My gym has been closed a day here and there lately so I’ve had to find other ways to exercise. (No, I’m not jogging out there in the cold. Or doing anything out there in the cold!) I hate treadmills too. Bleah!
What I love is to look at beautiful things. You can do this a couple of different way. You can go to a museum or an indoor arboretum (remember it’s winter here).
Or you can walk the mall. I used to love to shop but these days I don’t need clothing. Buying is no fun if there’s no place to wear it. I also need to have other people admire it too. If you don’t work, you lose your audience. That’s what makes the whole experience fun. (That and the treat at the end. It may be a pastry or a coffee or a slice of pizza – I’m easy.)
I’ve done walks at two different malls in the past week. One yielded a few purchases but the other was strictly for exercise (and a mild amount of merchandise fondling).
The real pleasure of a purely educational (and I use that term loosely) mall excursion is that I can scrutinize the best of the best. When I’m shopping for something I need I don’t have time. It’s get what you need and get out.
January is a great month for window shopping. All those people are safely back at work or school. Parking is no longer a demolition derby and the staff is more….peaceful.
I take time to examine beautiful details and admire straight seams. (None of this costs money!) Designer clothes are like works of art. It’s like looking at paintings and examining the brush strokes, lighting and color.
The great designers make clothes that make look everyone good (mostly). Flounces are tailored (and purposeful) and colors meld together. Hems hit spots on the leg that make a woman look like a dancer.
It took two hours to feed my fantasies with clothing details I have no use for. I doubt if I worked off any calories but my heart was happy and my head was clear.
Clothing, especially shoes, are my enjoyment. My husband can spent hours perusing guitars. We have friends who do auto or boat shows. It’s all the same concept.
What is your favorite “looking” pastime?
You have better will power than I do! Maybe I can just leave my wallet in the car!
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I do have will power. I don’t really need clothes but I enjoy the shopping part.
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Great post! My favorite looking pastime is definitely trekking around the library. I get so into it that I forget to eat sometimes : )
Happy browsing!
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Libraries are good!
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Bookstores!
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I am deadly (for my pocketbook) in Barnes and Noble. Books, magazines, coffee. If they had cats, it would be perfect.
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I’ve been to some bookstores where they have resident cats and chairs to read the books.
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That would be wonderful (except for those allergic).
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🙀
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@ Kate Crimmins: I like looking at the mountains when I am in the midst of them. 😀
I hope that you are enjoying window shopping.
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That’s very peaceful.
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Okay, I admit it, for a woman I’m a little weird. My favorite place to window shop is Lowes. I love walking the long aisles, the smell and texture of fine wood, and dreaming of the next nightmare project I’m going to get myself into. Hubby doesn’t mind at all, in fact, if I show it to him often enough, some day I might actually get that radial-arm saw I’ve been looking at. (As long as I let him use it, of course.)
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When I first moved here by myself two decades ago, I would spend a lot of time in those kinds of stores. Some of it was wishing and dreaming and some of it was to fix things in my new house. It became therapy. When I had a lonely Saturday night on the horizon, I would go over and look at paint samples and cabinets and I’d be happy.
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My looking past time? In bed, phone in hand, looking at cats on Instagram of course! Does that count?
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Not as real exercise but it’s better than tranquilizers!
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I love your reference to “merchandise fondling.” I am not very fashion conscious and my personal shopping doesn’t really orient towards clothing beyond necessity, but one of my favorite televisions shows is Project Runway, and I’m really fascinated with designer couture. So your enjoyment and day of “fondling” makes sense to me! My favorite “looking” pastime is independent bookstores. I can’t come out of one without a purchase, but it’s typically minimal, given my stockpile of books still unread! But it is a comforting experience. 🙂
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Books are a comfort food. Even as a kid I couldn’t come out of the library without an armload. Each one is a journey to someplace new.
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I’m with you. I love to look at clothes, in regular stores or thrift stores. I examine them carefully (my mother was a seamstress too) and think about the outfits I’d put together. It’s very relaxing to me.
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On my last trip I saw a skirt and a blouse from different designers that would have made a stunning upscale outfit. I mentally went through my list of people who may die soon to see if I could justify another funeral outfit. I couldn’t.
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I’m sure they would appreciate the thought!
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It would be an awkward conversation for sure!
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Haha! Got any *weddings* on the horizon?
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Actually I do! I had an old outfit for that but maybe….just maybe….
