An amazing miracle! That’s all I can say. Or is it the ultimate stubbornness?
My sis-in-law (SIL) was in a bad accident in February (exactly 3 months ago today). I posted about it here and here. The injuries were severe and as her primary care doc said, “I didn’t think I’d see you again. Most people would have been shuffled off to a nursing home after this.”
Obviously she underestimated how tenacious SIL can be. Despite her age (89) she had no intention of that happening. She has mobility issues but she manages them.
This week the women in the family had lunch with her for the first time since the accident. I “cooked” lunch (that means I picked up pizzas).
We were all amazed at how close to normal she is. (Remember that normal is a stretch for anyone in my family. Then again, maybe we are normal and you are all weird!) I see her more frequently than the others and even I saw an improvement over a week or two ago.
I envisioned eating slices in the living room so she could sit in her lounge chair. Instead we ate around the dining room table complete with centerpiece decorations that she carefully chose. The conversation was lively and as is the case in our family, it was hard to get a word in edgewise.
When I left I had a warm spot in my heart. My family is not openly affectionate. We don’t do a lot of hugs and no kissy-kissy (God no!) but there is true caring for each other. We do what we can to encourage and support each other and for that I am grateful. I missed my mom. She would have been very proud of this group (although not sure she would have approved of the pizzas).
So very glad your SIL is on the mend! Sounds like a wonderful day 🙂
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It was!
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Wonderful news, Kate. And pizza in her honor… I hope she loved it. 🙂 – Marty
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She did love it. She was the center of attention and she did a great job!
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wonderful update! So glad she is doing well and looking great, too — shows her fighting spirit is strong and that she has great family support is a bonus, too. 🙂 Amazing! MJ
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She is very amazing. Sometimes I just scratch my head.
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Wonderful! Wonderful! First of all, I hope I have the vitality she has when I’m 89! She must have very strong will and such a good attitude to have healed from such a terrible accident. I’m so happy for her, and for you all. I hope that she knows how much we all have been pulling for her! Thanks for the update, Kate.
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There were a lot of people supporting her. She’s active or was more active when she was younger and has lots of friends. She looks amazing!
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That is wonderful news – your SIL surprised every one. I loved your line “I “cooked” lunch (that means I picked up pizzas).” That’s the best way and you didn’t have a lot of dishes and mess to clean up afterward either and could enjoy each other’s company.
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It was about getting together, not about the food. Not this time!
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I am glad she is doing so well. That is truly a miracle.
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I’m grateful too. A lot less to worry about.
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Your SIL is a tough nut!!! She is amazing. So glad she’s doing so well!!!
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Tough nut! Perfect!
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Thank you for this wonderful update! After being on the mend for so long, it really is a cause for celebration just to do “normal” things, like set a nice table. I bet your brother is a very grateful man!
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He is. It’s been a long recovery.
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Cheers to her! She looks great and that is wonderful to hear of her doing so well!! Pizza sounds like the perfect thing to celebrate! Margarita’s with it? 🙂
A warm fuzzy post, even without the hugging! 🙂
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Sadly it was lunch. No margaritas.
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Next time. 😉
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🙂
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This is wonderful, news, Kate, many wishes and hopes for her continued recovery and well-being.
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Thanks. It’s great news.
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I’m a family person, so this warmed my heart to read about your family. When I finally moved back to be near mine, I was spilling over with gratitude to finally have them nearby and see them more often.
So thrilled to hear how well your SIL is doing. She’s one strong lady.
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She is strong. After a slow start, she’s been catching up on recovery.
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Totally wonderful and amazing. really glad it’s going so well. Bet just having everyone over made her feel life is getting back to normal-is. (even if tiring). How can you not be encourage looking at her tenacity and inner strength.
Thanks for the smiles today
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I was exhausted afterward (all that talking!). I bet she took a nap!
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Great news indeed. Avoid giving her a big hug from those of us out west!
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Nonexistent hugs accepted and returned!
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Most shocking to me ~> “it’s been 3 months?”
Time flies as it . . . heals all wounds, eh?
Glad your SIL is well enough to enjoy pizza at the dining room table.
Did you break out the good china?
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The timing was a coincidence. The lunch was on Monday and today when I calculated how long it had been I was surprised to. Yep on the good china. Don’t expect that at my place. I had brought paper plates along.
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Pizza is caring. That is all.
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I thought so. It was too early for a margarita and mocha lattes don’t go with pizza.
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Totally awesome! Well done SIL!!
I’m not kissy kissy with my family either, other than Bro in NZ if I get the chance again and SIL when she was over (though when I saw my eldest nephew at my niece’s wedding in July 2017, I didn’t want to let him go as I hadn’t seen him for years!) I hugged her enough so that she could pass it on. Sister and OB are like ironing boards…… hard, stiff and unyielding.
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🙂 We tend to be ironing boards in our family!
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lol But you are surrounded by love and that’s what matters.
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Kudos to your SIL for her strength, will and determination, and to all of you pulling together to get through that horrible nightmare. My family is non-kissyhuggy too so I definitely relate.
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It’s the way it is. She survived and did it with style.
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What a marvelous post! I’m thrilled that your SIL is doing so well. Pizza seemed perfect for the occasion, and I know you served it with flair.
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Me, flair? No. SIL, yes! You can be sure there would be no centerpiece at my house if I was serving pizza!
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You have a point. I’m always glad if there is room on the table for plates among the debris.
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🙂
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that is a wonderful feeling to know that this bad thing ended well… hugs to your SIl and to you ;O)
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There are just a few nagging injuries left but the worst is over. My brother hasn’t golfed yet because of his leg but it’s coming. Warm weather will tempt him.
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How wonderful. It is amazing what the spirit will allow us to overcome, isn’t it? Congrats to her and your family!
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Thanks. You have to keep on fighting!
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I’m amazed but not surprised! I am so so happy for this wonderful update… and a lunch with pizza! Your Sis-in-law is a force to be reckoned with and she is inspiring. So are you Kate.
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Even with the best outcome, I wasn’t expecting this good. There are challenges but nothing to keep her down.
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I’m so happy for your SIL! Haha, your version of cooking for a crowd sounds like mine.:-)
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Everyone was happy!
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This is WONDERFUL news about your Sister-in-Law, Kate. Thank you for sharing this. I can feel the true closeness from here. No kissy-kissy needed!
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Even I am surprised at how amazing she’s doing. I saw her a few hours after the accident and it was grim.
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“Normal is a stretch for anyone in my family. Then again, maybe we are normal and you are all weird!” hahahaha – don’t we all feel that way about our family!
What a wonderful feel-good post – such great news after such a horrific accident. Sometimes attitude is everything and your SIL seems to have a lot of it 💕
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Oh, she has attitude all right! Just try to tell her what to do!
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Fantastic news! I love hearing stories of people who amaze their docs and beat the odds.
Deb
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Even those of us who know her are amazed!
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That’s outstanding news! Happy for you and the family. Clearly your SIL ‘wasn’t quite done yet.’
P.S. Isn’t pizza the elixir of life itself?
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I could live on pizza and margaritas and mocha lattes. My teeth might fall out but I’d be happy!
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Sounds like the meals of champions to me!
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This is wonderful news, Kate. Thank you for the update on your SIL.
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It is and we are grateful!
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Great news. I’m happy to read this and rather amazed. Your SIL is a resilient woman and one with a bit of style, too. A centerpiece on the table? Tres chic.
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I know! I got there first and saw the table laid out with china, silverware and centerpiece. I said to her, “it’s us! You don’t have to do this for us!” She shrugged. I’m sure it was as much for her as it was for us but it was lovely.
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