It’s appropriate to say goodbye to 2015 with a story about a cat that was dear and annoying all at the same time. I have photos of the young Jake to share.
Jake wasn’t planned but how many cats are? My cat-allergic friend found him at 3 months old hollering his fool head off in her yard. He had lungs you wouldn’t believe that stayed with him until near the end. He also had the biggest paws I’ve ever seen on a cat. He grew into them looking more like a mid-sized dog than a cat.
The plan was to find him a home without the stress of going to a shelter. It took me two weeks to find a home and then I couldn’t part with him. As they say the rest is history.
He was opinionated and always felt that he rescued me, not the other way around so there was no gratitude. He didn’t like all cats. I already had two, one of which he adored and followed around. The other he did not like at all. The feeling was mutual and lasted until the other cat passed.
In the course of mourning I tried to focus on things about him I don’t miss. There are a lot.
Getting two injections a day spaced apart by 12 hours. Waking me up at 3 a.m. Whining for food every hour. Not eating the food so I have to make sure Hazel doesn’t get it. Wanting to go outside. Not coming in at dusk. Making me go outside to coax him back in. Making me pick him up to carry him back inside because he’s so freaking stubborn. Hollering at me all during the carry. Drinking 8 oz. of Lactaid milk every day. Whining if I ran out of milk. Peeing outside the box if one of the other cats didn’t cover. Spritzing outside the box because his “equipment” is too big to fit.
What I really remember is a cat that was the most affectionate cat I ever had. A large cat that wiggled into a three-inch space between the beloved husband and me on the loveseat. A cat that put his head on my belly and purred when I was sick. I cat that jumped into my lap when I was sad. A cat that approved of the additions of Mollie and Hazel but wasn’t so happy about Morgan. The following routine happened every morning until he got sick. No cat was ever hurt though. It was all air boxing. Morgan is his match in size.
Yes, 2015 was the year of Jake. Goodbye old friend.
Awe Kate love reading his story. Beautiful kitty had a good life with you.
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He did. He both enhanced and stressed out my life!
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As they do Kate.
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I’m so sorry he’s gone, Kate. But you have to admit, he had lots of character.
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Yes he did.
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:O)
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Jake did look like a panther. Wish I aged as well as a cat.
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The pictures don’t do him justice. He was a very tall and lanky cat and had big paws his entire life. The last few years he didn’t age well. Lost his teeth and got cataracts. He had good mobility to the end but his mind was getting wonky. Sounds like people, doesn’t it.
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What a grand tribute to sweet Jake! Thank you for sharing. 🙂 I know how much you must miss him.
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As pets age, you don’t have a sense of it. When I pulled the pictures together I was reminded of the young Jake — clear eyes, all of his teeth, ready for an adventure. How he had changed. He will always be one of “those” cats that you don’t forget.
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A fond farewell. He lives on in your heart and in your memories. Thank you for sharing a little of what he meant to you Kate ❤️
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Yes and I have 100 other Jake stories. He lived a long and active life right up until the end.
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Now that the best kind of life to live!
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Thank you for sharing him with us. RIP big Jake! MJ
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Thanks for stopping by.
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Big paws leave big imprints on our hearts. And big holes in our lives.
Totally worth it.
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Yes they do. He was one strong cat. Taking him to the vet was a huge event in our house. No matter what trickery I used, he figured it out fast. Went he got older he was more docile about it all. Miss him for sure (and all the chaos he brought).
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I love that Jake had such a quirky personality. When I first started following your blog you had him as your cover photo and I remember those eyes. jake was the Paul Newman of cats. Rest In Peace little guy.
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Yep, very quirky even when young.
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Jake was a character, the best kind of cat! We had a cat like Jake, she was the cat of my life. She has been gone since January of 2009… I think about her every day. I loved your memories of Jake and that video cracks me up… cat boxing! I am glad you found and loved each other.
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He was the best kind of cat but I’d never tell him that. He adopted me when he saw “SUCKER” tattooed on my forehead. He wasn’t dumb.
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There are cats then there are the Jake’s. People who have never had a Jake just don’t get it. Sweet and loving tribute to Jake.
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Yes for some people pets are pets for others they are life-long friends. I have friends who tear up when talking about one of their pets who have gone and can rattle all the names off as if it were a lottery contest! I am one of those too.
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To me pets are family and easier to get along with than a lot of people
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Oh God yes! I’m not all that fond of people.
