Visitors – This heron has been visiting my pond lately. I caught him twice swimming like a duck in my tiny pond. We had words and I haven’t seen him since. He is ginormous. Sure hope I still have fish!
Yikes! – I received an STD (that’s save the date) post card from my high school reunion committee. The number of years is astronomical. I have seen very few of these people since high school. On the one hand I am curious but on the other hand, they are strangers. My bestie died a few years back. I never maintained a close relationship with anyone else. What to do, what to do…
Mall fatigue – The beloved husband took me on a field trip to a large mall about an hour away to celebrate my birthday. I’ve been there several times but not recently. There are a lot (A LOT) of stores with huge inventories. There are much better selections than I can get locally. It was total overload. I felt like I was in a mouse maze trying to find the few stores I wanted to visit. I missed the Lilly Pulitzer store with its colorful clothing but found everything else. We had an enjoyable lunch and got home at a reasonable hour (for retired folks!). I purchased a small blue vase but I did a lot of feeling and fondling (of clothing not people). Perhaps I’ve outgrown this phase. (Oops, I just heard my mother turn over in her grave! She was convinced I would never grow up.)
Shoes – No, I didn’t buy shoes at the mall but in recent months, I’ve found a brand that works for my fallen arches. The fit is better than more popular brands. An interesting color combo came into my internet feed. One look and I bought them. Basic black with tasteful dabs of hot pinks, purple and turquoise. They were calling my name.
Birthdays – Mine is tomorrow. My condolences to anyone else who has a January birthday. It’s cold, people are broke and no one wants to go out to celebrate. A few years back, I started celebrating my half birthday in June. Much, much better.
So how was your week?
Happy Belated Birthday, Kate!!
So are you going to attend the reunion? Considering it
Nice kicks, by the way.
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The reunion? I doubt it but I’ll think about it until it passes.
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A day late – but still, Happy Birthday. My younger nephew celebrated his birthday the day before yesterday, and my uncle has his 94th next week.
And what would you say to those who, like my youngest niece, celebrate theirs on Decemberf 25th (which was also the birthday of my maternal grandfather)?
The heron is beautiful.
I have never been to a class reunion and have lost contact with all my classmates save one. Do I care? Not a bit. Didn’t like most of them then and I see no reason to try to contact them now.
And I love the trainers (the sports shoes, in British English)…
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Some people like holiday birthdays but most don’t at least that I know. Despite cold weather (at least it didn’t snow) I had a good day! I doubt very much that I’ll go to the reunion. I didn’t make lasting friends from high school except for my friend who died.
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Happy Birthday, Kate. I kind of agree with you about a January birthday. Our anniversary is in January and we rarely do much to celebrate. Travel seems impossible to me. But I hope you do something to celebrate. And I really like your shoes. I need better walking shoes, so I think I am going to check on this brand. I like the look! Let us know what you decide about the reunion. 🙂
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Don’t hold your breath for the reunion. I haven’t gone yet so I doubt I’ll go this time.
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Happy birthday! It’s amazing that you have herons so near your house. They sure are an impressive bird.
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I am amazed too. Very tall! Pretty spectacular except for trying to eat my fish.
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That heron is huge and rules not just the pond but your whole backyard! They are so majestic looking. I don’t know about your fish because that heron sure does look well fed. I’ve not been to any of my high school reunions – the biggest and splashiest one was the 40th year reunion back in 2013. They had a Facebook group site for it and I didn’t know half the people that were in the group. The men would be easier since they had their same name – the woman I was clueless for most unless they used their maiden name along with married name. We had 613 in our graduating class, so difficult to know them all personally. I do keep in touch with just a handful of them, probably 8 at most. My cat friend Carol just celebrated her 63rd birthday on January 11th – no family members remembered it and she was not only incredulous but very hurt. My late mom’s birthday was on Valentine’s Day and mine was exactly two months later so we took every August 14th off as a personal day to celebrate our birthdays – we knew we could get out in the weather with no worries about snow or ice (for either of us – we get snow/ice in mid April too and the restaurants would not be crowded with diners either.
