a big hole in her life 😢
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Today for the first time since Mollie is gone (Friday) she jumped up on the bed that she would share with her. I wonder what she thinks.
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My condolences. You made a difficult decision but I’m sure it was for the best. 💐
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It would have been easier had they been able to diagnose the condition. The uncontrollable diabetes knocked the decision over the fence. Prior to that I was convinced it was really bad reflux. There was something going on in there but wasn’t making her happy.
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awww I’m sorry. She was well-loved, but that doesn’t make saying good-bye any easier. ~MJ
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No it doesn’t.
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So sorry. My thoughts are with you.
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Pete and I send condolences…This is such sad news.
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Thanks. I remember when you had to put your dog down. It’s such a sad time.
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When I stop crying, I will say a prayer for her and you. God bless you both. I hope you will still post pictures of her from time to time because she was quite the cutie pie. I’m so sorry.
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Thanks. I haven’t stopped crying yet and it happened on Friday. She’ll always be in the pictures and in our hearts.
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God be with you.
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Sending you a hug Kate……I know that pain……I know that empty feeling but I also know Mollie is FOREVER yours.
Love, Pam
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It is a deep empty feeling that is hard to shake. Sometimes I forget for a minute, then I remember. It takes time and I have three furry friends to help.
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It’s never easy. Condolences and hugs on the loss of Mollie.
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I’ve been through it before but I always forget how hard it is.
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Me, too. Then an anniversary happens, or a letter addressed to the deceased one. That, at least, is less likely to happen with a fur friend, yet August 1st always is the day Louie the ginger kitty, the cat I had before Andy the Dougy the Persian kitty brothers. died. IUt always is a quiet, reflective, sad day.
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I lost my cat Jake on Labor Day week. It’s always a reflective time for me. Hazel died on New Year’s Eve Day. That was the worst because I had dinner plans (which I should have cancelled). Nothing tasted right and I couldn’t focus. Now I have that issue every NYE. There are the good, funny memories too. This one blindsided me. I knew she wasn’t feeling well but I had no idea the extent of her issues.
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I had an apartment inspection by the landlord (counting bedrooms and bathrooms!) the day before Louie died. I totally missed the fact he didn’t eat anything that day or feel alarmed he was sleeping every time I saw him. When I put food out for his evening meal, it became obvious he wasn’t doing well. Of course, this was after the veterinarian clinic closed for the day. I called the emergency number and his regular veterinarian was at a sporting event his son was in and woulded be home for hours. I made video of Louie, explaining what I’d observed to that point (I thought it would help somehow, but, of course, it’s still on YouTube. I’ve never been able to watch it…or delete it.) The other veterinarian was out in the country dealing with a sick cow. Louie was stretched out on the livingroom floor by then. I stretched out by him, putting my hand on his paw. I intended to sleep there all night, giving him love and whatever comfort my presence would give him till the clinic opened the next morning. I fell asleep. When I woke up, he was gone. I looked for him, and he had somehow found the energy to climb into the dryer of the stacked washer/dryer, and that’s where he died. It was his favorite place to sleep.
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The video in the dryer is hysterical! I had to wait from Tuesday to Friday to get into the vet. I kept checking on her to make sure she didn’t die. Originally the visit was not for euthanasia but as the week went on, I knew she was ill and the meds I was giving weren’t helping. We don’t know what her problem was but if involved her upper GI and made her very uncomfortable. Did you know what Louie died from? He went out on his own terms in his favorite place.
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Louie had lymphoma. I felt guilty.], of course, that I didn’t feel lumps or see anything obvious. His veterinarian told me that I wouldn’t be able to feel anything since the lymph glands involved were along his spinal column, and not detectable by feel. I still felt bad he suffered and I missed it.
Yeah, the video is a favorite of mine! You might enjoy this little video I made for the children of a German friend. It is a simple moral tale/tail (?) featuring Louie and his nemesis, the late feral kitty, Taco.
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Louie is some cat. Reminds me of Jake. Thinks they are tough. RIP Louie! Fun video.
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So sorry for your loss of a long time family member. She is fortunate that you were able to let her go when she felt it was time. All the best for your healing.
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Thanks. It will take time.
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I’m so sorry. It’s hard to lose our loved ones.
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Yes it is. They are all family.
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I’m so sorry you’ve had this blow. Poor Mollie! She will live on in your heart — truly her forever home. I’m sending you love and hugs.
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Thanks. It’s been a tough week. There is a peace but it’s a painful peace.
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Hazel and now Mollie so soon after? My hearts breaks for you. Even if it’s the right thing to do, it hurts so darn much, I’m on my second tissue just reading about it. Many hugs.
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I’ve lost three long-time cats in 5 years. It’s a lot. I’ve been re-mourning Hazel and Jake. Fortunately I have three here who still put their butts in my face and jump on my full bladder.
