Say what? – We are foodies in our families. Foodies with definite opinions. We don’t eat weird stuff but much of our traditional foods come from revered recipes that you don’t fool with. My brother gave me a portion of his fabulous cheesecake. The recipe comes from Lindy’s in New York City. It’s plain cheesecake with the flavor inside it (as I was informed). I served it to some friends with the option to use ice cream toppings if they wished. They put caramel on it. When I told my brother, he explained (in a loud and agitated voice) that it was best served naked. I have informed my friends that if we get it again, they must take their clothes off.
Smack dab in the middle – Having the holidays in the middle of the week throws me off. It’s the weekend, then a holiday, weekend and another holiday. I don’t know why it makes a difference but it does.
Seriously folks! – I am savvy as to how crowded Starbucks gets on specific days at the time I go. Fridays are the worst and for some reason Tuesdays are busy too. Weekends get busy later in the morning unless there is a charity walk scheduled. During the holidays, it’s hard to figure it all out. One day there are 60 cars there and the next day 3. Can’t wait until life goes back to normal.
Lights – We were cruising around local neighborhoods to check out the holiday lighting displays and concluded that most people aren’t doing as much. There are the over achievers but there are fewer of them. I wondered if that was generational. Inflatables have invaded our neighborhood. This is the first year we’ve seen them here but we’ve had an influx of families with kids. Much as we laugh at them, I like to see the kids happy.
Smart phones – I bought a fitness tracker. It connects to my cell phone. I bought something else over the holidays that I also needed a smart phone to activate. Seriously does everyone need one now? I like my phone because the younger generation texts. I can keep in touch better but except for a few other things, I would be fine with a flip phone. I remember the problem we had getting my mother to use a wireless phone. The old ones required a few button presses to answer a call. It was befuddling to her and she never used it preferring the old one tethered to the wall. We get forced into technology in many ways.
So how was your week?
Naked cheesecake sounds like fun! And I also discovered inflatables for the first time on my trip to Milwaukee two weeks ago. (Two weeks? Seems like months!) Most of the ones I saw were in the state of deflation and were – to be honest – kind of creepy. Wrinkly decomposing Santas and Rudolfs after the steamroller. I think I will stick with lights.
Happy New Year, Kate!
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Thanks! You have to see them blown up in full glory! Happy New Year to you!
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Best served naked, haha!
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That’s what they tell me!
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Funny story about the cheese cake! 😂
We also noticed there were not as many decorated houses this year. I even thought stores did not overbuy as much. So many people buy online these days.
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Changing times. I miss it.
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Your mention of the health tracker reminds me of when Apple started doing something called a “cycle tracker” in their health app. Cat Daddy thought, “That might be handy for monitoring my bike rides” and clicked in … only to discover that it was, erm, a different kind of cycle. A ladies’ kind. 😱😱😱
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I can track that on my gizmo too except I no longer have a need for that! 🙂 It has a bike mode but not sure how that works. I think I have to download an app. So much to learn!
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I always look at the backend of Christmas with a sigh of relief, and with New Year’s on the horizon, for me it just means the long endless winter is ahead.
I can’t really say whether external decorations have decreased here this year or not. I’ve been a bit of a recluse lately, rarely venturing out. I can however predict that 2 houses around the corner from me will have their Christmas lights on until at least February 🙂
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I share the relief along with the knowledge that it will be winter without all the pretty lights. We are just about to start our countdown to spring! We have a house around the corner that keeps the lights until after St. Patrick’s day. For Valentine’s day they light just the red ones. For St. Patrick’s day it’s just the green ones. Then they come down.
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I must say I do give them points for enthusiasm 🙂
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I want to say that they have kids which often makes a big difference but their kids are in college!
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I have to say that I enjoy my smarter than me phone. I don’t drag it around with me everywhere but I enjoy some of the conveniences and I do enjoy Instagram. I like to listen to the Calm app at night to fall asleep. Not many lights in our neighborhood… not surprised, but lots of decorations. Had to google kipfels… I could be very happy eating them!
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I like my phone and I’m getting there with my fitness tracker too. I don’t walk around with the cell nor do I check it every 5 minutes but for some things it can’t be beat. It’s the kind of thing that you think you don’t need until you get one. I don’t do half the stuff on it that I could but I do enough to make it worthwhile for me.
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I am thinking about going back to my old theme and it is what you use. Your blog looks like a breath of fresh air, I can read the font without squinting, and it showcases your photos well. I miss my old theme.