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It says something about your ability to write in a way that tugs at the heartstrings, in that I still miss Jake, too. And I’m not even technically a cat person, since my home is owned by dogs (at least, for the present moment). Jake, just like so many other misbehaved children, still had a way of ripping a smile out of your heart, and when his purrs resonated against your belly, it was impossible not to melt just a little bit inside. He was kitty royalty, and street thug, all rolled into one opinionated and obstinate … and completely lovable … kitty creature. He is missed.
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Hmmm….sounds like you met him. He was probably at some bar trying to pick up chicks.
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The funny thing is, he was probably successful at it. Charmer. 🙂
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Definitely a charmer. One of my favorite stories is when I brought Mollie home from the shelter. She was 1-1/2 years old and already had a litter. The last kitten was adopted and taken home the same day I took Mollie home. Within a week she was in heat. She was getting spayed the following week. Jake was on the top of the sofa and Mollie came sashaying in like a Vegas show girl, strutting her stuff. She was caterwauling loudly. Jake had no idea what was going on since he was neutered at about 4 months. She kept going to him with her hindquarters hot and ready. He covered his eyes with his paws and flattened his ears. Funniest thing ever! What a wuzzy stud muffin.
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What a poignant post ~ life is so bittersweet at times. I’m glad I got to meet Jake.
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Yes, he left us with some great memories and a few giggles.
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What a sweet kitty, and so full of personality. He was blessed that you rescued him, and you were blessed to have him in your life. Your cats have it pretty good, I’d say.
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Yes they do! Food is good (and they have the right to reject it!). Best health care around. Certainly better than mine!
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Oh they put their talons into our hearts!!
RIP your Jake. RIP my Guin. I hope the two of them were tearing up the town together last night!
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I am sure they were!
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Oh, Jake, rest in peace. I’m always thankful when I know a cat is truly loved . . . as Jake was.
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I always told him that no one would put up with him like we did but he gave me raspberries. He was some cat.
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RIP Jake. Isn’t it amazing how our pets just fit in their slots in our lives?
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Yes they do!
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Awwww…very sweet story.
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I have been reading stories and seeing pictures of blogger buddy cats. I can’t believe how fast they grow. Your Annie is all adult now as are Lumox and Nox and Nakana, other cats I see. This was a great exercise in remembering the young Jake.
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Such lovely memories. Our pets always find their own place in our hearts and we never forget them. I like the idea that 2015 was the Year of Jake for you.
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I was. He almost didn’t make it. He wasn’t doing so well in fall of 2014 and I thought that was the last but we had one more year. It was a year full of work but it was worth it.
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Cats are always such a mixture of annoying and destroying pests and warm bundles of love. But what matters most is the warm love.
“…always felt that he rescued me, not the other way around so there was no gratitude” The love of a cat is special. They choose you. Dogs, mostly accept and love anybody that is their gift. Cats – they choose you. And you know it. And that is what makes their love so worthwhile.
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and they don’t like sharing you either! My cat Mollie is not happy when I am on my Kindle and she crawls on my lap. She will bat the Kindle down to get attention.
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Yes! I spend a good portion of my time on the internet in a constant struggle with Lily to get out of the way of the keyboard or screen or just putting her head on my hands as I type. Its the pestiest thing she does.
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Morgan “rubs” my touch screen and wonky things happen. Eventually she will lie down and take a nap but we struggle first.
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A nice love story. 🙂
“Young Jake with me so many years ago. Just look at those naughty eyes!”
( Sorry, we were all looking at you. lol )
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It’s not a great picture. He’s a black cat and these are old pictures. I had to photoshop to brighten and I didn’t worry about how grainy I looked! I didn’t remember how blonde my hair was then. I have blonde hair but it’s more caramel. Looking for these pictures was a trip down memory lane. Took me about an hour of photos from the 70s through the 90s.
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I go through old photo albums every few years, then put them back in the box, tie it up and stuff back in the attic or an old trunk.
Then sit and wonder …… who was standing by me in that old photo from 50 years ago. 😦
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When I do that I can’t believe how young I looked! Why is it that we didn’t like the way be looked when we were young? I’d kill to look like that now (and not have the creaky aches and pains!)
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RIP Jake. He had a great life, full of love, with you, Kate.
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He had a very good life complete with servants.
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A fitting and lovely farewell. (Cupcake)
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Yes, I forgot to mention that he started calling me Cupcake a dozen or so years ago. Wonder where he got that.
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RIP Jake. I love black cats. He was so pretty.
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He was all black until he was old, then he got some white hairs mixed in. He was beautiful and a bit of a “boxer” nose that was cute.
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