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That’s the rough thing about loss, isn’t it? It’s cumulative. Every loss reminds you of a previous loss.
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Yes. It’s that way with people too.
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It’s why Memorial Services are so excruciating.
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Sorry to hear that Kate……thinking about you. She was a beautiful cat with a devoted owner.
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She was a very easy cat. Everyone loved her. No fights, no accidents, just purrs.
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Kate, I am very sorry to hear about, Molly. She was well-loved and will be missed. Hugs xo
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She was a favorite here with the peeps and the cats.
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I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. You took great care of her over the years and I know she appreciated it even if she didn’t always express it. Thank you for having shared her with us.
My deepest sympathies to you and all the other beings in your household.
Namaste.
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Thanks. She was a great cat and will be missed.
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So so sorry. Let knowing she was ready and is no longer in pain, bring comfort. I will miss those eyes and gorgeous presence here. Sending a hug to you 💕🤗💕
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Knowing that she was uncomfortable most of the time is the only thing that brings me comfort. All hugs gratefully accepted.
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Oh, I’m so sorry to read this Kate … it is not easy and I often mention my friend Carol and her cat calamities to you, but because Mollie had not been feeling well and you were sick with worry, I didn’t want to tell you that Carol had Dudley euthanized on May 1st. Like you, her heart is broken. Dudley was the oldest of her cats and lived to 18 years old, but just like Mollie, the quality of life was not good as there were ailments and pills and rejection of meds, food, water … Carol was beside herself and this was her last resort.
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Mollie was an incredibly healthy cat until last fall. I was sure she’d be the first cat to live to 20 but that was not meant to be. She barely made 16. She didn’t have any of the usual “old cat” diseases. Whatever she had was a mystery. My heart goes out to your friend Carol. It’s not easy even when you know in your head that it’s the right decision. The head and the heart often disagree.
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Yes, the head and heart are not in sync when it comes to beloved pets. She had asked the vet at the second-to-last appointment how she could be present due to COVID-19 and was fretting over that as well as it was difficult enough with Harley June, just 18 months before. HJ was 16. One cat left, also 16, who is now listless and on the prowl looking for Dudley most waking hours.
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The remaining cats have to make an adjustment. When I lost Hazel I notice a different in Morgan. They were buds. It’s like she outgrew kittenhood overnight. Perhaps she would adopt a friend for him. Cats aren’t the loners people think they are. Hopefully your friend was able to be with Dudley when he passed. That’s the only time my vet allows the owner in.
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I’m not sure what they did because Carol just posted on Facebook “we’ve decided to let Dudley go.” Then a few days later she did a little tribute to him. When she took Dudley in for that second-to-last visit, she did a FB post saying she/husband asked how they would handle it. It is New York. The vet was not allowing anyone into the office, dropping pets off in carriers only and suggested a vet come to her house or they could have it done on the lawn outside the vet’s office. She posted those options and no one asked or commented so I don’t know what she chose. She has said she won’t get any more cats after Smudge is gone – he is 16. Too painful. She shelters several feral Mama cats and traps their kittens when they are weaned and old enough and takes them to a feral cat shelter.
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In the midst of the pain of loss, I don’t want to connect with anything again. Yet I had 14 wonderful years with Mollie. It would do a disservice to her if I didn’t continue to rescue cats. The best tribute you can do is to adopt in their name but each of us has to make that decision. I have three so there aren’t plans to add. We are getting older so any new cat may outlive us. I am blessed to have three great cats that get along.
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Carol has said many times in the past that any new cat may outlive her too – she is 65 but does have some health issues as does her husband. She is legal guardian of her sister who is in he late 50s, so that is not an option for cat care-taking responsibilities down the road.
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Sometimes you can work with a rescue who will agree to re-home any cats you outlive. We have several locally. When you adopt from them they guarantee they will take the cat back if something happens.
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I wonder if Carol knows that – that is very good to know.
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Fostering is another way to get a cat fix without long term commitment.
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Oh no! Kate, I am so sorry for your loss, and to read of Mollie’s passing.
Deb
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Thanks. It’s a very sad time here.
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I am so sorry for the loss of beautiful Mollie. XO
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Thanks. It’s hard to lose them.
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Oh no, I’m so sorry! 😢
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My heart breaks for you, Kate. Lucy, Grace, Adi and I will say cat and human prayers for you.
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Thank you. They are very much appreciated.
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I can’t express how sorry for your loss of Mollie. She had a wonderful home with you, Kate. RIP Mollie, you will be missed.
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Thanks. She is very much missed.
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I am so sorry to hear about your sweet baby.
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I’m so sorry you lost Mollie! I know it’s very hard to lose a pet you care about so deeply.
My thoughts are with you.