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I’ve thought about updating my theme but every time I try, I don’t like the look. I’ve kept the names of a couple that I like a lot (from other bloggers) and some day I’ll spend time again. It’s a 2011 theme so it’s pretty old. One day it won’t be “supported” anymore. Thanks for your kind words.
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I am back to my old theme but I can’t get rid of that GOLD title! Yikes! WP seems to save setting on your old themes… I’ve had a few.
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Changing things always takes me a lot of time to figure out stuff. It’s not intuitive.
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I’m all messed up on the day of the week too. It felt mighty nice on Friday to know there were two days off though. I hate when Christmas falls mid-week though – I feel kind of gypped as no “freebie” day. Your treats look good – we used to buy rugalach at a produce market which features baked goodies from all around the world. They were tasty. I have a flip phone and I never use it – it is just for safety to carry when I am out of the house. I call my landline number just to discharge the battery and recharge it every so often, otherwise I never use it. The world is revolving around smartphones though – I registered for a few 5Ks last year and in each case they gave you your receipt/admission to pick up your gear to appear on your phone. That is how they are doing concerts and professional sports games as well. I don’t have a printer as it is attached to a Vista desktop and Microsoft does not support it any longer so I don’t turn it on. I don’t need a printer for work as all my work comes to me via PDFs so I have to jot down my registration info. I guess one day I will have to break down and get a smartphone. I had a cute 2G phone and they made me upgrade to a 3G phone as ATT didn’t support it after 2017. I had it for years, never a problem with it and it was about the size of a mini computer mouse.
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I upgraded to a smart phone for a few reasons and found that it’s handy. It’s like having a computer with you. Mine has GPS along with phone numbers and I can text or email by talking into it. If you don’t interact with people a lot, it’s not as necessary but I find it good even to have a friend text that she is on her way when we are meeting up.
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I mentioned to another walker at the Park that I never use it and didn’t know how to text (except from my computer to a cellphone which I do for my boss and a few friends) and she asked to see the phone and manipulated it to have me speak and the phone would text or call out the phone numbers. When I call my landline now, it merrily calls out my phone number. 🙂 I still don’t know how to text on it.
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You can probably talk into it to text. You need to have contacts on your phone to do it.
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I actually don’t have any contacts – the only one I call is myself to recharge the battery. I used to call my neighbor or my boss – they are my emergency contacts and I have to have a second emergency contact since Marge died in 2017. My boss is my primary emergency contact/medical designate.
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You don’t have friends or relatives that you occasionally call? I don’t have a lot (compared to most) but I have about 20 or so. It’s an easy contact when I’m having lunch with friends.
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No, I don’t call anyone from my cellphone Kate; not even from my landline. All my friends, (except for Ann Marie, who follows my blog and with whom I used to walk with occasionally at Council Point Park, until she moved to an apartment as her husband had difficulty climbing stairs) live out of state or not near me in Michigan and have for decades now. In fact, I lost track of everyone and only connected with these people through Facebook when Facebook’s algorithms connect you with others from the same town and/or who attended the same high school. No one has remained in this town.
I called my boss when I worked on site as I still checked my voicemail in off work hours and would call him for business stuff. I only call him during the work day now and if I’ve never mentioned it before, I have not seen my boss since October of 2012. He rarely drops work off and if he does, he drops it at the door while I’m off walking or during the day, then sends me an e-mail he was by. I have no relatives and the only persons I had called when I had my former phone was my mom or our neighbor Marge. Both are gone now – I really didn’t call my boss that much. People find it hard to believe really – I am a bit of an oddity. I don’t meet anyone for lunch either – no one is around here.
I only text from the computer … mostly to my boss and I have no relatives at all. (I’m kind of an orphan I guess.)
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I rarely use the calling feature but I do text.
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I used to use my neighbor as a guinea pig for trying out tech things and she did the same for me. She is the one who encouraged me to start a blog – it was not my idea. I would tell her (in person, e-mail or via Facebook) about what I saw on my trips and share pictures, so she followed a few blogs and sent them to me (hint hint) and I really only started the blog to appease her. But now that she is gone, I put phone tech on the back burner for now … I think eventually no one will be without a smartphone.
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You are not kidding about the midweek holidays messing schedules up! How busy stores are, garbage pickup – everything is thrown off! Also agree with you about everything needing your smartphone now. I do like having apps for a lot of things, but other stuff is best done on a regular computer.
