Goodbye juice boxes and fruit bowls. Goodbye smurfs. Hello cell phones.
This past weekend the granddaughters were visiting. They are almost fourteen (going on 30). Their feet are bigger than mine and we won’t talk about height. There was a lively discussion about that!
We don’t get to see them often so when we do, the change is astonishing. Eldest daughter had warned us that they would appear grown but it was still a shock. They are well on their way to looking like adults. They have opinions and know stuff (technology stuff which flummoxes me!).
I’ve had my cell phone for two years now and just found out that I can talk to it. I don’t have to type out a text! Woohoo! I don’t use it a lot and the predictive word thingie works well but not having to type on that tiny keyboard is wonderful.
They brought the beloved husband up to speed on his brand new smart phone (which sadly is smarter than he is). The ability of a young mind to process information amazes me.
They enjoyed the amusement park but I wonder if it was more for their mom and gramps who are roller coaster fanatics.
They talked fast and in a tone I found hard to hear. Made me wonder if I should have kept those hearing aids!
No toys. College name sweatshirts and cosmetics were the purchases. They don’t need cosmetics as they have perfect complexions (something I didn’t have at their age) with no pores and perfectly even skin tone. (Ahh…good skin is wasted on the young!)
They were good-natured about spending their fall break with the old folks (hey, at least we weren’t in a smelly old home or are we? How would we know?) and we enjoyed our time with them.
The cats were mixed. The grays were out and about reveling in the extra attention especially Gracie who enjoyed not having Sasha steal her toys.
Sasha wondered what was going on and watched from under the bed. Mollie slept in my closet, still recovering from the trauma of all the tests. It took them a nanosecond to know when when everyone was gone.
We are back into our normal routine and I do love a routine.
Until next time…
I love the family photo! You’ve shared photos of the girls in the past, so it was really lovely to see how they’ve matured, and as you’ve described them, experiencing their early teen year interests. We all need a willing teenager to help us with our technology! Fortunately I have a ten-year old who knows more than I do, so it can only get better as she matures. 🙂 I am certain this was a very valuable time for your granddaughters, too!
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We received their school pictures this week and comparing year to year, you can see the growth. They are almost as tall as I am and have size 8 feet. Yikes!
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I still have young grandchildren. Thank you for sharing (warning) about the new teenage years, Kate:)
You made my day with your funny phrase “which sadly is smarter than he is.”
Oh, great, now I wonder whether we are in a smelly old home.
Since laughter is the best medicine…….thank you for my dose🙂
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Glad I could help educate. It was a whirlwind time. Since we don’t see often, I am always amazed at how much they’ve grown and matured.
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It’s always a good day when the grands can (and will) spend time with us grandparents. Your girls are beautiful and I love that family photo!
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Thanks! They live in Denver! Your neck of the woods.
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What a small world! Returned just in time for the snow. Guess it’s true, misery loves company. LOL
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I only like visitors that remember to bring me treats!! But they sound like lovely little humans.
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Me too! No treats but I did get a free meal!
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Sounds like a really wonderful visit – AND you learned something totally cool about your phone. No kids or grandkids here so we old folks just have to feel our way through technology and – may I say – “it ain’t pretty” because we are hanging on to our dumb phones vs. smart ones and even those fool us somehow! Such a GREAT photo – a really grand family portrait. When the dust settles after having company I find I appreciate the quiet even more than ever….love friends….love doing out of routine things….but love the PEACE of “just us” more than ever.
Hugs, Pam
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It is times like that that I appreciate peace and quiet and also how soothing a routine is. We are the same with phones. My husband just gave up his flip phone.
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Oh, yeah, the young always know and have the coolest new technology. My older sister can’t figure out how to do stuff on her phone when her daughters aren’t around. Which is pretty sad, since she performs surgery with a robot on a regular basis.
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OK, now I’ll worry if I have robotic surgery! I remember when I was a kid (stone age) and I would show adults how to use or do things. (Most of them already knew about fire and wheels) I would show off my typing skills on a manual typewriter! Or maybe my hip skills with a hula hoop. Youth is definitely wasted on the young. I could use a good hula hoop!
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Truly, the young do not appreciate their knees.
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So glad you had a wonderful visit! Sound like fun for everyone 🙂 Did you all go to Dorney?
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Not all. Grammy Kate doesn’t do Dorney. I went once when they were small but I get motion sickness so for a $$ ticket all I did was hold jackets and purses.
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Yeah – it would be an expensive place to go to just hang around for sure!
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That photo is wonderful. Thank you for not making us wait to see it. I’m glad you had a great visit, and thanks for sharing it with us.
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You are the queen of hospitality. I wish I had your skills.
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I don’t think I have hospitality skills, Kate. I love people and want them to feel comfortable when they are with me. You went shopping with your family, something that they really enjoyed. I could not have pulled that off with panache the way you did. We all have different talents!
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I did not go shopping on this trip. I was having some digestive issues so I opted out of it. My poor husband and their mom accompanied them. I think he enjoyed the time with them even if it was shopping. They topped it off with steamed clams.
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The teens ate steamed clams????
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Yes they do. They also eat hot sauce and buffalo wings and a lot of other disgusting stuff!
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I wouldn’t mind cooking for such adventuresome eaters. People all around me are on special diets. Pretty soon the only thing we’ll have in common is water.
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I’m sure they have stuff they don’t like but they are pretty easy to feed.
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Teens likely don’t even read the manual, just a few clicks and problems are solved intuitively. I have a flip phone and I mentioned while talking to a fellow walker (same age as me and who has the same model number of flip phone) that I’ve never texted on this phone – all texting that I do is from my computer to a phone. I’ve never received an incoming call as it is just for emergencies … I’ve only called my house to discharge the battery. She was incredulous. She said let me see your phone and a few buttons were pushed and she said “now talk into the phone.” So, now when I hit speed dial and push “dial this number” the phone recites my home phone number.
