When I envisioned aging from a young age, I thought about wrinkles (as if that’s the worst part!). As I got older I realized there were other things that would happen – reduction in income, impossible to diagnose aches and pains and other unpleasant stuff.
I was well into my 60’s before I realized that much more dire things happened. Your arms start to flap in the breeze. What the heck happened to my energy? My interests changed. I get more agitated. (I know! Hard to believe.) People got dumber. I prefer my cats to people. (Oh wait! That’s always been true!) Worst of all, your friends die.
One thing I didn’t bet on was my internal thermostat going wonky. My fix was so “not me.”
When I worked, I had cute professional blazers, cardigans and other beautiful outer wear. If I was cold, I threw on a blazer. If I was hot, I took it off. Blazers go with everything from skirts and dress pants to jeans. If you had black, navy and camel, you were covered for every outfit.
Then I retired.
I was introduced to the best invention since sliced bread – the hoodie. They are cheap, washable and don’t wrinkle. You don’t spend a fortune dry cleaning. They can live in a heap and still look OK.
They come in all colors and degrees of thickness. Some are suitable for cold outdoors and some are lighter for indoors. (Did I mention they come in purple and hot pink?)
Since retirement I can’t remember the last time I wore a blazer. I gave most of mine away. I have “nicer” hoodies (on hangers) for dress and more “casual” ones (those are the ones that live in a heap) for just kicking around.
They last a long time before they are relegated to garden work (that never requires a hoodie). I don’t know how I lived without them!
How about you? What’s your “go to” piece of clothing? Or maybe the real question is what was your “aha!” moment recently?
Go-to for work are layers – sleeveless drapey tops and a nice soft cardigan/jacket + black pants or black pencil skirt = easy peasy. Go-to for home are I’ve-never-done-Yoga-pants, a tee shirt and good shoes (hardwood floors are too hard for bare feet or socks)
and I love a hoodie but ONLY a zip up one, not the pull over your head one. In Canada, where I grew up, we call those “Bunny Hugs.”
Cheers!
MJ
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My hoodies have zippers too. Easy on, easy off! I like your work wardrobe. EZPZ
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I have some similar well over age 50 “issues” and I could add to your list, Kate:) My daughters receive the benefits of some of my extra hoodies. For me, it is finding a favourite piece of clothing in the closet when many of my favourites are all black.
Yet, I have favourite black pieces. Relatable post, Kate:)
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At the changing of the seasons, I love finding a beloved piece from last year. I always hope they don’t wear out!
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Not sure that I have a “go to” piece of clothing, but I do have one I ditch whenever possible 😉
Any time I can go bra-less is good…
At any rate, while once, I aimed for casual elegance, I now prefer elegant casualness.
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Elegant casualness is good. I’m working on shabby chic.
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I think my most recent wardrobe-related “aha” was recognizing that I have some nice clothes in my closet that are NEVER worn any more, and perhaps unlikely will ever be worn again! This made me kind of sad. I even have more casual wear than I can really utilize, and I enjoyed dressing nicely for work. I have a lot of hoodies, too, and different styles of lightweight jackets. More than I need, and it kind of bothers me that I really can’t justify shopping at all!
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I am the exact same. I’ve been thinking about getting some (maybe two) new everyday sweaters for winter but I really don’t need them. It’s just for something different. I need to donate so I can replace (I know that makes no sense either!).
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The worst thing about aging -other than the things you mentioned – is that I find myself attracted by kitschy things. I used to hate kitsch. Suddenly any object with a butterfly on it has a good chance of landing in my shopping cart.
As for hoodies – nope. I never use the hood and it bugs me to have a useless thing hanging down from the back of my neck. Then again . . . if there is a butterfly on it, I might reconsider.
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Everyone has their thing! Butterflies are good things!
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I have a sweatshirt with a hood, but technically I don’t think that’s a hoodie. My go-to is a long-sleeve henley shirt — great for when the air conditioning is too cool for me, and perfect for the non-summer months. Not so good for restaurants, according to my wife, though. – Marty
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Back in the 70s I dated a guy who wore henleys almost exclusively. Not a dressy look for sure.
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My go to item – well I’ve blogged about my Twenty Pairs of Black Pants! Black Yoga pants, dressy ones, track pants with holes in them which I garden in as no one sees me. I wear my hoodies while gardening too, as often there is a cold north wind. I kept all my old blazers in a spare closet, although it seems silly as I never wear them.
