Last Thursday morning we saw an adult cat drinking at the pond. It looked very skinny but she took a drink and left. (The “we” includes my step-daughter – she has two dogs and four cats, need I say more?)
Thursday at dinner time the cat came back for another drink. Friday morning when she came, I went out. She was tame and not at all healthy looking. I got a vet appointment but by the time I went back out she was gone and I couldn’t find her. She was wobbly so I didn’t think she was far but I couldn’t find her anywhere.
My vet said they would not be able to see her after 3:30 on Friday and definitely not on Saturday. I did not want to go to an emergency vet so I wasn’t sure how it would play out.
When the cat came back Friday around 6 p.m. (we were getting ready to leave for dinner), I went out and picked her up. She is a large framed cat who should weigh 10 to 12 pounds. She weighed nothing. (We later found out it was 4 pounds.) We carried her in the screened porch, took pictures to post and my step-daughter started calling all the local vets to see if anyone would see us (keep in mind it is now 6:10 p.m. on a Friday).
We got an appointment at someplace I had never been for 6:45 (they close at 8). I was prepared to have the cat put down as it was in bad shape. My step-daughter insisted on checking for a chip and contacting the owner.
I had a wonderful vet (I can’t say enough good stuff about this place – we didn’t wait long and it was clean). It was an older cat and without testing, she guessed it was in late stage kidney failure.
The vet said that euthanasia would be a good decision as there wasn’t a lot of hope but they would check for a chip. There was one and they contacted the owner who was out of town.
The cat’s name was Trisha and she was 16 with health issues. The owner said the cat got out. She drove back to the vet. It’s likely the cat hadn’t eaten in a few days. In talking to the owner the next day, the cat had just been released by another vet who suggested waiting a few more days before making any decision.
Trisha’s temperature was very low and her organs were shutting down. She looked like a cadaver with sunken eyes that were unresponsive. It’s unlikely she would have lasted the night on her own. Long story short (that boat sailed) once the owner took responsibility for the cat, we left. It was someone from my neighborhood. They did euthanize the cat the same night so Trisha found peace.
If this was my cat, I would want someone to step in and do the same thing. The owner contacted me after it was all over. She was very grateful and we both cried on the phone.
I hugged my own cats relentlessly. I’m not so sure they were happy about it. They want me to go into therapy.
This better be the last of the “bad cat news” for a while.
I like my vet although the hours are limited and sometimes it’s difficult to get an appointment so I’m glad to know that there is another option other than the emergency vet. The new place has wonderful weekend hours and two locations both of which are less than 15 minutes away.
I’m very grateful to my step-daughter who was an enormous help managing an overwrought weepy human and a sickly cat and also the beloved husband who acted as a non-judgmental Uber driver for us all.
RIP Trisha, 2003 — 2019
Oh Kate. I just couldn’t hit the ‘like’ button on such a heartbreaking story. This poor old cat deserved to live out her final days in a warm loving environment … not on her own in the ‘wild’. You and your step-daughter are very loving and kind people. I’m so glad Trisha’s owner got to see her in the end 💔😢
Theo is chipped and, like you, I hope that if it ever becomes necessary, someone will give Theo and I the same kindness.
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It was a very emotional time.
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What a story, Kate. Your compassion doesn’t surprise me at all, and I’m grateful you could share this experience with a caring stepdaughter who feels as you do. Dear little Trisha. She was loved and those final acts of tenderness do indeed mean a lot. I tear up thinking about it. Bless you!
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Thanks. I was remembering Jake. A month before he passed he wondered out and stayed out overnight. I was crazy with worry. This cat looked like it had been a beloved pet despite being so ill.
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Gulp! I need a box of Kleenex.
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It was sad but she didn’t die alone.
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So glad she found her way to you and that her final moments weren’t spent suffering … Hugs and paws for all the love you showed, Kate! ~MJ
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Thanks! Sad ending but not alone.
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Very sad, but so kind of you and your family to step in and help Trisha out. Poor baby!
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She chose me to help her so I couldn’t say no.
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No, you couldn’t.
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This is a sad story, and I also teared up with you as I read. So glad you were able to take care of Trisha in her final hours. Hope your weekend goes better. Hugs.
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The rest of that weekend went without incident but it cast a pall over it all.
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You remind me so much of my friend Carol who would do the same thing … she once was waiting with one of her cats at her vet’s office and another cat owner came out of the doctor’s office sobbing after having her cat euthanized and Carol tried to console her and they had a sob fest together. I am sure her own cat was nervous in his carrier as he wondered what the heck was going on.