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We can all learn if only we find the right person.
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It really is freaky when you haven’t seen the kids in a while, and then when you do, they’ve not only grown, but they’re features even start to change. I remember one niece was this adorable “Drew-Barrymore-in-ET” little girl. The next time I saw her she towered over me. They made her sit when she saw me so that I’d freak out when she stood….and I did freak out. It’s not saying much to be taller than me, cause I’m under 5 ft, but this “little” girl kept growing to about 5’9.
So gad you enjoyed your time together and got schooled by the youngin’s. And btw, I love a routine, too.
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I’m 5’2″ and they will definitely tower over me shortly!
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Great photo! I hear you about the rate of speech. I’m sure I probably spoke like that around my friends when I was their age (though I can’t remember doing so), but I’m always a sentence behind when in processing when I speak to teenagers now. – Marty
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Not only am I a sentence behind sometimes I miss a paragraph!
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OMG! You look like their slightly older sis ~ maybe one who is away at college and brought a hoodie home! You could share their jeans (even if you don’t share their genes).
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You are so kind. I am slim but I could never fit into their painted on jeans. Some of my stuffing isn’t in the right place anymore! 🙂
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I hear ya!
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Grandkids here are growing up way too fast. The youngest (7 & 5) are living in Hong Kong (learning to Skype)….the youngest here (7) still loves to play cards with me…and I relish it.
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Our granddaughters live across the country so we rarely see them. They do grow fast!
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Isn’t it a blessing to be able to talk text? The picture of your family is wonderful. Glad you had a good visit.
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Yes it is. Don’t know why I didn’t try it before!
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What lovely girls and it was great you were able to enjoy the time with them for they sure do grow up fast once they reach this stage – they’ll be young ladies before you know it. Help with technology is always handy. Right now, I’m still the one providing it, but I look forward to the day when it flows the other way 😀
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It’s going fast now. Fast growth spurts, different interests and technology, technology, technology!
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What a wonderful visit!! Great photo. The change in two years had to be a shock. The voice to text is great but I sometimes forget to read through them and send really silly and weird stuff. LOL! 🙂
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I’ve tried to be careful and typed the name of a restaurant recently because I didn’t think saying it would work.
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Your granddaughters are gorgeous, Kate! If you would like to send them my way to help with my technology, that would be awesome!
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I’ll put you on the list!
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I wonder if they’d like to visit a couple of old folks on the west coast for a while? Since we have no children, therefore no grandchildren, we don’t have anyone to help us with our technology. I’m glad you had a great time and good to know that now you and the kitties are happily getting back to normal.
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Have tech skills, will travel. Not a bad gig!
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Wonderful visit Kate, everyone wins!
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Good trips! Weather, while cooler than usual (they usually come in September when it’s warmer) was good.
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Excellent!
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We just had friends from Missouri leave yesterday and while we really and I mean really enjoyed having them I have been going to all my favorite places in the Tiny Casa and sitting there for a few minutes or longer and delighting in the peaceful happiness of me being there all alone… Haha. I am glad you had a great time with your beautiful grands. Thanks to them and their techie sharing with you, I can now talk to text… ridiculously easy! I had to check it out right away when you shared it! Sweet photo!
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I know how you feel! I was hugging the quiet! (is that possible?)
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Yes, it is possible and delightful!
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What a great photo, Kate! I’m glad you had a nice visit, but you’re right, it’s always nice to get back into our routine, isn’t it?
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Yes! I tried to stay in routine with the gym and of course Starbucks but the days were upside down. I swear we did laundry for 3 days straight. (not only their bedding and towels but our laundry that we usually do on weekends)
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Great picture and beautiful grandies. I can imagine how drastic the changes are when time is lengthy between visits, I was lucky when it came to this. The things you do together will change as they age but the time together is so special, isn’t it? I know what you’re going through. We have five grandchildren, so far. The oldest is 34, two of them already have children of their own. Then we have round 2 starting with a 8 month old.
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I didn’t see them last year as my husband went out by himself so for me the 2 year cycle was extreme. Wow! Another round! Stock up on energy!
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😊 Yes, grandma and grandpa do get tired quicker and a little trickier to get up off the floor, but he also puts more life in us.
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Yes the 2 “e’s” — exciting and exhausting!
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Great way of putting it. 😊
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I don’t have grandchildren so I have to live vicariously through others like you 🙂
I’m traumatized enough by having sons in their 30s. How did that happen so quickly?!! I can’t possibly be that old!! That’s a wonderful photo of all of you. These are special moments … for everyone involved 🙂
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My husband’s oldest daughter will turn 50 in December and he’s trying to figure out how that happened!
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I can really relate to your reactions to a grandgirls’ visit and how amazing the changes and the versatility of youth. I can also relate to that big sigh of peace when the routines of life return. Great post and they are beautiful girls!
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They are good kids and for that I’m grateful. We are not around children of any age much so it’s always a little bit of sensory overload but the visit was good.
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Oh it’s fun to read about this visit. I imagine that your granddaughters will never realize how they just know stuff about technology because it’s always been there with them. For them it is natural. Unlike the rest of us here.
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I know. I swear they were like…I can’t believe she didn’t know that!
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Oh I wish they could come to me too… got a new phone yesterday and I think that beast is haunted…. it does things automatically… it MUST be haunted… LOL
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You need a 6 year old living next door. They could figure it all out for you. And yes, they are haunted!
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