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If I can find yoga pants that aren’t too tight and don’t have compression, I’m good with them too. I like all things stretch.
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I still have one wool tweed blazer and a butter soft leather one – just in case I need to go somewhere in real clothes. Not a fan of hoodies, but I do like /have multiple polar fleece jackets without the hoods – could not live without them (2 new ones recently added from pre-winter sale 40% off – One “houndstooth” and both a little longer length than the older worn to death versionsOh,I’ll feel warm and elegant in those stylish ones or for just cozy at home. Great for dog walks). In cold weather indoor’s black leggings under corduroy pants keep me warm…but they attract so much dog/cat hair I have to remember if going out to roller off in order not to look like crazy cat lady!
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I donated my good Ralph Lauren tweed blazer a few years back (along with a few tears). I have maybe 3 good wool ones left but honestly I don’t wear them. I love fleece! I have more fleece jackets than I can wear but here I like the hoods in case it snows. Nothing wrong with looking like a cat lady. RC would be proud.
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I think she believes marking staff tells other free range cats that she is taken….
(Hmm, if we relocate to cold, hoodies may make sense – I always in a quandary what to do with the tossed back hood when also wearing a coat in this climate – but what you said makes sense….)
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I put it on top of the coat but I know what you mean. You can end up looking like a hunchback. I won’t buy tops with hoods (they seemed to be in style lately) except for the fleece or sweat suit type hoodie.
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I’ll have to go up a couple of hoodie sizes – my coat is a puffy ski jacket….except for the “wool good coat” your mom insisted was mandated to go with dresses/skirts for work…it’s still around here somewhere – gads many kids have a whole wardrobe fo different coats. We were happy with a “dress” coat and a casual short/car coat. “Car coat” That’s an old one!
Thinks for the info though (No wool head scarf…I think mom handed over one of those for babushka winter.)
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The hoodie goes under the coat but the hood gets flipped on top of the coat. Sorry if I wasn’t clear. Yeah, I remember the babushkas. Never a good look.
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My closet is packed full of hoodies! I seemed to have skipped the professional blazer since I work from home.
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You didn’t miss much. My blazers are at Goodwill.
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Not a fan of hoodies. I find them uncomfortable, but I do like t-shirts of all styles. And then there are my Birks. I never was much into adult clothes now that I think about it. Not sure I have any in the closet at this point.
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Can’t wear Birks. Love tee-shirts. Such a wide choice. Something for everyone for sure. I have a friend who feels her upper arms are heavy so she likes the ones that have a longer sleeve. I’ll wear most anything depending on the weather.
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I really love hoodies…in the picture that you have clicked, I really like the green one 😉
Kate, if you have time, please visit my site 🙂
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I wear that one the least. Not because of the color but it’s very thin and long. I bought it because of the color!
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T shirts. If I could wear no other shirts for the rest of my life, I would be OK with that. I am to the point where I have “nice” ones and then regular ones for everyday and junky ones that are one step from the rag bag for cleaning and gardening and so forth in.
But sadly, I am a while away from retirement, so I have to wear grown up clothes a lot of the time.
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I’ve aged out of grown up clothes for most things!
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Like you, the nice clothes are tucked away and admired every so often. I also marvel at clothes from long ago … skirts and pants with waistbands and zippers, as it seems all I wear for outside/inside is shorts or pants with elastic waists and often in Winter my polar fleece PJs while I am working since I am sitting hours on end in one place and not moving much so they keep me warm. Next week will be medium hoodie weather for us! I’ve already broken out the lightweight hoodie when we had a few cooler mornings – yup, wear them with a teeshirt underneath or just on their own sometimes when it’s still mild out. I can remember my first hoodie – isn’t that crazy? It was white with small lemons and limes all over it – that was Canada and we called them “kangaroo shirts” because in those days they had such big cargo-type pockets in them. In later years, my mom lamented over the skin under her arms, pushing and prodding it and vowing never to wear sleeveless tops outside of the house again. I’m not quite there yet – my arms look decent, but my thighs – oh my -and I think all the walking is bulking them up even more than secretarial spread.
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They still call those kangaroo pockets! So comfy!
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I didn’t know that Kate – I thought it was an old Canadian term. Yes, comfy is preferred!
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It’s because it’s like a kangaroo pocket where they keep their young. Big and roomy.
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I could use mine today in the house – we have a cold, chilly day with rain and it has been 71 inside the house all day.
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We have cold nights but the days are still warm.