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Sounds like you and your mom had a great idea there!
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Like you, a window on the world, and they can’t see you, so are free to move about and enjoy themselves. I can watch Grady through the front door while being three feet away, but on the other side of the glass/door and he can see me watching him. But three feet away from him outdoors … nope, that will freak him out. He’ll come around eventually.
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Happy Birthday! And here’s to many more sneakers in your future. 🙂 – Marty
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Yes! Yay!
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Happy Birthday! Party on.
(and thanks for the shoe hint – will check those out)
We looked at ponds over the weekend – with waterfalls….which will probably come to nothing –
You have a big grey visitor! Those are so cool – we have one who resides in the little inlet of the lake/wetlands and see him everyday….that one is a very successful fisherman…..
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I saw this one for 5 days in a row. Then we had a discussion on fishing in my pond and I haven’t seen him since. Hmmm…..
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Miss Kate. You are among the best people I know who have birthdays in January & February (Mom, MIL, bestie and more). If I was there, I’d come party with you, January or not. 😉
I can’t get over that you have such huge herons where you live. I never saw them growing up (Chicago), but they were everywhere when I lived in Florida.
Haha. STD. That was funny. I know what you mean. I didn’t even really care for my high school much, but I’d be curious about my fellow alumni, too. Good luck.
I LOVE those gym shoes. I want a pair. I’ve had trouble with plantar’s fasciitis on-and-off. They might work for that.
Have a wonderful and warm birthday.
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Thanks. I was surprised with the heron too. I heard that his (or her) nest is in a nearby preserved parkland area. Once in a while we’ll see shore birds but we are about 2 to 3 hours inland.
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Nature rocks!
And so does that heron!
Thanks for brightening my day, Kate.
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Thanks for stopping by and rocking!
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Happy Birthday Kate❣️ Have a wonderful day and year ahead.
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Thank you!
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Happy Birthday to you, Kate! Have a most wonderful day!
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The sun is shining. That’s a good start!
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Happy Birthday, Kate!!
There is a lone heron at the psrk near me. I always worry he’s not getting enough to eat.
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They are very good fisherbirds so I wouldn’t worry. They can also scavenge if they have to.
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Happy Birthday, Kate!!!
That is a gorgeous looking heron….although I understand that your fish might not think so!
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I was wondering what the fish were thinking seeing these long legs with webbed feet deep in the pond.
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Happy birthday! Mine was yesterday 🙂 Which mall did you go to? Interested to hear what decision you make on your reunion. I haven’t been to one of mine yet, and doubt that I will. It is so expensive to travel back to PA from here, and honestly, I didn’t go to any of them when we still lived there. I get plenty of contact on Facebook 🙂
Also, love your sneakers! They are YOU!
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It was the King of Prussia mall near Philly. I probably won’t go to the reunion. I haven’t gone yet but every time I get curious. If I wait long enough, everyone will be dead.
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I wondered if it was KoP – that is a pretty spectacular mall, as I remember it. Reunions – LOL!
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Happy birthday@
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Thanks!
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Reunion STD Tips: Go . . . make them jealous . . . you’re sure to be the youngest looking (and most funnest) attendee in the room!
Wear a button that says, “Cat Woman” ~> it will be a great conversation starter.
Wear your new trainers so you can dance the night away with comfy feet!
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That will make a statement!
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The heron looks majestic.
I think we should have a contest to see what birthdays are the worst. Mine is three days before Christmas. People are already broke by then, and they still have mandatory parties to attend. I wouldn’t trade for a summer birthday, though. Can you imagine celebrating by having a heat stroke?
Happy birthday six hours from now.
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June may be a good month. Maybe a pool party (at least when I was 16!).
