There was an oldies dance in the town where I was born and raised. How could I not go?
I was expecting to see old friends but that didn’t happen. Then again, there may have been people who I knew there. I left town in the 70s. That much time makes people look…ummm…different.
(Except for me who looks like my same young sassy self!)
It was a trip down memory lane. There was a lot of development in the area. I had a soda shop to go to. Now the kids have a lot of different places. The have nice parks instead of fields and dirt paths.
The skating place was closed. Maybe that’s out of vogue. I spent a lot of time trying to impress the boys with my skating skills. (And I failed miserably.)
The dance music was from the 50s, 60s and 70s with the Electric Slide thrown in for good measure. The inclusion of late 50s music made the beloved husband happy. He requested an Elvis medley with Blue Suede Shoes and Hound Dog.
I knew the words for all the songs so I sang. Loudly. A lot. (A good thing about an oldies dance with oldies is that no one can really hear and they really don’t care!)
We left when they started the Chicken Dance. It’s all downhill from that point! It gets really weird fast.
The average age of the group was just before “walkers” but after “hip and knee replacements.” That didn’t stop anyone from dancing. They did their thing just a little more gingerly with modified steps.
The twist with that waist movement was a challenge for sure. There was only one person who twisted down to the floor and back up (without requiring medics). It wasn’t me!
People shook their booty (even if it was protected with Depends). Sometimes other body parts bounced too. It was all glorious!
Older folks don’t wait to dance. The music started and everyone was out on the floor. (Ok, the beloved husband and I were the first!) We don’t waste time. No need to loosen up. You are as loose as you are going to get. You want to be sure that you’ll survive until the end of the evening.
Older folks don’t have inhibitions! I saw dance moves that were unique — no one ever did them before. (And there is a reason for that!)
There were some Arthur Murray couples. They obviously took dance lessons. Their dancing was wonderful and intricate and they didn’t trip each other up. The beloved husband and I took dance lessons…twice. You couldn’t tell from watching us. We don’t really care. We have fun!
There were NO smoochy couples. You know the type, young and horny (or old and horny). (Can you remember when you were like that? Me neither!) I sort of missed that. No show to watch. No eye rolls or snorting.
We had a great time. We were in bed early – tired but happy.
Well, party on!
I think you were brave to go, I don’t think I would have done it and CH would NEVER have gone! I am glad you had a great time!
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It’s really fun and most of the people were our age. Some of the couples got very good. Others were like us, there to get a beer afterward.
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Oh, dear. I remember the chicken dance too. Don’t think I could remember how to do it though!
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It would come back to you fast but I’ll warn you. People will laugh at you.
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I keep trying to convince the hubs to take some dance lessons with me. I love when I see those “older” couples who look like they’ve been dancing together for a lifetime. But well, horses, water…drinking — just not happening really fast.
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Well, we’ve done it twice and it didn’t work.
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Moving to the beat and music, while singing along … will keeps us forever young 😎
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Yes, it’s important to keep moving!
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So funny and so much fun! Bill had a girlfriend before me who was an Arthur Murray dance instructor. I thought I had better learn to dance to keep up with him. On a trial run at the Arthur Murray studio, the male teacher said to me, “Forget it. You have no rhythm and no balance.” True story. I have been intimidated by dance floors ever since. 🙂
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You and my husband would make the perfect dance partners. They should have offered you a remedial class!
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Loss of inhibitions is a wonderful thing at any age. Glad you had a great time…:)
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It is. It’s so easy when there aren’t many people you know around.
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What a blast from the past! Sounds like it was a perfect evening out.
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It was. This was a new place. We try to get to an oldies dance twice a year. We have friends that find these amazing places.
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I can’t stand the Arthur Murray types but only because they are usually so good, and I can’t dance worth a damn. I tried taking ballroom dancing once, and I was a miserable failure. But it’s still fun to shake a booty or two and do what Billy Crystal called the “White Man’s Overbite.” 🙂 Sounds like a fun evening.
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You sound like my husband. He will do his white man’s dance any day.
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This is a scream – thanks for the laugh. And the good advice – make sure to leave before the Chicken Dance.
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Always leave when they strike up the Chicken Dance! Unless you want to do the Hokey Pokey.
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Dancing is great when the songs bring back happy memories. Make mine music from Woodstock, the 70’s, and early 80’s ~ Aerosmith, Stones, Skynyrd, Morrison, etc.
glad you had fun!
