A whirlwind week – Why do things always pile up in the same week? When you make appointments months in advance, there is nothing going on. Then wam, bam, thank you ma’am, you’re overloaded. It was that kind of week. Looking ahead I should have rescheduled but in my head I’m still 30 and capable of anything. Just wish my body thought it was 30! Even better I wish it looked like I was 30! Note to self: Shroud the mirrors!
Heartbreaking – This past week I learned that an old friend has advanced Parkinson’s. I saw him about a year ago and he was on a walker cautiously navigating on his own. Now he’s wheelchair bound and needs round the clock care. He’s a few years older than me and one of the most athletic people I know. It was very sobering. “There but for the grace of God go I.” That’s all I could think about. Fortunately he has a wonderful spouse to manage his health. We should all be so lucky to have that support.
Evil tomatoes –Last year I had a huge dental issue which resulted in biting my lip until it was raw. It took months and months of a mush diet until it healed and I didn’t re-injure. Dang thing happened again just as tomato season came into full production. Now I have tons of tomatoes that are painful to eat. I know it’s a first world problem but there are tomatoes on my counter taunting me. (Yes I caught them doing a Rockettes’ high kick! Little buggers!)
Today is the reunion! – This afternoon my family will gather to share stories and overeat. We try to capture some of the old world recipes (strudel and Mom’s potato salad) and find commonalities to reconnect. I am always surprised at how similar we are. It’s always interesting and there will be stories. Today’s weather is predicted to be the last “nice but very warm” day before a week of rainy weather. Whew! We just made it.
Sasha’s first crowd! – New cat Sasha is fearful of strangers. She came from a feral litter. She is very social in her own known tribe (which includes the beloved husband and me). Curious to see what she does. Hide all day? Sneak peaks around the corner? The grays will come out to see what’s going on and Mollie will say “Whatever!”
So how was your week?
You’ll have to tell us how Sasha did.
Hmm, maybe you can make ketchup or freezer salsa with those tomatoes so you can eat them later when your mouth feels better.
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Sasha is posting on Friday. She was not a happy camper. I have roasted tomatoes to add to things in the winter but I often give them away. So good fresh.
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Hope your reunion is wonderful and the cats navigate it OK 🙂 Sorry to hear about your friend – it is always a shock when someone your own age has something medically serious going on like that. Hope your mouth is OK!
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Reunion was good, cats were not a fan though. My friend is quite a bit older than me but still…I consider him my contemporary. My mouth is OK! YAY!
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Family reunions are always fun. Especially if you see people you haven’t in a long time.
I wonder why feral born cats are so skittish. My grey is like that. No strangers and often will be startled by something I do that he didn’t expect.
My last cat Lily was also feral born and she refused to socialize with anyone but me. She didn’t startle so much like Tim does though. He’s a true scardey-cat. 🙀
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Hazel (also feral) was like that. On the other hand Gracie, who was from a hoarding situation is right in there with everyone. Perhaps she had to fight for food when young but she is not skittish at all.
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Hope the reunion was wonderful. As for Sasha…some cats are just shy. I have had Teddy for eight years and only a couple of people have ever seen him.
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For the first 8 years of Jake’s life, my stepkids who we only see a few times a year never saw him. It was a family joke that there was no real Jake. After he got old, he was too lazy or too slow to run away.
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Hope you had a great reunion – with lots of mushy stuff to eat!
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There was! I was really too busy to eat much and the good news is that yesterday I took my teeth for a trial run and they didn’t devour the inside of my mouth. I’ll be good for a while now.
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Running very behind on blog posts these days. Sorry I missed the reunion. I’ll bet you had a wonderful time. How’d Sasha do? My dad has a cat that hides whenever company comes. I’ve only seen him peek around a corner twice in 16 years. His other cat is like a dog. Greets people when they come in and loves on them.
Sorry about your friend’s Parkinson’s. My father-in-law had it, so I’m familiar with its effects. 😦
It’s so great that you all can gather for those reunions. My mother-in-law (when she was alive) tried so hard to gather us all together in the same spot at the same time, but as the family grew, it got almost impossible to do.