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For anything lengthy I prefer the desktop. The phone is just so small for these old eyes. Fortunately I have the “talk to it” feature for texting.
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I do at this point feel a little dependent on my Smartphone, and at the same time, I resent it. I can’t blame anyone, but I sure did buy in. And at this point I have it linked to so many apps that I’d be very seriously impaired if I tried to change. My recent goal has been to try to at least put it down and forget about it more, but because we don’t have a landline and it’s the only way my mom can reach me, I don’t let go much. She’s 87 and actually texts me several times a day. LOL!
I have been bothered by the midweek holiday and being “off” on what day is it now? I was in a panic on Thursday because I couldn’t find Zena. Truly panicked. Then my husband suddenly remembered that it was Thursday and the dog walker comes on Thursday to take her on a pack walk. I’m ready to get back to normal, whatever that is. 🙂
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Maybe it’s being retired when I barely remember what day it is normally but it seems like a bunch of weekends smashed together. I’ll miss the gym again on Wednesday and that throws me off too. I can see the whole Zena thing happening. It’s cool that she gets a pack walk! As for the smart phone, with the kids and grandkids dragging us into the 21st century, I’m liking it more. I don’t know what I would do if I couldn’t order my Starbucks ahead. (Well, I do! I’d waste a lot of time waiting.) I have a few apps on it that are very helpful. Now I even remember to charge it!
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I will take cheesecake served naked or dressed. Not as many decorations in our neighborhood either and most are the inflatable ones. Cute for the kids when blown up but sad during the day when they lie lifeless and deflated.
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We call it dirty laundry on the yard!
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Lights. We have a house one mile away that has music set to their lavish lighting display. You pull in front of their house and they have a sign for which radio station to put on to listen to the music, this way it’s not disturbing neighbors. Although, they get a lot of car traffic. Since we moved here three years ago, we try to go there once during the season.
Sometimes it bothers me that we (meaning “I”) get so attached to needing technology. Seems like we can be fooled into doing anything if we think it improves our lives. BTW, I haven’t spoken through a cell phone yet that has as good of sound quality as the old landlines.
Thank you for giving me a really hearty laugh today about eating cheesecake naked. 😆
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The naked part was my brother’s contribution!
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And here I been eating cheesecake wrong all this time! 😃
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According to my brother you have.
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And Brothers are smart, right? 🙂
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No comment! But they sure bake good cheesecake.
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LOL!!
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We have fewer and fewer Christmas lights in our area every year. There are pockets of neighborhoods that go all out, but even those aren’t what they used to be. I seem to remember (for what that is worth) that it all started during the energy “crisis” in the 1970s. Most houses didn’t put up their lights then and many never did again. Of course that was also when Boomers were growing up and leaving home so perhaps their parents didn’t feel as motivated to go all out. Whatever the reason is, I miss them. I’m not crazy about the blow-ups, but at least it’s something.
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When I was a kid, the lights were on until around the 14th of January or the Orthodox new year (although we weren’t orthodox). It’s just what the neighborhood did. Now the lights will be done on Jan. 2.
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Making guests strip down to eat “naked” cheesecake nearly sent coffee out my nose. People get really invested in certain foods being served certain ways. But tease in everything from books to food is subjective–how can someone insist that something tastes better without wearing someone else’s taste buds?
We have a massive neighborhood holiday light display a half mile from our house. Beautiful, but makes traffic hellish.
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My friends aren’t the kind of people you want to see naked! We have one large very beautiful professional display. We go to see it every year and yep, traffic is a nightmare. I’m just grateful I don’t live near it.
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I only saw one inflatable Santa in a garden this year, and he was face down in a puddle, so guess he’d fallen down on the job. He stayed that way or that was his position each time I passed that house.
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That’s really odd! Sounds like they lost interest in him.
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Either that or he had a permanent leak and they couldn’t find it.
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I am also a Bronto……no need for technology – only use the danged thing in an emergency too (as in car dies in the middle of the interstate kind of emergency). Yeah I know – hubby and I are old fashioned but we kinda like it in the slow(er) lane. I made a cheesecake this morning but have no intention of being “nekkid” when I eat it – unless I decide to eat it in the shower of course! HA! Happy New Year Kate………….
Hugs, Pam
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I don’t eat my cheesecake nekkid either. I like it with fruit on top! We held out a long time but this past year the beloved husband switched from flip phone to smart phone. The kids/grandkids are across the country so it really helps. They prefer texting to emailing.