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Thanks. It’s like something is missing in the house.
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I’m sorry. I know she was very nice.
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So sorry to hear about Mollie 😢
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Sorry to hear your news Kate. At 16, she had a good “run”, which is also a testament to you as a Mom. Take care.
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Thanks. It’s hard when they get sick. Harder still when they go.
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So sad to hear this. Never easy to lose a catkid. Mollie shared love with you and that is a wonderful blessing for both of you. The many sweet memories will help you as you grieve.
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They are family.
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I am so very sorry. 💕
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So sorry, Kate. It is so terribly difficult to lose a member of the family. You did the best you could, and she had a good life with you. Sending my sympathies. Lakota
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Thank you. She was happy until all this happened. She ruled the roost.
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I’m so sorry to hear this, Kate. What a wonderful life you gave her…she couldn’t have been more loved. ❤
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I’ve had a lot of cats and she was a great one. We will miss her terribly.
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Oh Kate, I am so very, very sorry. She was beautiful and will be missed by everyone, not to mention Gracie, Morgan and Sascha. RIP sweet baby. ❤ ❤ ❤
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Thanks. It was a tough week and it didn’t end the way I had hoped. We do what is best for them and that’s all we can do. I was lucky to have access to a vet.
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You summed it up perfectly with She was ready. But you’re right, we never are, and it’s not about us.
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Oh Kate! I am so sorry! She was such a beautiful, sweet cat. Hugs to you and the rest of your household!
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Thanks. Even the cats are subdued.
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I’m so sorry, Kate. Mollie was so beautiful and I loved reading her posts. Take comfort in that she’s no longer in pain. You are in our thoughts.🐾🐾🐾
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Thanks. It’s a sad time.
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Oh Kate. How heartbreaking. I’m so sorry. I know it’s a bit like having your heart ripped out when this happens. She was a beautiful cat, inside and out. She had the poise of royalty and the glamour of a supermodel. I will miss her posts.
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She was a beauty. As I was looking at her pictures, I could tell when she started not feeling well. She stopped smiling.
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I’m so sorry Kate, I know it’s so hard to lose kitties as I am missing so many. You gave her a good life, and I hope you can take comfort in the good memories.
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I’ve lost 3 cats in 5 years. My remaining three are 8, 5 and 2 so hopefully there will be some time before we go through this again.
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Oh, Kate. I’m so sorry. Mollie was a sweetie. And she kept the younger cats in line. Hope your happy memories help you heal. Peace.
BTW: Every time you lose a cat, I cry.
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I get that. I cry every time anyone I know loses a pet.
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Hi, Kate – I was so sad to read this news. Sending the warmest hugs your way. You and Mollie are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Thanks. She had 14 years with us and two before us so she had a good long life.
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I am so very sorry and I am crying with you now. It is so heart wrenching to lose one of our own.
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I am like that too. When one of my friends loses their pet, I am right there with them in pain.
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I am so very sorry. She was the sweetest girl. RIP Mollie.
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Thanks. I’ll follow up with some Mollie stories when I can think. She was quite a cat.
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Your decision was the kindest one for her, but I know it was hard and so sad for you. RIP sweet Mollie, We will all miss you.
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It is tough. She was so healthy in many ways except for something they couldn’t diagnose.
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Can’t press the “like” button on that. So sad.
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I am so sorry for your loss Kate; you did everything you could for Mollie and you and she were lucky to have spent the journey together. She was really special and I hope that you don’t grieve too long because the other kitties need you too. Bless you for your caring for all of your cats because they could not be in a better home.
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We will grieve together. I often wonder what the other cats think when one disappears. They knew she was ill.
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💔I am just sick over this news. Sending you warm thoughts and prayers and hope all the tender memories you shared provide you with a measure of comfort as you go forward. 💔RIP pretty kitty.
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The house is very quiet. Even the other cats are subdued.
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No doubt. Everyone grieves the loss of a family member. 😕
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I am sorry. I know she was a lovely cat.
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She was an easy cat too.
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Oh Kate, I just saw this on Twitter. I’m so so very sorry. What a beautiful wonderful family member. I know you did everything you could do for her. RIP Mollie. We all love you.
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It was so hard. I’m lucky that the vets stayed open here but the protocol is awful. Fortunately I was able to be with her when she passed.
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I was glad to read this Kate. Thoughts are with you all
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I’m so glad you were able to stay with her. I know how important that is for both of you. Sending buckets of hugs!
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As I understand it, not all vets are allowing that. Maybe because I’m a long-term client or maybe my vet is more compassionate.
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I’m so sorry, Kate. I wish I had the words that would heal your heart, but I don’t. You are in my thoughts.
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Thanks for your thoughts. It will take time.
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RIP sweet Mollie ❤️🌈
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Thanks.
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