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It is hard. We were lucky. This year everyone was available. We were missing one because he got sick but everyone else was there. That’s unusual. We have a lot of young adults in their 30s and 40s and they have better things to do!
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Being taunted by tomatoes! Oh my! 😳 Sorry to hear the news about your friend, though.
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Tomatoes are sneaky. You have to watch out for them.
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Having watched my dad struggle with Parkinson’s until his death I just ache when I read of others. It’s such a hard disease. And so very hard on the caretakers. Your comment about “there but for the grace of God” is so true. My dad was strong and able until almost 80–he was lucky. And then all of a sudden…so we can’t take a day for granted.
I hope the reunion was wonderful. So important!
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No one close to me has had it so I can’t even imagine. Or at least I couldn’t until I saw my friend. My friend is 79 and I suspect he’s had it a few years or else he went from 0 to 80 in an inkling!
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We think we could look back and see some signs of my dad’s “impending” Parkinson’s, but that was only looking backwards. We didn’t really see it clearly until things began to get very bad. And he really did change very, very rapidly. Maybe it’s because as we’re older we expect some failings, and don’t see the small things as symptoms. It’s very hard to see, I know. 😦
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Sounds a lot like my mother-in-law’s dementia. The family was in a very bad case of denial for a long time.
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A year! That seems so fast. I am saddened and sobered, as you said. The lip-chewing problem–I have often wondered when I bit my cheek if it would heal before I repeated it again. Now I know what happens if it doesn’t. I had no idea. That wax that kids used to use on braces (when they poked into cheeks)–no good? Hmm…
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The doc didn’t suggest any wax. Hmmm….
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Hope the reunion is full of fun (And Sasha finds a spot to huddle down in without the others smugly snarking stuff about humans and having to tolerate such events)
Seeing friends is sometimes sobering – despite best efforts, we get what we got in DNA sometimes. They are making strides in Parkinson’s and other old age problems – but we all hope it’s fast enough.
Sounds like you’re ready to enjoy the day and the crowd (yummy, too)
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I’m in recovery now. Everything went fine. Except for socialite Gracie who “graced” the group with body rubs against their legs, the rest of the cats took a long siesta!
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Whoa. approval by a diva. Impressive.
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Gotta love Gracie. No one interferes with her routine. Morgan didn’t get up until much later. She can be a socialite too but not yesterday.
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My week was rather peaceful, but my weekend was awfully busy.
Wish my body thought it was 30 too. Wouldn’t that be nice?!
I’m sorry about your friend. Even if you feel young and healthy, hearing about friends and neighbors suffering from terrible things can make you feel old. When my previously young and lively neighbor came down with alzheimers, it was a terrible shock. As you said, “There but for the grace of God …”
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I hadn’t seen him in several years until last summer so I was shocked. To hear he’s not going to get better was really sad for me. I knew him as young and vibrant, like your neighbor.
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My wife had an implant last week, and is the middle of a mush diet herself. Well, I think it’s the middle; in fact I have no idea how long she’ll have to be careful eating. I forgot how long your odyssey lasted. Sorry for your current tomato-less condition. I hope the reunion goes off nicely. – Marty
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48 hours without gnawing on my booboo. Yay! Maybe tomatoes by the end of the week!
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You may have been stressed, but I’m sure your gathering was a marked success. I’m hoping you will write about it. We need to know about how the cats fared, too.
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First guests just arrived! We’ll see. Hotter than blazes here.
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“There but for the grace of God go I.” I say this everyday…especially in my retirement.
Enjoy your reunion and takes lots of photos to share with us!
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We are blessed! When you have your health, you have everything!
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have fun at the reunion and I hope your mouth heals up soon. Sasha will be fine, hiding out, on her big adventure. Sorry about your friend; sometimes life kicks us in the teeth doesn’t it?
Hugs!
MJ
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Yes it does!
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Happy reunion!
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Thanks!