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Something similar happened to me. I have a very soft spot for animals. All animals. (well…maybe not snakes but most everything else)
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So glad the owner was not left to wonder what happened to Trisha. And that Trisha is at peace.
You’re a good egg, Kate.
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There was something about the cat (friendly, not skittish?) that said it was local with a family. I wasn’t concerned until I saw how sick it was.
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What a sad, sweet story. You are a cat’s angel of mercy.
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The stars were aligned to get her help.
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Good on you, Kate! Those furry creatures give us so much… we need to give back when they need us. Poor little thing.
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They do give so much!
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Hi, Kate – If I we’re a cat, I’d choose you to be my Guardian Angel. Your care, concern and quick action for Trisha was incredible,
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And I’d take good care of you! 😉
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Bless you for taking care of dear, Trisha. May she rest in peaceful bliss, pain-free from across the Rainbow Bridge. 😿
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Sweet kitty.
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Poor kitty. My husband would have done the same thing. Glad that you could get into the vet and bonus, now you have other options for your babies.
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That was a miracle. I’ve had to take my cats to the emergency vet ($$$) when they have been sick on the weekends. Your husband is a good man.
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RIP, Trisha. I’m glad you were able to help her find her owners. Sad that she was doing so bad.
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End stage renal failure can go fast. A long time ago, one of my cats had it but I didn’t let it get this far.
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A sad story but it highlights the goodness of the humans who intervened and who loved and mourned one sweet animal.
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It’s both sad and uplifting. I’d love to know that someone would help my cat. It was great to know that the cat got out (cats leave to hide and die) and the owner was distraught rather than dumped it. Lots of reasons to be upbeat. The cat had a great life. I know the house if not the people and it’s a lovely fenced in yard (that she was able to climb out of). For a short while, I thought I’d have another cat.
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Bless you for helping her….it would have been so sad for her end to have come out in “wild” with no kindness or comfort. I love stories like this where people have truly CARED. Big hugs to you and your family……and I mean that.
Pam
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Thanks! There are many of us out there you just don’t hear about them.
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It’s great to hear there’s people like you two out there that care to take time to help an animal that looked in distress. A sad outcome, but best for the poor aging cat.
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Much better than dying alone or at the hands of a fox.
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So true, that would be a terrible way to go for a animal use to being a pet.
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So sad, but glad Trisha found peace. Pets are family.
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They are family even when they are not your own! There is something about animals and children. They are defenseless and we need to protect them.
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Trisha went “fishing” in the right pond! I believe she showed up at your pond because a higher power sent her there. The world needs more compassionate people like you. RIP Trisha…
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Thanks for your kind words. Many tears were shed for this cat by both her rescuers and her owner.
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😢😢😢 glad Trisha had some kindness at the end, poor baby 🐱❤️
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According to her owner, she had a good life until the last few months when she had obvious health issues.
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You done good, Kate and step-daughter… making sure all cats (all pets) are loved and respected till the very end. Amazed at how this all worked out for Trisha… a big thank you from a lover of cats as you know. Thank you, thank you♥
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Thanks. It’s what I want someone to do for my cats should the need arise.
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I’m happy to know Trisha is now at peace. And how lucky was she that you were one of the last people to touch her life. Good job, Kate!
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Thanks. It was a very emotional day. We weren’t sure if she’d come back in the evening and worse yet, we didn’t know if we could do anything except protect her, given the timing. Why do cats only get sick on holidays and weekends?
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My eyes are full.
I can’t say too much right now. I thank you though for your good heart and your precious family.
I have 13 kitties and I pray for them daily.
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Thank you. We do what we need to do.
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I would want someone to step in, too. And I would be grateful that a person cared enough to go through the agony of end-of-life decisions, even if a cat was not their own.
Good job, Kate. So heartbreakingly hard.
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It was not a good day but in the end the right thing happened. Many times you can’t help a sick animal because they run and hide so I consider myself lucky. It was the pond. End-stage kidney disease makes cats thirsty.
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You did the right thing for Trisha. Poor old girl. You’ll get brownie points in heaven for this, you know.
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I didn’t do it for brownie points but that would be nice. Do they have mocha latte points up there?
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I think St. Peter gives you a punch card when you enter the pearly gates. Five good deeds gets you a free mocha latte.
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Good to know. Gotta look for 4 more good deeds!
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I’m so glad you were able to help Trisha. And glad that she can rest peacefully now. Poor baby.
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The stars were aligned with being able to get her in a vet. That is almost unheard of so someone was watching out for her. She looked a lot like Hiro. Dark striking stripes.
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