Thankfulness – It’s funny what small things are big things when it comes to thankfulness. Yes I’d be delighted to win the lottery but in the past year or so I’ve discovered two small things that make my everyday life easier and for that I’m grateful. Valentine’s Day at Starbucks was insane. Do people only drink coffee on holidays? Seems so. With the order ahead app, I was able to scoot ahead of 30 people. The other item is the red dot in my pond that signifies the electricity is on and everything is working. It’s the small things that make life easier (although I’d like to prove that a lottery win would be good too). Thank you to Sharlene and Alex for coaching me on both of those.
Time flies – Yesterday marked the one year anniversary of my brother and sister-in-law’s near fatal car accident. Considering their age (90-ish), they have recovered very well. It took a while for my SIL but you can’t keep an old broad down!
Another death – As you grow older there are more deaths. People died when I was a kid but other than my father, most were really old people (by kid standards) and were not a big part of my life. Every year there are a few less friends on this planet. It doesn’t matter what you say (he had a good life, he’s in a better place, etc.) it’s still a loss. I wish I could go back to that time when everyone was here and we were enjoying life.
Stalking ads – I’m being stalked by mental health medication ads. Does the internet know something I don’t? I haven’t researched anything remotely connected to that. Weird! Or is it?
Waiting… — We were notified that our power would be cut for about five hours for a repair. It rained on the scheduled date so it was postponed. There have been some nice days since then but no one showed up. The outage starts around 8 a.m. so I want to be showered and ready for my day. I’m retired. Early mornings suck.
So how was your week?
You’re SIL looks amazing, but particularly so after that horrific accident a year ago. 🥰 Trust me, morning isn’t nearly as bad as a power cut.
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A power cut in the winter is no fun at any time.
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Power cuts any time are a drag, but especially in the winter when there’s cold weather.
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Wow! Your SIL is a beauty.
My Mom used to say, “The worst part of growing old is losing important things like people.” I too have been losing friends lately at an alarming rate. It leaves holes all around me.
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It does. Sometimes it happens gradually with health issues but sometimes you get gobsmacked!
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My computer time is being hampered by dry eye. Will the wind ever stop blowing here? It is definitely the small things that make our life so much richer and worthwhile and HAPPY! We just need to recognize them. I am very good at appreciating the small things if I do say so myself 🙂 There is a lot of dying that goes on around Florida communities… I had no idea how much it would affect us. I am happy beyond words that your Sis-in-law and brother are doing so well. She is adorable!
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After recovering from the sty and being really good about eye drops, my eyes are good right now. The problem is that they don’t feel dry, I forget the drops and I’m back in my irritated eye state. My husband’s mother was in assisted living at the end. She lived to her 90s but had serious health issues. There were a lot of deaths and many affected her. She lost so many best friends that at one point she became very depressed. Outliving all your friends isn’t a good thing.
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Wow – has it really been a year since your brother and SIL’s accident? It seems so much more recent than that. So glad they are both doing OK in the time since! I am starting to have friends passing as well – not that frequently, but as we get into our mid-50’s, time is starting to take its toll. So I know what you mean.
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Every morning my husband reads the obits and informs me that I’m not there and can proceed to get dressed! 🙂
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LOL!
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Starbucks used to be in the office building where I worked before my boss and I left the Firm. They did not have as many of the fancy drinks with the hearts in the foam, or many of the items I hear advertised or you mention and people, two lines actually, out the door and into the street. I thought it was a novelty when they were first there – boy was I mistaken. I have learned of more deaths and sickness in the last six months, most around my age, and it has been a gut punch. I’m toying with mentioning one of the gentleman, a fellow walker, without going into specifics in a post … he walked to rehab from a heart attack and in the last six months had a stroke, oral cancer (had his tongue and part of his jawbone removed) and on the day after leaving the nursing home and in the care of his sister, he went into a coma … died four days later. I usually walk alone at the park, but he was a friend to everyone there … many of the regular walkers are using their treadmills or mall walking and don’t know. I saw his death in the Facebook Neighborhood Forum. I was upset, still upset … a triple whammy and gone at age 70.
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Wow! He went through a lot in a short time. So sad and 70 is young these days.
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Yes, I agree … too much in a short time. Very sad since he had really rehabbed after the heart attack and looked healthy up to last Fall. A few of us remarked to one another that he was very gaunt looking. He was staying to himself at that time. I don’t think he was taller than 5 feet so after losing weight he looked like a shadow of himself.
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Yes, it’s the little things. I’m thankful for my new Cuisinart coffee pot. It makes darn good coffee. And I’ve found a new favorite creamer, Nutpods.
I have two groups that remind of every new death: the guy who is the point man for my high school graduating class tells us of every death. Also the organization my husband worked for, Asian Development Bank. It’s a large organization, so, luckily, I don’t know most of them.
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I worked at the same company as my husband a long time ago and know many of the same people. They have quarterly newsletters with the deaths listed. I know many of them from the 70s and 80s.
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Your sister in law is 90ish? She looks terrific! Can’t believe it’s been a year since their accident. So glad they’re both doing much better.