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Walking the mall with a Starbucks latte and a pastry is a great idea.
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It cancels it all out, doesn’t it?
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And I have the waistline to prove it. 😀
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I love shoes! Can I use your “merchandise fondling” line to my husband, next time we are somewhere that sells foot bling?
“Honey, I’m just fondling them, it’s a thing on the internet now, and I don’t want to miss out!”
He’ll walk away from me shaking his head, and never see me slip to the register, pay for the shoes, and tuck the package neatly under my arm.
😉 another great post, Kate, still giggling!
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Absolutely! That’s what friends are for…
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🙂
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I can lose myself in a bookstore, especially ones that have coffee shops inside them as well.
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Coffee shops inside, yes! Some sofas too.
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Hi, Kate – Great post, with great additional suggestions from your readers. I don’t love the cold (or rain either), but if dressed warm and walking for a purpose (like coffee and a slice of cake!!) I find the walking much more enjoyable.
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My minimum outside temperature is close to 60! I won’t see that for a while so it’s indoor walking in the meantime. A treat at the end always makes it more fun. 🙂
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As a former professional of a major clothing company I thank you for admiring seams and details that much work goes into.
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My mother was a seamstress. I learned from the best.
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I like “just looking” around book stores or antique/thrift shops, even Goodwill, but I can “just look” in almost any kind of store. Treadmills are not for me either but we have a stationary bike when it is too cold or rainy and can’t get out to jog/walk. Fortunately, our weather is mild.
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I can look in a lot of places too. We used to have 3 large book stores locally. Now we have one.
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I love (what my husband would call) wondering around aimlessly in an interesting area. Taking pictures, people watching, etc.I like having no real plan or schedule. They have organized mall walks around here, but I’ve never been on one. I prefer to shop alone, and that includes window shopping.
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I window shop better by myself too. I always like to look at things others aren’t interested in.
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I like craft stores. I can spends couple of hours just wandering. Have to be careful in the yarn department though. I don’t care for mall walking. I only like walking outdoors.
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Craft stores can be dangerous. Just too much stuff! We have a huge one nearby with anything you can think of in it.
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Now what you really need is a dog, and then you would still be getting plenty of exercise on days the gym is closed.
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The cats gave a thumbs down on that one!
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I thought they might.
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I love before and after shots. Of anything — houses, makeovers, haircuts, even rescue dogs! There’s something about uncovering undiscovered potential that sucks me in every time. I used to love “What Not to Wear.”
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I like that too, especially houses. In our area a lot of homes were built in the 40s-50s-60s. I’ve seen some amazing do-overs to update them without ripping them down. I recently saw a very boxy ranch that was well done.
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I like walking outside and looking at the sky, the clouds, the birds, the trees, the grass . . . and any critters that are lounging about. Bunnies are the best.
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I do that in the summer, even when it’s warm. When I worked I did it year round but nowadays I just don’t like being out in the cold.
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I’m with you, Kate. I barely stuck my nose outside over the weekend. Yesterday was warm enough for a nice walk. Today too.
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Maybe tomorrow but we’re also expecting rain with the milder temps.
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I’ve done the mall walking thing as well since I hate exercising (so it doesn’t matter to me if the gym is closed). I work from home so I don’t need clothes either, although I am losing some weight so I may need to pick up some things soon. My favorite go-to is the book store. I can spend hours looking at the craft magazines and discount section. I park at a spot at the other end of the mall so I have to walk a longer way to get there. Have you tried housewalking? That is supposed to be another new-ish craze.
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Housewalking is just life, isn’t it? Especially when you are older and forgot why you went upstairs (or downstairs).
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LOL I guess you’re right but not having an upstairs, I’ve been known to take a stroll or five around the kitchen/living room/hallway.
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So lucky! What I want is always on another floor.
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Paragraph/Point #3… I so hear you… Yes! My thoughts exactly living out in the sticks! This whole post… yes! You said just how I feel!!!
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Our closest mall is too far away for walking every day… dang!
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We have a close mall that is small and a really nice one about a half hour away. That one is always a treat although I don’t go often. I was there before Christmas and even on a weekday morning it was crowded.
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The mall is too far away for mere exercise. We have to go there purposefully. Grandson Nathaniel likes exploring towns on foot. It’s easy for him, living on Long Island, but we managed to walk the main street of two towns this visit. I loved it. It didn’t really count as exercise, though, because we dawdled. We find it easier to walk to the creek, unless rain is falling or there is ice underfoot. Thankfully, cold doesn’t bother us unduly yet.