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June sounds reasonable, but I’m not. Having a winter birthday is a vital part of my history, and I love cold weather. I’ll leave the longing for warmth for January birthers.
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My weekend was not nearly as productive as I planned. But I did get more done than I usually do, so – I guess it’s a good thing.
I was doing some work in excel for my job and I discovered that in order to escape it, I was happy to get up and do some chores around the apartment. It turns out I just need a bit of tedium to get me moving into vacuuming. 🙂
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Exchange one tedium for another does work. It’s some change.
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Happy birthday, fellow January b-day sufferer! Just think, if we had been born in Australia, we’d have summer birthdays (people would still be broke, but at least it would be warm). I feel similarly about malls. Recreational shopping is a thing of the past.
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I miss those days. I’d love to try on prom dresses (nope, I didn’t buy any — just enjoyed my fantasy in the dressing room) and treat myself to something (Cinnabun? Orange Julius?)
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Orange Julius… yum! How did they get away with putting a raw egg in their drinks?
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It’s a good thing I didn’t know that!
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Happy Birthday! That heron is huge! I think I’d be scared.
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He is huge but he takes off as soon as he sees movement so he is more afraid of me than I am of him. Thanks for the b-day wishes.
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Love the shoes Kate! My shopping phase has left me. I’m even tempted to order my groceries online and have them delivered.
A creek runs along the fence line in our back yard. It’s a haven for blue herons and turtles. We have one blue heron that visits in our back yard. We see him often roaming the streets in the neighborhood. I can’t imagine what he’s looking for…
Hope you have a great birthday! ~Elle
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Wow! A heron in our neighborhood is an oddity. We see them occasionally but not all that often. I love the shoes too. I like color.
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Happy Birthday Kate! Treat yourself to double Latte’s tomorrrow!
Wow on your heron!! It’s huge, but so cool! I do hope it took your talk seriously though about the fish, and that they stay safe.
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Tomorrow’s latte will be compliments of Starbucks! (free on your b-day if you are a rewards member!). The heron has to stand 4′ tall. I wish I could have gotten a picture of it gliding on the water. My pond is 5 x 11. It was like a hippo in a bathtub. Almost anyhow. I can’t get mad or spun up about it. It’s nature. The smart fish were hiding in the places I provide for them. As for the dumb ones, survival of the fittest.
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Yay on your latte!
Oh my gosh on the heron , I was gonna say it looked as tall as me, not that far off. LOL!
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Nope, Pretty close! 🙂
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At our age, I like the idea of two annual celebrations. {snorf} Sending oodles of poodles of birthday wishes.
As for the HS reunion, I made the mistake of attending mine even when I knew full well I didn’t like most of them back then and 50 years didn’t change that fact. All was not lost, I was able to visit my parents that weekend but I can’t imagine doing it ever again (I still don’t like them!).The curiosity factor was a dismal fail.
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Then you understand how I can be curious. I never even dated someone from my school so I don’t have an old boy friend there. I suspect that the girls I was friendlier with don’t attend as they weren’t “clicky.” I wonder if the clicks are still there after all these years.
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They sure were at mine. It was fascinating seeing “Mean Girls,” the geriatric edition. 😈
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OMG! Still mean?
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Still the same!
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Still the same stuck-up, snotty girls that they were back then, only now they were wrinkled and heavy. And to think I so wanted to be accepted by that clique. They actually did me a favor.
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When I was working I ran into one of the click who was a consultant for a company that was pitching a product. She was nice to me but then again, I was the client she wanted to make happy. I only saw her a few times and we didn’t use her company.
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Behind those grandmotherly smiles was a lot of camouflage.
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Sounds like the big bad wolf in disguise! 🙂
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More like pettym small insecure peeps.
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Yowza! That heron is huge! We have a resident heron, but he’s not quite that big. Happy early birthday, Kate! I hope the Eagles deliver you a win today! Go Eagles 🦅
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The heron had to be 4′ tall. Majestic and gorgeous. I wanted to invite him in and give him a name. (Yes, I need meetings!) An Eagles win would be an appropriate b-day gift.