I often think about going back to the days when everyone we love is still around us and enjoying all the new members of our family. If only…
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She was 90 last November and she looks that fabulous. I’d love just one day with everyone.
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It really does suck that as we age our circle of friends and family seems to shrink from deaths. This seems to happen when we have retired and have more time to visit. ☹️
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Some have come as a shock too. We lost two women two years ago. One was my age but the other wasn’t even 50.
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So true and sad.
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Your sister-in-law looks wonderful. If I am around at 90 I hope I look that good! I never buy lottery tickets so I will never win. Maybe I should buy one? Last year I 5 people I knew died. Two were a good bit younger than me. Sad. I was never a morning person so the 50 some years I worked the mornings were problematic. Now I don’t set the alarm and get up when the cats wake me.😽
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5 people died not 15. Really bad typo!
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Losing 5 in a year is bad enough. The cats are all over me if I’m not up by 7:15. They have a clock!
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Are you sure your sister-in-law didn’t get a little face tuck while she was in the hospital anyway? She looks fabulous! I am fortunate that I haven’t lost too many people in my life. I miss my mother and father a great deal, but they both lived a long, full life. At my age, I imagine it won’t be too long before I start to experience more loses. Sad, but a fact of life, I guess.
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You are lucky. They seem to come in bunches. Several at a time and then all is good for a while. She just looks that good. I blame it on the genes!
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Happy to hear that your SIL is doing well, Kate. Let’s hope for good health for all of us for a very long time!
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Hear, hear!
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So glad to read that you can’t keep an old broad down. I’d love to be your SIL’s age some day and look half as good!
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She does look that good. She has all her own teeth and parts.
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It’s hard to believe it’s been a year since the car accident. I’m happy they are both doing well, Kate. Valentine’s Day was crazy everywhere! I took the day off from the day job to take my mother out shopping. There were people all over the place and traffic was crazy!
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It is hard to believe. The outcome was so much better than any of us had hoped for. We were truly blessed. VD? Yikes! I don’t remember such craziness. Maybe being Friday AND VD had something to do with it.
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They send those mental health medication ads to all . . . “cat ladies.” 😆
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I thought you were going to say women over 40!
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That’s probably it!
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I’d no idea Starbucks was such a happening place for Valentine’s Day! I was sure it was Pizza Hut, with their heart-shaped pizzas.
There were three shocking, tragic deaths when I was 5, 12, and 14. My cousin, hit by a drunk driver. My sister’s best friend, killed by her mentally ill mother. And my own mother. I think I got used to death. When older people die naturally, it hurts, but…take my grandfather. He was so at peace with his coming end and so grateful he’d survived WWII that I only hurt for my loss. Not his.
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Our own loss is usually more profound. Still miss my mom after 34 years. She was ill and was ready. I was not.
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There were more people at Star$ because it was Valentine’s Day? I don’t get that at all. I’ll just file that in my People Be Weird file and move on. I cringe about early mornings too. I’m up early but I’m not ready to face the day early. Big difference.
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That is me too. I’m not up to face people at that time either although the utility guys wouldn’t be interacting with me. That’s why I love my gym. No one really talks much. As for Valentine’s day, I suspect that some people bring a “treat” in for their staff or friends. It was insane. Had I not pre-ordered, I wouldn’t have waited.
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Chocolate does go nicely with coffee.
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Excellent point!
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Our Starbucks here (THREE in a very small town!) are always packed so I get my Starbucks fix via k-pods for my Keurig. I’m the only one in line! HAHA Your S-I-L looks gorgeous – I can only hope in 20-ish years when I’m in my 90s to look that great. So is the universe trying to tell you something with these “mental health med” ads you’re seeing?? Food for thought! I have no idea how we get targeted by certain ads/other spam. One of those mysteries of life (and the internet) I guess………….happy Sunday.
Hugs, Pam (and Teddy too)
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I wish I looked as good as my SIL now! She is amazing! I get a mocha latte and as much as I have experimented, I can’t get the same taste at home. I have to buy an espresso machine to do it and I’ve not done that…yet. We have a Keurig and enjoy that too.
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Hi, Kate – I’m so glad to hear that your brother and SIL are both doing well. Your SIL looks gorgeous. You are absolutely right — there is so much to be grateful for.
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Some things that you think will be “big thankful items” are not. It’s those little things that happen frequently that we sometimes miss.
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Early mornings do suck. We’ve had a short span of time where we didn’t have any dogs to sit while folks were on vacation and we got to sleep until seven, which is late for us. So much nicer to get up when it is light outside than when it is still dark.
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One of the great things about retirement is I sleep until 7. That is sleeping in from my working days. I resent getting up in the dark. Not happy when I have to do that and I’m especially not happy when I have to get up, quickly jump in the shower and start my day in high speed. I really love the long days of summer. Then I don’t mind getting up early!
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Way easier to get up in the summer, and that’s a good thing since we can rarely sleep in during the summer with the busy pet sitting schedule!
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Sleeping in during the summer doesn’t interest me unless I don’t feel good. I love to be up and about when the sun is shining!
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