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There was some 70s but no 80s. You are a young sprout!
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That’s me! I graduated from high school in the mid-70’s, so the late 60’s, 70’s, and 80’s are full of music that resonates for me.
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I wonder if the crowded dance floor would happen on the West Coast? When Andy and I go to weddings on East Coast, especially with New Yorkers, EVERYONE is on the floor, regardless of skill.
On the West Coast, everyone is at the bar. Andy and I usually have the floor to ourselves.
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Here there are some couples on the floor. All the women are there but there is a group of men at the bar. The dance floor was only open for half of the first dance. After that it was full. You know these older folks want to dance to Mony Mony before they die.
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“I say YEAH!”
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Sounds like fun. I haven’t been dancing since my knees went south; however, I suppose you and your partner could hold each other up.
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I suppose you could dance with a walker. There was one woman there with a walker but I didn’t see her dance.
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That sounds like so much fun! My husband and l are also usually the first ones on the floor – we figure we need to get as many dances in before the floor fills up. Too bad you didn’t run into a few way back friends… that would have been interesting. Like you, the Chicken Dance would have been our signal to call it a night.
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I wasn’t sure if I would recognize anyone. The guy who ran our last reunion — I knew him fairly well and when I looked him up on Facebook I didn’t recognize him at all. White hair and jowls makes you look very different.
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Not that we would know…
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Of course not us!
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I love oldies music. That is oldies from the 50’s and 60’s. When the D.J. says and here’s a tune from….some 70’s artist I cringe. But, listening and dancing to the sounds of the “real” oldies is euphoric. I went to that oldies dance and when I left I felt better (exhausted) then I had in years. “Sweatin’ to the Oldies” is good for your heart and your soul!
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Yes it is. It was great fun.
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Oh my! I remember going to teen dances, but never enjoyed them at all. Did you know that at some retirement communities down in FL they have “proms” for the residents? Everyone dresses up and re-enacts their high school experience. I’ve seem photos and was, quite frankly, horrified by them. I am not going to make a good senior citizen if this is what is expected of me! 😉
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One of our local schools has a “prom” for senior citizens. I think it’s great if that’s what you want to do. I like fitting in with the younger crowd myself and without the pressure of dressing up.
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Oh no, they’re migrating north. I thought it was a FL phenomenon. Oh dear…
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I haven’t heard of any Senior Citizen Proms around here, Ally Bean. I’ll let you know if they become wide spread.
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The whole idea of re-living your high school prom when you’re 80 years old worries me. High school can’t go on forever, can it?!
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Some people love to “live in the past.” I prefer living in the present.
Plus, I hate getting dressed up. So I am not going to any Prom Redux when I’m 80.
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I love your age scale. Pre-walker but post hip and knee replacement. And the Depends protected booty might allow for wearing overalls. Not that I would of course! Unless it was a Sadie Hawkins dance. Obviously.
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That would work as long as you don’t need to change your Depends. A person could limit their liquid but what fun is that?
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I love to dance, and I could do the twist down to the floor and back up with no problem. Now I’d just shuffle my feet and swing my skirt (if I had one). My Mum and Dad loved the oldies, waltz and two step etc. They were very good at it. Mum had had her first knee replacement and wanted to dance to ‘Celebrate’ by Kool and the Gang as it had a good rhythm. I got a couple of chairs and put them in the middle of the dance floor. Then we did arms out okey cokey style movements, and before I knew it, there were twenty chairs and everyone was doing it. Mum felt terrific for having taken part.
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Oops, should be Celebration. Sorry Kool!
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That’s a great idea!
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That sounds like so much fun, Kate. I’d been right up there dancing with you. I love the oldies music.
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Yes, I always get right out there!
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Good for you! Go out and dance! I remember watching one couple in high school (yes, high school!) who actually really danced instead of shuffling and groping. They were marvelous to watch and through Facebook photos from her sister I see that they are still together nearly 50 years later and I hope they are still dancing. Always loved to watch them and wanted to be like them.
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I love dancing. My husband loves music and is a great musician but it didn’t extend down to his feet! I know we will never win a contest or be “that” couple but we do have fun. At least he will dance to anything (even the Electric Slide which I wouldn’t be caught dead dancing with him to). He doesn’t need a drink first either.
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