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You walk pretty regularly which is all that counts!
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I can’t say no to walking every aisle of a toy store or a pet shop. I would have thought I’d have outgrown that by now. Unfortunately, they don’t have either of those in malls anymore.
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There used to be a pet shop across the street from where I worked. (A long time ago!) I went there often for “therapy.” There is nothing like happy puppies and kitties to make you feel good. Fortunately those are long gone and locally if you want a pet you get them at a rescue or shelter. I find those sadder. Too many older pets that are unwanted.
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I’ve never gotten in the habit of walking a mall and I have no reason why that is. You’re smart to make it your go-to when your gym is closed. As they used to say: “you go girl!”
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I really hate exercise. Going to the mall for a walk will make me excited about seeing new things even if I don’t really shop.
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Good plan.
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Favourite looking pastime? Cake shops. Lovely, fat, fresh cream slices, gateaux, custard doughnuts, choux buns, iced buns, carrot cake with cream cheese frosting, and today a courgette and lime cake with lime zest frosting (all gone by the time we walked back to the car!). Nice to drool, fully aware we would never buy one as each piece is over three pounds and I can buy a complete gateau for 12 for £2.
Why do I torment myself with the syns of the cake I shall never have (sigh).
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I don’t know if I would have the strength to walk about without something!
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It helps having the dog (can’t go in), having no money (most of the time) or the shop being closed, in which case the windows would be empty! I can feel those extra inches creeping my way already! But some of those delights …………………….. one day. When I’ve maintained my target for a month or so, I’ll take out a cake mortgage. That courgette and lime has my name written right through it!
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There is a huge complex of outlets about an hour from me. When I worked I’d go maybe twice a year as I could get really nice business clothes. They had a great bakery and I always treated myself. Twice a year isn’t so bad. Perhaps if it was available more often it would lose it’s charm.
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Hubby got a liking for iced belgian buns from one of our more practically priced bakers, and at 85p each or 2 for £1, I had to help him out didn’t I. We haven’t had one of these at all since I started with SW, but I have treated him to a chelsea bun on occasion, but no icing.
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Sounds wonderful. I’m not a big icing fan so I would have been happy.
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sadly we both have a horrendous sweet tooth. I’m OK most of the time, but poor Hubby has no will power when he gets an attack of the munchies.
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🙂
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Mister and I, do enjoy the RV or boat shows, sometimes even the home renovation ones.
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I love home shows. My husband is always afraid I’ll come up with some “ideas.”
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It’s hard not to.
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Yes, and they always cost money!
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That they do 🙂
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You know my favorite looking, Kate…looking at my hummingbirds. Sadly, they’ve flown the coop, but I’ve still got all of our winter birds.
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This year there have been a lot of woodpeckers at our feeders and suet stand. They are so beautiful. I love watching my birds too but I get zero exercise from that.
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I love the woodpeckers, too. Although you hate the treadmill, I run on it or use my elliptical every day for an hour. My motivation is it’s my guaranteed reading time. With a Kindle, it lays nice and flat.
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That’s exactly what my husband does! I don’t know if I could read on it but I haven’t tried. An hour was way over my attention span for any exercise except racquetball or tennis.
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I love it, Kate. You should give it a try…the hour flies by.
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I tried reading on the elliptical, but I just couldn’t do it. The book was flat and stationary, but it was me that was moving! I just couldn’t focus on the words at all. I think I probably could on the exercise bike, but I only sparingly use those. Now curiously, my phone? I’m able to both read and compose while on the elliptical. Hm.
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That is just weird! Phones, at least mine, are so much smaller than my reader.
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You’re right, Kate..this month is a great time for bargains and just enjoying the experience of looking through items without having to walk an obstacle course. And mall walking, though some may snicker at it, is a great alternative to boring treadmills.
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Mall walking is a whole science. You have the people who are intent on exercising. The carry weights and maintain quite stride. Then there are the people like me, easily distracted by a good display window. It’s better than nothing though.
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I agree january is a fab month for window shopping… it’s enough for me to imagine to buy something, I still have the money and I can feel joy anyway… oh tomorrow starts winter sale in france…that’s a kind of gym too… (no clothes for me, just a foot step for phenny so he can enter the bed much better)
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Awww…a footstep. You are a good dog mama. We need another cat bed here. They use them during the winter preferring regular furniture during the summer.
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