In life there are people you admire. They are talented. They do good things. They get involved. From the outside they look like healthy, happy people. They are in stable relationships. They are living the dream.
Then it all blows up.
When Jennifer Anniston and Brad Pitt broke up, I was shocked. They seemed to have it all. Both were successful. Both were attractive. Both seemed down to earth (compared to the Kardashians anyway).
It was the end of a fairy tale. At least the happily ever after part. (Is there a happily ever after?)
I was in Jenn’s camp because it looked like she was “wronged.” Not that I blamed Angelina. Clearly Brad was poking around where he shouldn’t have been. He had made a vow.
Who really knows what goes on in relationship? Things simmer under the surface only to erupt when unexpected. People get blindsided. Or not. Sometimes they know. They prefer to not acknowledge. At least not to tabloids.
Brad seemed to be totally enamored of his new love. (He reminded me of Tom Cruise jumping on Oprah’s sofa singing of his love. That relationship is also defunct.) Angelina is beautiful in an exotic way. She is a great humanitarian and has done a lot of good for children (I admire her for that) but she’s quirky. Very quirky. Too quirky for Brad (or my version of Brad).
Time goes on. We all adjust the fairy tale. Maybe it was meant to be (tell that to the wronged wife – it’s like saying something was wrong with you).
There were all those kids. Happy holiday photos. Happy, happy, happy.
Until last week.
Perhaps we aren’t as monogamous as we’d like to think.
Whatever!
Another fairy tale shot down. May they all find peace.
You pretty much said it all. Jenn always seemed normal amid a reat circus of people out there. I like movies and shows, but rarely have any interest in performers off screen. They ahve a right to have private lives -and it is none of anyone’s business – but apparently so amny of them are addicted to being on stage that they can stop “working” and just live off screen…and the scandal sheets/ studio profit/marketing demands have hindered that for many.
Sad situation. It’s already getting ugly
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All good reasons why I’m not a celebrity. Oh yes, there is my lack of talent too.
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Very simply I care about the children. As for the breakup, I am shocked they made it as long as they did. Can you tell I wasn’t a fan? 🙂
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They were an odd couple. Hopefully the kids have enough people around who care.
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It has been debated for decades – maybe centuries – whether humans, as a species, are monogamous by nature. Most of the evidence points to the “NOT” side of the argument. Something tells me that you and your beloved and me and my Austrian are more aberrations than norms.
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Maybe back in the day when people stayed and living in family units it was easier to be monogamous. Nowadays everyone is out doing their own thing. So easy to get disconnected.
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I was a Jenn & Brad fan too. They even looked alike for god sakes! Hopefully our attention will not be diverted for too long with this “news.”
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Sometimes this stuff is a welcome distraction from that other news.
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That is so true.
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I am way behind on my celebrity gossip (years behind in fact). But I did get the hint loud and clear when a friend of mine shared the following link. Funny thing was that my husband took the “news” post seriously. I actually enjoyed that even more than the link!
Donna
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There is that adult part of me that says relationships end and life goes on. Then there is that “real” part of me that says “ya shudda stayed with Jenn!”
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With all of these allegations about him in the press, and law enforcement agencies speaking on the record that they have no comment (which I find both amusing and horrifying at the same time), my instinct tells me that Jennifer is probably better off– and knows it. I’ve always admired her. I thought her best moment was when she would wear the exact same outfit to every private engagement, and then change in a bathroom just to mess with the heads of the paparazzi. That told me she had spunk.
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If I had 6 kids they’d be investigating me too or institutionalizing me. I never heard that outfit story. Love it!
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I don’t follow celeb marriages, but you wrote about this one with clarity. In my fairytale thinking, I wish broken marriages could be mended, and like broken bones, heal stronger than before the break.
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Me too. With this I think I reacted to the concept of “happily ever after” rather than the celeb part. Maybe because there were so many kids involved.
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I hate myself for following this saga even the wee little bit I am. So many important issues facing us and, yet, this is where we focus. As far as I can see, these are just two (three, counting Jenn) people who – although way more beautiful and rich than the rest of us – make a bunch of decisions, some bad, some good. Marriage can be hard, and when outsized egos are involved and the tabloids are constantly watching, I think it would be difficult to keep things together. Like others, I feel bad for the kids who didn’t seek out the crazy celebrity world, but were thrust into it.
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Yeah, I hate myself for reacting. I haven’t felt like this since Harrison Ford dumped his wife for Calista Flockhart. It happens. I know.
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You are so right. We can never know the exact dynamics of any relationship.
But we can hope that in the end, they both put their egos aside and do what’s best for the kids.
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I wrote this because it was the end of what seemed so fairy tale. However, I found this Chelsea Handler clip that’s hysterical
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That clip = hysterical! Thanks for including it in the thread, kate.
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I love Chelsea. She’s so irreverent!
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Not a fan of Brad Pitt or Jolie. I don’t really follow celebs unless it is Smokey Robinson or Alan Rickman… 😀 Sadly, Alan Rickman passed away in January. I miss that voice.
Good Morning!
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I wasn’t a fan of them as a couple but I admire the good work that they have done. I am always saddened when a relationship fails, even one with such a rocky start.
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We have always been on team Jennifer.
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Woot, woot! I have always liked her. She’s classy and has an understated beauty.
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It takes two to make a relationship, and two to destroy one. For every “wandering male”, there is a receptive female, and the reverse is also true of course. For every marriage that suddenly falls apart, there is a history of issues…. it’s just that we weren’t told about them. This is no different than the musical “overnight success” …….. who probably became an “overnight success” after 5 years of hard work! I really don’t see celeb marriages as being much different from those of us regular folk!
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Well said. Celeb marriages are often more public which makes even small skirmishes bigger or more fatal. I have been gobsmacked by the split up of friends who I thought were doing well. The difference with a celeb marriage is that we feel we know them. We don’t and they can’t live up to our expectations because they are just people.
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I’m not a fan of women stealing other women’s men yet it’s as old as men leaving one for the other. Just read a great book called Great Dames, and all of the women had affairs with married men. It really depresses me, I have to say.
The children. Yes, the children will suffer more than they will.
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Perspectives on that change as you age. Maybe when you understand the devastation it can cause a family you don’t see it as a wonderful love affair.
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I was never a fan of Brad Pitt. Given the way the relationship started, I’m not surprised that it crashed and burned. I feel bad for the children.
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I was originally a fan until the Jenn breakup although he seemed to go through women like crazy. He has dated most of Hollywood.
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