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Happy birthday for tomorrow Kate.
Love the trainers. Will look out for them over here as I shall be needing a new pair shortly.
The heron is majestic. We had two on the marina and it was fascinating to see them fish…… stock still for ages then smack into the water and voila, lunch. Hope you still have yours.
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I have shelves and and bridges built into the pond so the fish winter under those. I can see a glimmer of at least one but for the most part I can’t see them until the water warms and come to the surface. I have a lot of fish so the loss of one or two won’t make a difference. Circle of life and all that.
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Good Morning!
Why do I think your bday is in February? Well, Happy and Healthy one even a day early! I think your Heron has been visiting many ponds in the area. He has tormented another friend with a pond on a regular basis. They put some kind of netting around the pond. Whatever they did, saved lives! (both the fish and the heron) We are pretty sure we found his nest. It is in Trexler park.
LOVE your new sneakers. Wear them in good health.
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I have a lot of hiding places built into my pond for the fish and tadpoles so they aren’t “sitting ducks.” I’m reluctant to put netting on the pond as another animal or bird can get caught in it. I’ve had the pond for almost 9 years and it hasn’t been fished out yet so I’m hopeful. It’s a very beautiful heron. If my pond was bigger, I would chase him at all.
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Happy Birthday! I love the picture of the heron. My mother woke me up early one morning in rural Virginia once to show me a heron fishing in the neighbor’s pond. Thanks for reminder of that memory.
But sorry about your fish.
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I keep saying it’s the circle of life. Everyone has to eat. Just hoping it didn’t eat them all.
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY Kate. I will celebrate indoors since we had a nasty little snowstorm last night. I love your idea about “half birthdays” though.
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We were on the upper edge of that storm and just got a dusting. For those born in the winter, half birthdays give us an opportunity to have cookouts and outdoor activities to celebrate.
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Happy Birthday, Kate! I know the feeling about a January birthday. I have similar ones about March. In Ontario, it’s still horribly winter and come March break when my birthday is, everyone I knew would disappear (and still does) to warmer climes. I really like your idea of a half-birthday. I may need to borrow it come September 🙂
I wondered why you needed to have words with the heron …. until you mentioned fish. Oops. If they’re all missing, at least you’ll know why. Poor heron probably couldn’t believe his luck!
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There used to be several “residential” ponds in my neighborhood but the neighbors took them out. There is one other one but it doesn’t have fish. We are the only game in town although there is a stream and a fish hatchery less than 5 minutes away as the heron flies! 🙂
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Happy birthday, Kate. Even in the cold. At least the snow today makes it all look pretty, and we aren’t quite sick of winter yet.
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We just got a dusting. You can even see the grass through it but it’s still pretty. Oh I’m sick of winter already!
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We got about an inch here, so it is kinda pretty. It is too early to be sick of winter! I can usually make it til about February, and by March I absolutely despise it.
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I’m not a winter fan in the best of times. Now I would like more sunshine and good weather to walk outside. That always makes me feel better about life.
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I am with you on that. I don’t mind winter as much since I started walking dogs, but I hate driving in snow…Hate.
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That is the best part of being retired. Knowing that you don’t have to worry about driving. When I worked I had many white knuckled drives.
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Happy birthday. This time of year I would be happy to go out to celebrate anything. I love your heron. I hope you still have fish.
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I have at least one. There is an orange glimmer at the bottom of the pond. My fish are inexpensive goldfish varieties but some of them have been with me for many years.
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Happy birthday!!
Too bad the bird is a fisherman because he’s awfully regal and beautiful.
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He is beautiful which is why I don’t chase him unless he looks like he’s fishing. His movements are so graceful.
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I love reading the CKBlog! Have a wonderful birthday!
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Thanks!
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