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We had an ugly day today – drizzly and gray all day – we’ll salvage Sunday morning if we are lucky.
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It’s Sunday here and gorgeous. A dab cooler than it’s been but well over 75.
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You lucked out – we had another rainy day and more to come over the next four days.
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Wow. We need rain here and we haven’t had any. Very dry September after a very wet summer. Very weird weather!
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They are saying a frost advisory Friday – they are wrong a lot though. Hard to fathom frost after tomorrow’s mini heat wave.
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No frost here yet. It was 62 when I got up!
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Hot here too – I thought they were joking when they said how hot it would get … we broke the record set in 1897 of 88 degrees – we got to 89! Thursday we need our long johns.
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Today is our hot day. A cooling starts tomorrow or so they say.
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That was us Tuesday and when they said a cool off today, I said “no way” … “yes way” – I am in a sweatsuit now as it cooled off substantially and it’s been raining most of the day and will rain/storm tomorrow – ugly Fall weather and it’s messing with my walking regimen.
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Cool off is right. We will be in the 60s today after hitting our highest ever October temp yesterday. It’s like a roller coaster.
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It sure is – we had an ugly weather day for sure. It looks and feels more like early November than early October.
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Turquoise hoodies are DA BOMB! Just saying.
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I agree!
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joggers and tees, and………………… a hoodie! I have one in cream and one in black, though the latter is starting to go ‘rusty’ at the cuffs for some reason (probably poor dye quality) but gives it an extra depth! Great for wearing indoors or out. Hubby has a petrol blue one.
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They are the best. Don’t wrinkle. Not much pet hair.
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Must admit I am rather pleased with mine.
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🙂
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Haha. OMG, people can actually get dumber? Hehe.
I can’t think of any go-to clothing. I have a lot of cardigan sweaters, but not enough. I want one in every color and don’t have that yet. I swore as a younger person that I’d never wear elastic-waist jeans. Now, I only wear them around the house, but who knows where I’ll be wearing them as I age further. 😜
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I rarely if ever wear cardigans but I have a few for more dress up occasions. I don’t wear elastic waist but my jeans are made out of knit. They look like jeans but have a lot of give.
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Unfortunately, I can relate. I was always hot, and then it all stopped. I’m frequently cold. I had to get real house shoes, pajamas, sweaters, hoodies, and light jackets that I can wear in the house or out. I had zero sweaters until this year. I even had to buy long-sleeved shirts. Ugh.
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I have never been consistently hot so I can’t relate to that! 🙂
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I love hoodies. They’re so comfy and great for the cooler temperatures. I have a few in different colours, but my favourite one is pink.
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I have a hot fuchsia one that is my favorite!
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Hi, Kate – I can completely relate to this! When I worked, I had a handful of blazers carefully selected to go with most outfits. Although a couple of them are still tucked in the back of my closet — just in case — I never wear them. Now, hoodies are my goto cover-up and extra layer of warmth. Actually, I’m wearing one right now!
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I never wore a hoodie when I worked. Not even for casual. Now I wear them all the time, all year round.
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I have a few hoodies, but my closet tells the real story. I have sweaters in several weights and use them often.
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You are a sweater girl!
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Yes, I sweat over lots of things.
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🙂
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I too have numerous hoodies, and I also have fleece or nylon vests in every basic colour. Love and wear both lots.
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Hoodies are so comfortable and easy. Better than a jacket unless it’s really cold. I have a hard time finding vests that fit. Something about my armholes. Maybe they are too small or something.
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That’s a bummer vest don’t fit. I would be list without them. 😊
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My go-to… visors. I have two zip-up hoodies, had more but… Florida. One is lightweight I ordered from Tinykittens Rescue, the other heavyweight for colder times here. I love that if I get hot in them I can unzip and zip back up if I get chilly. Great for slipping on in a store I know is going to be cold. Can’t live without a zip-up hoodie… or visors!
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I only have one visor and I don’t know why. I usually go hatless because of hathead. Awww…tinykittens rescue. That has to be the best hoodie ever!
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You are so right about the Tinykittens hoodie♥
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Oh my go-tos are definitely hoodies, fleece tops and jeans. I’m cold a lot of the time even in summer so I may have a t-shirt under the fleece top or hoodie in summer in case I get too warm. I’m also turning into a big fan of socks – all colors. Like you, dresses are in the museum section of my closet – gathering dust.