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Enjoy the time with family, Kate! Maybe Sasha will fit right in. 🙂
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I think Sasha found a nice hidey hole. They know something’s up. Their food spots on the first floor have been cleaned up and are GONE! They have a call into cat protective services!
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🙂
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Morgan: Say WHAT???!!!
Sasha: Where the ^&$% are our food stations???
Gracie: I don’t care what she says . . . I am NOT eating Kale Chips for dinner. Not even in a box. Not even with a fox!
Mollie: Whatevs.
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Morgan dialing cat services….
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I sure can relate and still don’t understand it either, how when you think a week has free time it often ends up overbooked. Hopefully, you enjoy a great reunion with no one overheating, and without Sasha getting stressed.
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Fingers crossed.
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Enjoy the party
Chillax
Don’t stress ’bout nuttin’
Just relax
Aah . . . that’s better!
(Sasha ~ good luck dealing with the temporary insanity!)
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Sasha has it best of all. Just a long nap in a nice cool place.
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Hope you have a great weekend and Sascha adapts OK.
Sorry about the tomatoes, shame you;re so far away as I could have helped you out seeing as we lost half of a major plant!
Reorganising the food budget, which actually is going to be a good thing. Will be walking more to save on car fuel, which has got to be good for the diet too!
Grateful to whoever invented ceiling fans. This heat is exhausting.
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We have ceiling fans too and use them regularly. It’s is hot her today. 90 degrees. You would melt! 🙂
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It’s cooler today, 24 degrees (75) in the hall and 20 (68) in the bedrooms. Much better! Last week it went up to over 30 in the hall so approaching the top of the 80s and 26 in the bedrooms at night.
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That is warm and as I remember you don’t have shade trees around your home.
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Sadly no. We currently have a mist coming in off the sea and a cool breeze, so no need for the fans!
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Hope your reunion is a grand success and you can avoid the tomatoes. 😎
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Thanks!
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Mush diet?! The horror. Did you live on frappachinos?
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Fraps, ice cream, mashed potatoes and yogurt (and my teeth did not fall out!).
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Kate, have a wonderful day today! The weather is pretty much on your side, the food is going to be awesome (heat doesn’t keep me away from the FOOD) and you have your family! Dang! It’s just going to be what summer is all about! Enjoy!
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Just finished cleaning and setting up. I’m soaked! Not complaining. Better than a snowstorm or even rain!
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Great post 🙂
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Thanks!
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Sending happy vibes your way as you enjoy your reunion and Sasha *fingers crossed* enjoys it too.
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I expect I will pay for having too many people here today. She will sit on my face when I’m trying to sleep tonight. Cats always get even.
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Bummer on the tomato thing. Do you can…in your copious spare time of course, right? Enjoy your family get-together. Family is the fiber that binds us together into our tribe.
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Can? no. Sometimes I roast freeze them to add flavor to things during the winter. I’ve gone 48 hours without a rebite. As long as I do conscious chewing I maybe ok to try in a day or two. I just have to focus on chewing when I eat. Who does that?
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🤞🏼for you.
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Oooh, enjoy your family reunion Kate! I hope you have great fun!
Deb
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It’s always fun. Hectic, chaotic (at least when I host) but fun!
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My week too was very busy and I’m ready to hide away to decompress for a few days. If I had a house full of people arriving this afternoon, I would be in a state of panic right now. I hope this day is a huge success for you. Have lots of fun with your peoples 🙂
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Panic? Yes! We did almost everything during the week so there’s not much setting up to do. Weather? 90 and humid! Buggers. Lotsa water and drinks. Food usually doesn’t move as well when it’s hot. Sorry we don’t have watermelon! (or a pool!)
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It sounds like we are going to have similar weather today – another sweatfest. Cold drinks will be in high demand!
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My pond is way to small for anyone to jump in (and that’s probably a good thing as fish pee in there!) so alcohol it is!
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hahahaha!! Fish pee does not sound attractive at all 😆
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Especially not if you get a mouthful!
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🤢🤮
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