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If we had kids or grandkids I’m SURE we’d have smart phones too!
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It does make a difference.
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I didn’t see as many lights in my neighbourhood either, maybe those inflatables are becoming more popular as you don’t have to climb a ladder to install them? I enjoyed your post, as always!
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Thanks. We have one professionally done property locally and it’s a yeowza display. I could sit in the car and look at it all night. No ambition to do much. We do a wreath with a spotlight and lights and garland around the door. Our trees are too big to light and then there isn’t much energy!
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The confusion about what day it is hit here too. Did you finally find a fitness tracker small enough for your wrist? Most of the things these smart phones do makes me ask, why? And, why do we need smart TV’s? The old ones worked fine and you didn’t have to worry about it spying on you.
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I did although I have to attach it at the tightest hole which puts the buckled at the curve of the wrist. Unless I was willing to go with a child’s version which was more limited, they don’t make bands for 4-1/2″ wrists. I’m doing ok with it although I’ve ordered a narrower (not shorter) band that I may like better. I have tape over the camera on my desktop so no one can spy. Some of the stuff you see on the news is scary.
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Glad it fits enough to work, it’s odd they don’t make a smaller comfortable bracelet. It seems like so many things nowadays are needing Bluetooth and internet to work. Some are good ideas but many have me shaking my head. 😊
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I have a sous vide immersion cooker that I love. The first one I bought required me to program from a smart phone. Really? I took it back and got one with controls on the contraption. I don’t walk around with my smart phone and I don’t cook with it!
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Wow, smart phone controlled cookware, haven’t heard about that yet. I agree, I would have returned it too.
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It was a dumb idea although they said you could turn it on from work. Do they think I would leave meat out all day to turn on later? What if it didn’t get the signal? Pizza and a batch of spoiled meat!
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No kidding.
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Bwahahaha! Ahh, brothers. What would we do without them. Can’t wait to read all about the naked get-together. 🤣
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Good lord not at my house! Old people are not pretty naked.
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Naked (and Afraid) Cheesecake – Bwahahahaha! As someone else wrote, remind me never to accept an invitation to eat cheesecake at your house, Kate!
I have embraced (literally, on many an occasion) my cellphone. It is my auxiliary (and better functioning, most days) memory and brain.
Thanks for the laughs!
Deb
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I am being forced to embrace it too. Wish I would have had it when I was young. All that time I spent hanging around the house just to get a phone call. Now calls are what I do least on my cell. My mother would not understand this world! The cheesecake is really good. You should reconsider.
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I laughed aloud at the way you are going to serve cheesecake next time.
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The bro said it’s served naked. What can I say?
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You’ve said all that needs to be said in a most delightful manner.
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Remind me NOT to order the cheesecake at your house ~> ” I have informed my friends that if we get it again, they must take their clothes off.”
My theory: Fridays are busy because people are giving themselves a pat on the back for a job well done. Tuesdays are busy because many people, who opted out of Monday and stayed home, head under the covers, are gearing up for the week.
I like Christmas better on any day but Wednesday.
I still don’t have a smart phone. And rarely use my flip phone. Signed, Bronto Saurus
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Dear Bronto, you hang in tough there! I am weak and get attracted to gadgets and stuff. I needed a smartphone to get a $50 discount on a product. Seriously? What happened to old fashioned coupons. Signed kicking and screaming with a smart phone.
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Our neighborhood seems to have more lights than usual this year. I love to see that. Santa brought me the worst and first flu I’ve had in almost 30 years…bah hum bug! So uncool with a book deadline looming. No Starbucks for me, just Nyquil. 😦
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Oh no! Haven’t had many people around me sick yet but I don’t go to work. I’m neurotic about washing my hands every time I get back from an errand but that doesn’t make me safe from it. I did get the super duper shot for the elderly! (Seriously they need to call it something else.)
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We spent 6 hours Christmas Eve day in the ER with my father. It hit me Thursday night so I’m assuming that’s where I picked it up. I had gotten my Remicade infusion the week prior, so my resistance was low. I’ve never had body/nerve pain like this. I have a very high pain tolerance, but man, this is a rough dose. 🤢
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So close to your infusion, not good. Hospitals are germ factories. It’s been a long time since I had the flu. Decades. They knock you out for a long time.
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Feel better, Jill. Fix yourself a Hot Toddy and curl up under the caftan and watch golf ~> it’ll put you right to sleep.
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Thanks, Nancy!😴😴😴
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