Hugs, Pam
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We wear the same clothes! Something happens to me around 4 p.m. Maybe my blood pressure drops or my sugar level. It’s not unusual to see me in a hoodie in the late afternoon even if the temp is 85. My museum section is getting small but you always need one for funerals and weddings.
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I have sweatshirts with hoods (hoodies) and also nicer sweaters with hoods… are they also considered hoodies? If so, I probably have at least 15 of them in my closet. My husband owns another 5 or so. My favorite go-to? Leggings, for sure. If I could live in them, I would.
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I’m fussy about leggings. Although thin, I feel that I am lumpy so they have to be a thicker non-cat hair catching fabric. I have 2 pair that I love. One is from Athleta which they promptly discontinued. Not sure where the other came from. My husband doesn’t wear hoodies at all. He has a “jacket” for cold moments.
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Hoodies come in handy . . . even in Florida. But I also like fluffy cardigans during turtleneck weather.
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I have a few (very few) cardigans. The fit is different but they look nicer.
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I’m 63 and still wondering if my internal thermostat will ever change! I still tend to run hot. My bestie will have on long sleeves in layers plus a jacket while I might have on 3-quarter sleeves. I can’t stand layers! In the winter, I go right to the sweatpants, but the tops are still tee-shirts. I don’t wear denim in the winter because it stays cold once the material gets cold! I own two sweatshirts, both bought more as souvenirs than for actual wear. I recently was given a hoodie, which I will plan to wear under a winter jacket for when I’m out cleaning snow off my car (then the hood will come in handy!). And when it comes to winter-wear, fashion is the lowest of my priorities!
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I’ve been mostly cold my entire life so the hot flashes were really a change. However, I never got them when I needed them! The older I get the more comfort is the priority.
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I don’t have a hoodie but I do have flappy arms.. My obsession is t-shirts. 3/4 and long sleeve when in public…that flappy arm thing, ya know. For bed I wear extra large short sleeve t’s…nobody to see my arms except the cats and they could care less what I look like. For the bottom I wear knits and jeans…and cat hair. A fashionista I am not!🐈
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Except for the middle of summer, I would freeze in a simple t-shirt. I’m in sweatshirts all winter. Sometimes with a hoodie on top.
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I have lots of sweaters to wear over the t’s in winter and fleece pants. So I stay toasty.
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I have some fleece pants. Love them!
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It’s funny you should mention hoodies – I just took one off. The morning has warmed up enough to putter around in a t-shirt.
There was a time I wouldn’t be caught dead in one. Don’t ask me why, it’s just one of those inexplicable quirky things. I thought they were lumpy and unattractive.
Now I think they are lumpy and the best thing ever for a chilly morning or evening. I too have a multi-coloured wardrobe of light ones and heavy ones.
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I probably have close to 20 of them. All colors and weights. Some are newer and some are so old I only wear to do work. Yes they are lumpy and most unattractive although more in style than they used to be. Or maybe I’ve reached the old lady stage where comfort is more important.
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I don’t think I have that many … although I’m reluctant to take an actual count. It might imply I need an intervention 😏
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I pulled that number out of the air but it’s not unrealistic. I have an old one with a broken zipper that I keep in my car just to cover my purse if I go walking. It’s actually more like a towel. I will wipe rain with it too.
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Poor hoodie. Now demoted to a rag.
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But it gets to ride around with me all the time!
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and at least one always stays in the car!
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Yes! Always one in the car.
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I think I have 5 hoodies, at least. I keep eyeing these cool-looking hoodie-capes and wondering if I should try one…
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I think you should!
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My thermostat has gone crazy too, Kate. Instead of hot flashes, I freeze all the time, so I’m always looking for that extra layer or a cozy throw.
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I’ve always been cold but the past decade I vacillate between hot and cold. I have to be able to take things off or add things on. I almost need a suitcase when I visit people.
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I looked at my arms while reading “flap in the breeze”… oh heck you are so RIGHT!!!! I love leggings… and while I had some insane moments I bought dresses, but they are not dog walking compatible…dang!
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I always have a few dresses. I think of it as the museum part of my closet.
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Hoodies and polartec pullovers are my go-to items for cold weather. They don’t collect pet fur and they don’t wrinkle. That’s all I need these days.
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I can’t imagine life without hoodies. Interesting that you mention fur. I’ve been zeroing in on casual pants that don’t collect fur. I have some wonderful casual pants (they call them activewear now) that are furless. I wear jeans in the winter but mostly the stretchy stuff until it gets really cold.
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