I can.
Yesterday was gorgeous. It bumped close to 70 degrees with the sun shining. Even the wind was warm.
All the ice on the pond melted and everyone (yard critters, pets, pond critters, people) was frolicking. It was a cross between holiday mania and spring fever.
It’s not going to last. Wednesday’s forecast, if you can call it that, is crazy. We may get snow. It may be 1 to 8 inches or we may get rain. Or it may miss us completely. How do you plan for that?
I am definitely off kilter (for a lot of reasons actually). The weather has been vacillating between winter and spring. (Not really complaining except for the cold part.)
It reminds me of the year my mother was ill before Christmas. When she came home from the hospital the weather was very mild for early December. I stayed with her a few days for transition. Her house wasn’t convenient.
The only bathroom was on the second floor. The heat was a coal stoker that needed daily stoking.
My mother was used to it but I wanted her to rest.
My cousin sent a huge fruit basket. It was luscious with apples, pears, grapes, oranges and grapefruits. In fact it was so huge, I put it outside to keep it cool.
As I was bringing in groceries I noticed there were tiny holes in the fruit. I had no idea what was happening.
I asked my mother if she saw anything. She pulled me into another room and behind a sheer curtain we watched a family of birds attack the fruit.
For the birds it was a real celebration to get fruit in December especially citrus which doesn’t grow here any time of the year.
We shared. We had no choice. Two pieces were badly mangled. No one would eat those. The rest came back indoors.
It was a great holiday for my mother. With the mild weather people came around to help with decorations and cookies. I am convinced she shared more fruit with her bird friends.
Eventually the weather changed to typical winter stuff but Mother Nature had given her a warm and festive return home. For that I was very thankful.
This is such a perfect example of “things happen or a reason.” Just that small act of seeing birds feasting on those juicy fruits in December brought joy and a wonderful memory to share.
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It was a special holiday even with my Mom recovering.
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i love how it went from weather to your mother…such a sweet unexpected detour. The picture in profile tells of a pensive woman…things on her mind…able to gaze out the window happy to see birds feasting happily.
Thanksgiving brings up tenderness.
Thanks for sharing.
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and thanks for stopping by.
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Of course…love what you write…gets better and better…truly.
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I do love it when the memories flood in! Thanks for sharing yours. Happy Thanksgiving!
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Thanks!
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What a lovely story about your mother. I’m pretty sure my mother would have shared her fruit with the birds too.
Our weather has been warmer than usual… we’d love to have some rain here too!
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We have a bunch of rain this morning and now it’s snowing. If I could, I’d send some your way.
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It’s amazing the little things that remind us of certain moments and trigger memories of people in our lives. And such beautiful memories!
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Yes it is. I hadn’t thought of that time in years. Mom was happiest when people stopped by to chat. Nice weather always encouraged that.
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Personally I think you look like your mother. I so miss my darling mother…she was the kindest…never, ever said a bad thing about anyone. Sweetness!
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I loved my mother but sweet wouldn’t describe her. She was sassy and outspoken but very, very kind. Still miss her.
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I love how endearing mother stories live on. Mine?
Mom fed the birds. Brother lived next door with driveway between.
Brother’s wife fed the squirrels. Mom didn’t like the squirrels. They chased away her birds.
One day Mom had had enough. Tried to shoot squirrel.
Shot out brother’s basement window instead. I love my crazy mother.
(I hope I grow up to be just like her…)
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OMG! Stories like that make me feel like I come from a normal family. Love it!
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So that’s where our beautiful Sunday weather went! And then yesterday it turned cold, gray and dreary again.
I love the story of your mom sharing the fruit with the birds, so nonplussed and quietly delighted. What a fun moment to remember about being with her. Such a wonderful lesson in this. Isn’t it more fun and lasting to share? This post made me smile.
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I will have to post another time my mother came home from the hospital. We were arguing within the hour. I felt so badly. She had just spent a week (this was back when they kept you in the hospital) for heart issues. My mother was a wonderful, lovely but opinionated person. (and I wonder where my bossiness comes from…..)
If you want, I can send some snow down your way….
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What a nice story about your mother, Kate. Thanks for sharing. We’re experiencing the same roller coaster ride with our temperatures. We hit 75 yesterday, but expect temps in the 40’s with rain tomorrow. I hope the snow misses you!
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Me too. Just not ready for snow and tomorrow is such a big travel day for others.
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A nice remembrance. 🙂
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Thanks.
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Glad you enjoyed a warm weather day this week . . . and with your mom, back when.
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Thanks. Still miss her. Besides Jake, she could trump the princess.
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The weather here has been the same. Up down, up and down. Everyone is sick and it is no wonder. Cute story about your mom. I think, as we get older, things of importance come to the surface. Like being kind to animals. My mom would have done the same thing. Let other things go…….
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My Mom was all about people. My cousins and aunts used to stop by during the day (women didn’t work in the 50s and early 60s) to chat. I always looked forward to those visits as they let this little kid (me) be a part of the excitement and gossip (always benign gossip). She could let go of a lot of stuff. Wish I was more like her.
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Same generation. All of us (our age) want to be more like our mothers.
But we grew up so differently. Give your cats a pet for me I am allergic. I wish I could be close enough to get a cat fix!
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Big hugs and smooches distributed all around!
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🙂
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Reminds me of December, 2011, when we moved from the Toronto area to Ottawa. December 15, was a mild day with light winds and no snow on the ground. An auspicious beginning.
You resemble your mother and she sure looked great in her 70s!
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Maybe it’s the angle but I think I look more like my Dad. Of course the last time I saw my Aunt Hilda (my mother’s 101 year old sister) she said I look just like my mother. My Mom had different coloring and shape (head and body) but there must be something there.
You were welcomed to your new home in style! Canada knows how to do it right!
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